~Venus in Aquarius / Venus in the 11th

“Friend zoning” is a serious commitment when friends can break your heart more than romance

astrolocherry:

Ways they say “I love you”

♡  Venus in Aries
Bringing you alongside their adventures, asking if you feel safe, holding your hand when you are overwhelmed and can’t keep up, takes heed and respect of your advice 

♡ Venus in Taurus
Ensuring you always have a safe place to go, checking in to make sure you’re okay, being motherly - keeping you nourished and nurtured, attempting to take the stress of life from you  

♡ Venus in Gemini
Putting their phone away to give you their full attention, engaging in your opinions and subjects of interest, always has time to talk to you and remains eternally fascinated with your stories 

♡ Venus in Cancer 
Attempting to get themselves out of a bad or down mood when they are around you, ensuring that you are taking care of yourself, cooking your favourite meal when they can see you are struggling 

♡ Venus in Leo
Dressing up and beautifying themselves for you, playing up to your seductive vices, involving you in their interests and pleasures, trying to hug the sadness out of you, making a big celebration out of your birthday

♡ Venus in Virgo
Remembers your routine and schedule, and the little things that make you comfortable and content, pulling the blanket over you when you are cold, leaving the light on in case it gets dark

♡ Venus in Libra 
Considers your needs before making a decision, comments at length and emphasises your good qualities, talks about themselves in a pair - “we both had a great time”

♡ Venus in Scorpio
So protective that they would probably die for you, tells you secrets they have hidden from the world, refuses to let you settle for less than you deserve, comments about things you have never told them but they have observed, affectionate and responsive to you in their dark and down moods  

♡ Venus in Sagittarius 
Integrates you in their vision for the future - ‘when we travel here…’, ‘once we have done this…’, disagrees with your beliefs but respects them and explores them with you, can check in often out of fear you will run away 

♡ Venus in Capricorn 
Discusses your goals and desires at length and works with you to achieve them, considers your success as their success, affectionate and responsive to you when they have withdrawn 

♡ Venus in Aquarius 
Keeping you close when everyone else is kept at distance, being vulnerable and opening up about their feelings, recognising special and unique things about you and encouraging them to radiate 

♡ Venus in Pisces 
Knowing that you are in a bad mood before you know yourself, remembers your silent nuances and essentials - like how many sugars in your coffee, stays up late with you regardless of how tired they are 

-C.

Strongest to Weakest Chakras:

Throat - our ability to communicate, self-expression and feelings of truth, accepting your originality, expressing your authentic voice, allows you to stand up for what you believe in.  

Heart - our ability to love, our joy and inner peace, sense of caring and compassion, allows us to realize that we are part of something larger than ourselves.

Third Eye - our ability to focus and see the big picture, our intuition and imagination, spiritual reflection and contemplation, our ability to internalize the outer world and externalize our inner world, access to our inner guidance, developing an objective wisdom.

Solar Plexus - our self-worth and self-confidence, ability to be in control of our lives, our center of willpower, self-discipline and personal power, allows you to meet life’s challenges, perseverance and responsibility.

Base - our most basic primal instincts, survival issues, foundation of physical energy, allows us courage and resourcefulness.  

Sacral -our ability to accept others and new experiences, sense of abundance and sexuality, passion and pleasure center, center of physical feeling and sensuality, allows you to live in the present.

* Crown chakra not included as it is technically unattainable until a human being has reached full enlightenment.

plutosunshine:

What irritates you in people?

Opposite signs are so different but also have something in common. So they are like scales that can’t be stopped at times. If your Venus sign may show what you like and your taste, the opposite sign of your Venus may show what irritates you the most. Remember that it is not hate! It is just an irritation; this feeling often turns into liking. Remember about unstoppable scales!

Also, check the house your Venus is in and aspects!

Venus in Aries – opposite sign is Libra

You may be really irritated by indecisiveness. You don’t like seeing someone pleasing others and trying to fulfill their wishes instead of their own. Dependence irritates you because you are such an independent and determined human being. You want exact, direct, and straightforward answers to your questions, and an unclear attitude irritates you. You are irritated by the inability of someone to stand up for themselves.

Venus in Taurus – opposite sign is Scorpio

You are irritated by mysteries. You are not so insightful to read thoughts so you dislike when someone tries to show you something through signs and hints. You don’t understand why some people choose to suffer if they can choose not to do that. You can’t fully understand why they do something so passionately without any important reason.

Venus in Gemini – opposite sign is Sagittarius

You are irritated by a straightforward and direct attitude. You are a social butterfly in some way and you can’t understand why some people choose to be abrupt. You are irritated by showing off. You dislike when people don’t think about others at all and when they are too honest and carefree because you think that it is a way to get attention.

Venus in Cancer – opposite sign is Capricorn

You are irritated by dry, unemotional, and cold people. You can’t understand how it is possible not to empathize with everyone and genuinely support them. You are irritated when people act too practically and without heart. You can’t understand why some people are not loving, emotional, and giving.

Venus in Leo – opposite sign is Aquarius

Both signs have ego issues so you are irritated by the uniqueness of some people because you think that they try to get attention. You think that they are not so special and they are just pretending. You are irritated when people are overly free, independent, and not trying to get approval. Because you unconsciously seek for approval of others.

Venus in Virgo – opposite sign is Pisces

You are irritated by chaos. You dislike when everything is not in order and when some people don’t follow rules. You don’t like when people are late, lose their things, or forget something. You are irritated by irresponsible people. Also, sometimes you don’t like when others pretend that they are helping others but actually not.

Venus in Libra – opposite sign is Aries

You are irritated by overly honesty and straightforwardness. You don’t like hurting the feelings of others so you don’t understand why some people just say what they say. You dislike when others don’t choose their words carefully. Also, you are irritated by people who want to win no matter what and it doesn’t matter what it is.

Venus in Scorpio – opposite sign is Taurus

You are irritated by overindulgence. You don’t like lazy and stubborn people. You dislike when someone is too practical, unemotional, and down-to-earth. You are irritated by people who can’t understand hidden motifs. Also, you dislike when they understand information too literally.

Venus in Sagittarius – opposite sign is Gemini

You are irritated by liars. You don’t understand why it is so hard for people to tell the truth. Also, you don’t like superficiality. You are a great philosopher and quickly understand when people know just a little bit but pretend to know a lot.

Venus in Capricorn – opposite sign is Cancer

You are irritated by moody and overly emotional people. You don’t understand why they make drama from everything and play victim. You see things practically so you dislike when others act like a child just because of emotions. You are irritated by showing weaknesses and too personal feelings.

Venus in Aquarius – opposite sign in Leo

You are irritated by people who think that they are the center of the universe. You dislike when someone is showing off and pretending to be the best at everything. You don’t like when people put themselves on a pedestal without asking anyone. You are irritated by immature and childish behavior.

Venus in Pisces – opposite sign in Virgo

Boring and strict people who are trying to be right all the time irritate you. You dislike when someone is too anxious about something. Also, you don’t like when people follow discipline and rules too strictly. You are irritated when people are trying to teach you how to live.

Venus secret

How to attract boys based on their Venus signs

Venus in Aries: you need to keep him curious, so firstly, try to pay attention to this guy because everybody loves to be noticed and then all of the sudden be as cold as possible. He will be confused and curious why did you act like that so that’s the moment you become interesting for him.

☕Venus in Taurus: this guy loves visuality: big boobs, aesthetic face and trendy clothes. He’s looking for classic relationship with somebody kind, well-mannered and feminine so no smoking or swearing. This type is one of the easiest to get because you can gain his love by delicious food.

Venus in Gemini: his perfect type is somebody smart and talkative who can be a part of every conversation whether it’s about sports or computer science. Funny and always cheerful. If you want this guy likes you than forget about all sad things and be the most positive person in the room

Venus in Cancer: this type is looking for real feelings with somebody who is kind and caring just like a mother. You need to make him feel like home so always ask how is he and show other signs of care. Also you need to be small&cute so he would want to hug you.

Venus in Leo: you can’t get attention of this guy without fashion clothes and glam makeup. You need to be the most beautiful, the most generous and the richest person in the room (or at least you need to look like the richest), moreover, you should act like you’re the queen: good manners, controlling your speech etc.

Venus in Virgo: this guy isn’t looking for feelings so be prepared to it. You should be smart and tidy. Remember that every detail is important so don’t show up in front of him if your hair is messy or if you have a pimple. Erudition is the most important criteria to him so read some science or historical facts if you want to make a good impression

Venus in Libra: this guy is looking for a nice company. For somebody who is cute, charming and doesn’t think too much about routine problems. Friendly and knows a lot about relationships so will be able to find compromises. Just be positive, polite and don’t be too smarty or serious.

Venus in Scorpio: you should have a bunch of secrets so be quite and don’t talk to much. He wants a partner whom he can solve like a detective story, that’s why you should get his attention like in mystic series: keep looking at him all the time without saying anything.

⌛Venus in Sagittarius: he loves exotic so try to add something foreign in your look if your appearance is not unusual. However, it’s not as important as your knowledge and wisdom. If you have never thought about why do we live or stuff like that what you two would talk about? Good sense of humor is necessary too

Venus in Capricorn: he’s looking for somebody who can be really comfortable. If he has a normal job then he probably needs somebody who can be a good housekeeper and baby raiser, or if he has no job then he’s looking for somebody rich. Just be as serious as all Capricorns to get his attention

Venus in Aquarius: this guy has no ideal type he’s just looking for somebody who would understand him and can become a truly friend. The only advice I can give is to be yourself and have fun around because this type loves jokes.

Venus in Pisces: this is the most interesting Venus of all because there’re some levels of it. Mostly this placement is looking for a muse who will inspire him and in this case, you’ll never know what his muse is exactly. But as for different Pisces level he’s looking for somebody who will perfectly suits him so you need to be just like him.

ahzodiac:

Aries

Believeslove should happen at first sight; likes independent, go-getters; enjoys chasing and being chased

Arguing and friendly competition is an aphrodisiac

Attractslove by inspiring/encouraging suitors to pursue and “win” her/him

Flirtsby teasing and picking fights; 

Wantsto be #1 in the relationship (and in her/his partner’s life) or will lose interest quickly

Taurus

Believeslove should come after a lot of long-term consideration; likes (and is impressed by) wealthy people

Rich, comfort foods, receiving massages, listening to music, and fragrances that smell like something edible (mmm vanilla!) are aphrodisiacs

Attractslove by being emotionally stable and having consistent habits

Flirtsby providing physical comfort

Wantsto feel secure in relationships and “know where this is going”

Gemini

Believeslove should mean never having to say, “I’m bored”; likes quotable, multifaceted people who have lots of diverse interests

Verbal/written expressions of love are aphrodisiacs

Attractslove by being infinitely entertaining

Flirtsby sharing thoughts & feelings and assigning pet names

Wants24/7 communication accessibility in relationships; variety, unpredictability

Cancer

Believeslove should be nurturing; likes people who need mothering (or who are mothering) and are appreciative of her efforts

Emotional bonding and cuddling are aphrodisiacs

Attractslove by making people feel cozy and sheltered; 

Flirtsby feeding and/or cooking for someone, remembering preferences, giving thoughtful tokens of affection

Wantsinterdependence in relationships

Leo

Believeslove should ALWAYS consist of romance, drama, fun, and loyalty; likes people who stand out in socially acceptable ways 

Receiving awe-inspiring gifts and positive, focused attention from an audience are aphrodisiacs

Attractslove by playing up strengths and downplaying weaknesses, and inspiring chivalry

Flirtsby complimenting

Wantsemotionally-moving displays of appreciation and gratitude in relationships

Virgo

Believeslove should involve making a commitment to take care of someone else; likes hard-workers who pay attention to details (conversely, is also attracted to flawed, disorganized partners that need fixing)

good hygiene, a neat appearance, and an orderly environment are aphrodisiacs 

Attractslove by handling all of the “dirty work” in a partner’s life

Flirtsby making analytical observations, self-deprecating humor, or offering self-improvement advice

Wantsto feel needed and useful in relationships

Libra

Believeslove should = 50/50 partnership + 24/7 romance; likes attractive, intelligent, and sociable people

The usual romantic clichés (such as rose petals on the bed and long, moonlit walks on the beach) are aphrodisiacs

Attractslove by being charming company, understanding and attentive

Flirtsindiscriminately for attention and popularity

Wantsequality, romance, and lots of attention in relationships; beauty, making plans as a couple 

Scorpio

Believeslove should be passionate, intense, and life-altering; likes to associate with powerful people whose sexuality comes in contradictory layers

A strong sex drive, instant chemistry, intensity, and loyalty are aphrodisiacs

Attractslove by keeping a mate’s secrets, developing an emotional bond, and not wanting to share the partner’s affection

Flirtsthrough seduction

Wantsto have control and trust in a relationship

Sagittarius

Believeslove should bring happiness, great times, and good luck; likes outgoing, intelligent, independent, adventurous people

Visiting exotic places, meeting foreign people, exploring foreign cultures, and different accents are aphrodisiacs

Attractslove by being friendly, fun-loving, generous, and free-spirited

Flirtsthrough friendly conversation and making someone laugh

Wantsfreedom, honesty, few expectations, and undefined commitment in a relationship

Capricorn

Believeslove should make people keep their word; likes responsible, successful people who can help with achieving aspirations

Knowing what’s coming next is an aphrodisiac

Attractslove by being dependable and loyal; shows affection by honoring commitments and not leaving the relationship; 

Flirtsby getting straight to the point, assessing a potential mate’s value, and showing off their dry wit as they feel more comfortable

Wantsa solid commitment from the right person in relationships

Aquarius

Believeslove should be dessert with friendship as the main entrée; likes free-spirited, eccentric people who aren’t afraid to go against the status quo

Discussing new, inventive ways to have sex is an aphrodisiac

Attractslove by being friendly to everyone

Flirtsby sharing unusual ideas and opinions

Wantsa best friend, intellectually stimulating company and emotional detachment in relationships

Pisces

Believeslove should be a perfect blend of an intuitive, spiritual bond and romance; likes nonjudgmental, creative people who think and communicate in imaginative ways

Dreamy kisses that cause tingles, foot massages, bubble baths, and mind-altering substances or practices are aphrodisiacs

Attractslove by being infinitely compassionate and seeing the best in people

Flirtsby developing and acknowledging a special connection

Wantsempathy, kindness, and sensitivity in relationships

astr-logy:

Aquarius Venus is for people who try to protect their heart (and so they are distant lovers)

Aquarius sun is for people who try to protect their vitality (and so they are distant consolers)

Aquarius moon is for people who try to protect their spirit (and so they are distant interpersonally)

cosmicrew:

Aries Venus: “That’s what love is: falling into the jaws of fire.” (Hélène Cixous)

Taurus Venus: “Lately I’ve been thinking about who I want to love, and how I want to love, and why I want to love the way I want to love, and what I need to learn to love that way, and who I need to become to become the kind of love I want to be…and when I break it all down, when I whittle it into a single breath, it essentially comes out like this: Before I die, I want to be somebody’s favorite hiding place, the place they can put everything they know they need to survive, every secret, every solitude, every nervous prayer, and be absolutely certain I will keep it safe. I will keep it safe.” (Andrea Gibson)

Gemini Venus: “Truthfully, this is the fabric of all my fantasies: love shown not by a kiss or a wild look or a careful hand but by a willingness for research. I don’t dream of someone who understands me immediately, who seems to have known me my entire life, who says, ‘I know, me too’. I want someone keen to learn my own strange organization, amazed at what’s revealed; someone who asks, and then what, and then what?” (Elizabeth McCraken)

Cancer Venus: “It isn’t possible to love and part. You will wish that it was. You can transmute love, ignore it, muddle it, but you can never pull it out of you. I know by experience that the poets are right: love is eternal.” (E.M.Forster)

Leo Venus: “You came into my life — not as one comes to visit … but as one comes to a kingdom where all the rivers have been waiting for your reflection, all the roads, for your steps.” … “You, who opened suns in my heart,” (Vladimir Nabokov // Alfonsina Storni)

Virgo Venus: “Lie beside me and let the seeing be the healing. No need to hide. No need for either darkness or light. Let me see you as you are.” (Jeanette Winterson)

Libra Venus:  “It’s like this; say there’s a whole room of people and you’re somewhere in the middle of them all. I walk in and I see you, but you don’t suddenly become the only person in the room. God no. You become the room. You are the room.” (Salma Deera)

Scorpio Venus: “Tell me, how does it feel with my teeth in your heart?” (Medea, Euripides)

Sagittarius Venus: “I have been waiting all my life to be with you. My heart slams against my ribs when I think of the slaughtered nights I spent all over the world waiting to feel your touch.” (Henry Rollins)

Capricorn Venus: “Don’t worry. The night won’t frighten me and the cold won’t drive me away. There is no winter as cold as my winter, no night as deep as my night. I myself freeze the wind. I myself darken the sky.” (Dulce María Loynaz)

Aquarius Venus: “In my dreams I am kissing your mouth and you’re whispering ‘where have you been?’ I say, ‘I’ve been lost but I’m here now. You’re the only person who has ever been able to find me.” (Sue Zhao)

Pisces Venus: “But at night I dream of a love so heavy it makes my spine throb – I dream up a lover who makes love like he is separating salt from water.” (Salma Deera)