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Your partner’s attraction to all genders does not negate their love for you
Your partner’s love for you does not negate their attraction to all genders
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Some of the alternative terms are gender neutral while others are specific to nonbinary people.
Remember: you should talk to your nonbinary friends to discuss what terms they are personally comfortable with. Don’t assume that enben will always use these terms.
“queer is a slur still used against many LGBT people” and “queer is an empowering identity to many LGBT people” are two statements that can and should coexist
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