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not a single day goes by when i don’t think about gansey losing his shit over seeing blue in the driver’s seat of his car

don’t let this world’s obsession with youth rob you of the big and small joys of adulthood. i spent most of my teenage years and early twenties struggling with my mental health. but there’s no timeline for happiness. for many people, getting older and growing up means having more chances to redefine their values, find their path and stability in life. some people go to college in their forties. some people marry in their sixties. some people recover better after their thirties. there’s no timeline for this kind of stuff. your childhood and teenage years won’t be the only chance you have at experiencing freedom and joy.

i know we have an insane amount of resources, positivity, affirmations and whatnot for mental health, but it’s ok if they don’t work for you. it’s ok if you don’t feel positive or confident or hopeful. you don’t have to force yourself into it. there’s a lot of toxic positivity around & it’s understandable if these affirmations or quotes have the opposite effect on you. there’s no easy or wrong road to what’s best for you and the hard truth about any mental health condition is that you didn’t chooseto have it. you can’t magically think or feel your way out of it and it’s ok to just embrace it, feel it and deal with it in the best way you can!!

really mad and disappointed (but also…. not surprised) that the concept of self care has become a buzzword for companies to profit off and disguise their marketing tools under the “wellness” category. it doesn’t have anything to do with anti-ageing creams, acne gels, shopping sprees, detox teas, “being that girl”, waking up at 4am to do god knows what and whatever product or idea they’ll sell you these days. you gotta consider the fact that the term self care actually originated from black communities/activists and actively included the concept of community care as well. one can’t just go without the other and it has nothing to do with how your skin/body looks, how many positive quotes you spread on instagram or how much you spend.

i know you might not believe this but there are ppl in this world who genuinely love you and will love you!!! with all of their heart!!! and they won’t take pleasure in seeing or making you suffer!!! they’ll want to work with you and grow with you. love and affection and companionship in all of its forms are possible!!! that’s what human beings are best at!!! forming bonds and supporting one another!!!

maybe there is no best version of myself. just me, right now, vulnerable and tired and hopeful, willing to show up regardless of what it looks like.

I don’t think we talk enough about the trope in NaruSasu fanfiction when Sasuke activates his sharingan to remember sweet moments! i mean… sharingan allows you to capture anything and my soul melts when Sasuke turns it on to remember Naruto’s sleepy look or their kiss! how much poetry in the fact that a man who went through the war and remembered every drop of blood in the futures uses his magic eyes to remember love and beauty and friendship… *sobs*

You need it come get it baby

don’t touch me, i’m ugly crying bc chan is really out there saying when we’re depressed, we can find stray kids and they’ll try their best to fix us. 

chan deserves the world. he deserves all this love that he’s getting bc he’s giving so much of his love back to us.

seungmin in miroh

that’s it, that’s the post

man, i knew it looked familiar

n e ways stream miroh for clear skin kids

idk why but this part of the victory song teaser just makes me really emotional??

like, stray kids have come so far - from nine boys who trained so hard to make their dreams come true, where they went through the turmoil of potentially not debuting as nine, to becoming a group that continuously advocates for exposure of mental health issues and controversial topics that should be brought up in the media. they’ve done so much already, made so many stays happy, and they still strive to become better people with even more awesome music.

and just seeing chris in this photo brings tears to my eyes. he’s done so much for stray kids, for stays, for the world in general, and it still seems like he doesn’t appreciate himself enough sometimes :(( he’s put so much happiness in my life, and he should know that him just sharing skz’s music with the world is enough. he really makes this world a better place. stray kids make this world so much more bearable to me.

wow i’m emo also, stream miroh on monday y'all

okay centre minho is what i’m living for…but why do the dance moves remind me of the nat geo vid so much

chan carrying the suitcase around like how he carries the kpop industry everywhere

follow the butterfly and you will find changbin

i can’t get over the noise seungmin made when he was chasing felix aldsjdks

will i ever shut up about bang chan?

yeah nah :)

“it’s for her because i never won’t love her”

iT’S FOR HER BECAUSE I NEVER WON’T LOVE HER

IT’S FOR TONI BECAUSE SHELBY WILL ALWAYS LOVE HER

i’M NOT OKAY DO YOU HEAR ME I’M NOT FUCKING OKAY

After 7 seasons Legends deserved a way better ending than… this.

LEGENDS GOT CANCELLED TOO ?

WTF ?