■ libra in the 2nd house natal people spend their money on pretty clothes, jewelry, aesthetic - somewhat unnecessary - things, it’s hard for them to save money, especially if they have some leo placements. But if they do have a virgo rising, they think a lot before buying anything.
□ the best gifts to give a virgo rising (venus or sun as well) is something they get to actually use most of the time or on a daily basis.
■ leo moons love attention as much as leo suns but they’re lowkey about it.
□ sun in the 12th makes someone very secretive about who they truly are, it’s like wearing a mask all the time, they might not even know it themselves.
■ taurus moons find comfort in spending money and eating their favourite foods.
□ capricorn venus have a thing for ankles, feet and tattoos.
■ both your ascendant/rising and your MC are shown mostly when it comes to first impressions.
□ cancer placements are usually surrounded by women in their family, they might have a sister or are very close to their mom, or just feel more comfortable around women in general.
■ capricorn suns/rising had to grow up too fast, that’s why they could be very mature at such a young age.
□ mars in cancer does NOT get along with another mars in cancer, or it’s just really hard since they get easily offended and get crazy angry. Also, absolutely hate not being listened to.
■ mars in capricorn is the scariest sign when angry that I’ve seen so far. They just have this “don’t give a fuck about you” face that makes them look like they could murder anyone.
□ venus in leo are the one of the most committed placements in relationships, but they need it to be reciprocated.
■ you can see how competitive someone is by their mars sign.
□ someone’s fashion style is defined mostly by their venus,rising&2nd house.
■ cancer risings usually have either big eyes/small nose/small lips, or small eyes/small nose/big lips.
□ libra risings tend to have big smiles.
■ mercury in the 12th house find it really hard to express themselves/talk the way they want to.
♡ Venus in Aries Bringing you alongside their adventures, asking if you feel safe, holding your hand when you are overwhelmed and can’t keep up, takes heed and respect of your advice
♡ Venus in Taurus Ensuring you always have a safe place to go, checking in to make sure you’re okay, being motherly - keeping you nourished and nurtured, attempting to take the stress of life from you
♡ Venus in Gemini Putting their phone away to give you their full attention, engaging in your opinions and subjects of interest, always has time to talk to you and remains eternally fascinated with your stories
♡ Venus in Cancer Attempting to get themselves out of a bad or down mood when they are around you, ensuring that you are taking care of yourself, cooking your favourite meal when they can see you are struggling
♡ Venus in Leo Dressing up and beautifying themselves for you, playing up to your seductive vices, involving you in their interests and pleasures, trying to hug the sadness out of you, making a big celebration out of your birthday
♡ Venus in Virgo Remembers your routine and schedule, and the little things that make you comfortable and content, pulling the blanket over you when you are cold, leaving the light on in case it gets dark
♡ Venus in Libra Considers your needs before making a decision, comments at length and emphasises your good qualities, talks about themselves in a pair - “we both had a great time”
♡ Venus in Scorpio So protective that they would probably die for you, tells you secrets they have hidden from the world, refuses to let you settle for less than you deserve, comments about things you have never told them but they have observed, affectionate and responsive to you in their dark and down moods
♡ Venus in Sagittarius Integrates you in their vision for the future - ‘when we travel here…’, ‘once we have done this…’, disagrees with your beliefs but respects them and explores them with you, can check in often out of fear you will run away
♡ Venus in Capricorn Discusses your goals and desires at length and works with you to achieve them, considers your success as their success, affectionate and responsive to you when they have withdrawn
♡ Venus in Aquarius Keeping you close when everyone else is kept at distance, being vulnerable and opening up about their feelings, recognising special and unique things about you and encouraging them to radiate
♡ Venus in Pisces Knowing that you are in a bad mood before you know yourself, remembers your silent nuances and essentials - like how many sugars in your coffee, stays up late with you regardless of how tired they are
Venus in Leo is a queenin Leo. Her crown is made of liquid gold, and its radianceis said to open the curtains of night itself. She’s known for the gloriousballs she arranges in summer, where all honourablepersonalities of the kingdom gather in reckless celebration.
Those born with their Venus in Leo are charming and captivating. Their ability to produce relationships with surrounding people and objects is blessed by Leo’s brightness of the self, and Venus thrives in this stunning combination. Here, she is enchanted by the starthat shines within herself and is even more fascinated when she finds people that share the brightness of their star too.
As a queen, Venus in Leo seems to always be surrounded by brilliant, powerful people. The brilliance of her affection is warmandembracesthose in her company, magnifying their importance and their individual lights. As Leo is the sign of creative, sunny love, Venus is very comfortable here and deals rather naturally with love adventures and affairs where she can exert her power. Relationships are a way to nourish the inner star with other people’s admiration and praise, and, conceptually, Venus here enjoys taking control and ruling over the relationship in some way. This, of course, is subject to how this Venus interacts with other planets and angles, but nevertheless the individual likes projecting themselves in this position.
The Sun is a generous star, and with his blessings Venus in Leo also lends her brilliance, sharing her stage with others. Her lovers and friends find that their importance is exalted when in this Venus’ company, and they, too, become powerfulandadmirable.
Artistic expression is favoured in this placement, as the self is in love with its beautiful ways of expressing itself creativelyand adores seeing it reflected in the outside, especially if that’ll draw people’s attention or admiration. Moreover, Venus in Leo is at ease when dealing with children and can easily jump into their sunlit world because of her natural happiness and her way of creating pleasure in all things.
Detail: Sir Frank Dicksee, “La belle dame sans merci”; 1901.
Sacral - our ability to accept others and new experiences, sense of abundance and sexuality, passion and pleasure center, center of physical feeling and sensuality, allows you to live in the present.
Throat - our ability to communicate, self-expression and feelings of truth, accepting your originality, expressing your authentic voice, allows you to stand up for what you believe in.
Heart - our ability to love, our joy and inner peace, sense of caring and compassion, allows us to realize that we are part of something larger than ourselves.
Solar Plexus - our self-worth and self-confidence, ability to be in control of our lives, our center of willpower, self-discipline and personal power, allows you to meet life’s challenges, perseverance and responsibility.
Third Eye - our ability to focus and see the big picture, our intuition and imagination, spiritual reflection and contemplation, our ability to internalize the outer world and externalize our inner world, access to our inner guidance, developing an objective wisdom.
Base - our most basic primal instincts, survival issues, foundation of physical energy, allows us courage and resourcefulness.
* Crown chakra not included as it is technically unattainable until a human being has reached full enlightenment.
Opposite signs are so different but also have something in common. So they are like scales that can’t be stopped at times. If your Venus sign may show what you like and your taste, the opposite sign of your Venus may show what irritates you the most. Remember that it is not hate! It is just an irritation; this feeling often turns into liking. Remember about unstoppable scales!
Also, check the house your Venus is in and aspects!
Venus in Aries – opposite sign is Libra
You may be really irritated by indecisiveness. You don’t like seeing someone pleasing others and trying to fulfill their wishes instead of their own. Dependence irritates you because you are such an independent and determined human being. You want exact, direct, and straightforward answers to your questions, and an unclear attitude irritates you. You are irritated by the inability of someone to stand up for themselves.
Venus in Taurus – opposite sign is Scorpio
You are irritated by mysteries. You are not so insightful to read thoughts so you dislike when someone tries to show you something through signs and hints. You don’t understand why some people choose to suffer if they can choose not to do that. You can’t fully understand why they do something so passionately without any important reason.
Venus in Gemini – opposite sign is Sagittarius
You are irritated by a straightforward and direct attitude. You are a social butterfly in some way and you can’t understand why some people choose to be abrupt. You are irritated by showing off. You dislike when people don’t think about others at all and when they are too honest and carefree because you think that it is a way to get attention.
Venus in Cancer – opposite sign is Capricorn
You are irritated by dry, unemotional, and cold people. You can’t understand how it is possible not to empathize with everyone and genuinely support them. You are irritated when people act too practically and without heart. You can’t understand why some people are not loving, emotional, and giving.
Venus in Leo – opposite sign is Aquarius
Both signs have ego issues so you are irritated by the uniqueness of some people because you think that they try to get attention. You think that they are not so special and they are just pretending. You are irritated when people are overly free, independent, and not trying to get approval. Because you unconsciously seek for approval of others.
Venus in Virgo – opposite sign is Pisces
You are irritated by chaos. You dislike when everything is not in order and when some people don’t follow rules. You don’t like when people are late, lose their things, or forget something. You are irritated by irresponsible people. Also, sometimes you don’t like when others pretend that they are helping others but actually not.
Venus in Libra – opposite sign is Aries
You are irritated by overly honesty and straightforwardness. You don’t like hurting the feelings of others so you don’t understand why some people just say what they say. You dislike when others don’t choose their words carefully. Also, you are irritated by people who want to win no matter what and it doesn’t matter what it is.
Venus in Scorpio – opposite sign is Taurus
You are irritated by overindulgence. You don’t like lazy and stubborn people. You dislike when someone is too practical, unemotional, and down-to-earth. You are irritated by people who can’t understand hidden motifs. Also, you dislike when they understand information too literally.
Venus in Sagittarius – opposite sign is Gemini
You are irritated by liars. You don’t understand why it is so hard for people to tell the truth. Also, you don’t like superficiality. You are a great philosopher and quickly understand when people know just a little bit but pretend to know a lot.
Venus in Capricorn – opposite sign is Cancer
You are irritated by moody and overly emotional people. You don’t understand why they make drama from everything and play victim. You see things practically so you dislike when others act like a child just because of emotions. You are irritated by showing weaknesses and too personal feelings.
Venus in Aquarius – opposite sign in Leo
You are irritated by people who think that they are the center of the universe. You dislike when someone is showing off and pretending to be the best at everything. You don’t like when people put themselves on a pedestal without asking anyone. You are irritated by immature and childish behavior.
Venus in Pisces – opposite sign in Virgo
Boring and strict people who are trying to be right all the time irritate you. You dislike when someone is too anxious about something. Also, you don’t like when people follow discipline and rules too strictly. You are irritated when people are trying to teach you how to live.
Venus in Aries: you need to keep him curious, so firstly, try to pay attention to this guy because everybody loves to be noticed and then all of the sudden be as cold as possible. He will be confused and curious why did you act like that so that’s the moment you become interesting for him.
☕Venus in Taurus: this guy loves visuality: big boobs, aesthetic face and trendy clothes. He’s looking for classic relationship with somebody kind, well-mannered and feminine so no smoking or swearing. This type is one of the easiest to get because you can gain his love by delicious food.
Venus in Gemini: his perfect type is somebody smart and talkative who can be a part of every conversation whether it’s about sports or computer science. Funny and always cheerful. If you want this guy likes you than forget about all sad things and be the most positive person in the room
Venus in Cancer: this type is looking for real feelings with somebody who is kind and caring just like a mother. You need to make him feel like home so always ask how is he and show other signs of care. Also you need to be small&cute so he would want to hug you.
Venus in Leo: you can’t get attention of this guy without fashion clothes and glam makeup. You need to be the most beautiful, the most generous and the richest person in the room (or at least you need to look like the richest), moreover, you should act like you’re the queen: good manners, controlling your speech etc.
Venus in Virgo: this guy isn’t looking for feelings so be prepared to it. You should be smart and tidy. Remember that every detail is important so don’t show up in front of him if your hair is messy or if you have a pimple. Erudition is the most important criteria to him so read some science or historical facts if you want to make a good impression
Venus in Libra: this guy is looking for a nice company. For somebody who is cute, charming and doesn’t think too much about routine problems. Friendly and knows a lot about relationships so will be able to find compromises. Just be positive, polite and don’t be too smarty or serious.
Venus in Scorpio: you should have a bunch of secrets so be quite and don’t talk to much. He wants a partner whom he can solve like a detective story, that’s why you should get his attention like in mystic series: keep looking at him all the time without saying anything.
⌛Venus in Sagittarius: he loves exotic so try to add something foreign in your look if your appearance is not unusual. However, it’s not as important as your knowledge and wisdom. If you have never thought about why do we live or stuff like that what you two would talk about? Good sense of humor is necessary too
Venus in Capricorn: he’s looking for somebody who can be really comfortable. If he has a normal job then he probably needs somebody who can be a good housekeeper and baby raiser, or if he has no job then he’s looking for somebody rich. Just be as serious as all Capricorns to get his attention
Venus in Aquarius: this guy has no ideal type he’s just looking for somebody who would understand him and can become a truly friend. The only advice I can give is to be yourself and have fun around because this type loves jokes.
Venus in Pisces: this is the most interesting Venus of all because there’re some levels of it. Mostly this placement is looking for a muse who will inspire him and in this case, you’ll never know what his muse is exactly. But as for different Pisces level he’s looking for somebody who will perfectly suits him so you need to be just like him.
Believeslove should happen at first sight; likes independent, go-getters; enjoys chasing and being chased
Arguing and friendly competition is an aphrodisiac
Attractslove by inspiring/encouraging suitors to pursue and “win” her/him
Flirtsby teasing and picking fights;
Wantsto be #1 in the relationship (and in her/his partner’s life) or will lose interest quickly
Taurus
Believeslove should come after a lot of long-term consideration; likes (and is impressed by) wealthy people
Rich, comfort foods, receiving massages, listening to music, and fragrances that smell like something edible (mmm vanilla!) are aphrodisiacs
Attractslove by being emotionally stable and having consistent habits
Flirtsby providing physical comfort
Wantsto feel secure in relationships and “know where this is going”
Gemini
Believeslove should mean never having to say, “I’m bored”; likes quotable, multifaceted people who have lots of diverse interests
Verbal/written expressions of love are aphrodisiacs
Attractslove by being infinitely entertaining
Flirtsby sharing thoughts & feelings and assigning pet names
Wants24/7 communication accessibility in relationships; variety, unpredictability
Cancer
Believeslove should be nurturing; likes people who need mothering (or who are mothering) and are appreciative of her efforts
Emotional bonding and cuddling are aphrodisiacs
Attractslove by making people feel cozy and sheltered;
Flirtsby feeding and/or cooking for someone, remembering preferences, giving thoughtful tokens of affection
Wantsinterdependence in relationships
Leo
Believeslove should ALWAYS consist of romance, drama, fun, and loyalty; likes people who stand out in socially acceptable ways
Receiving awe-inspiring gifts and positive, focused attention from an audience are aphrodisiacs
Attractslove by playing up strengths and downplaying weaknesses, and inspiring chivalry
Flirtsby complimenting
Wantsemotionally-moving displays of appreciation and gratitude in relationships
Virgo
Believeslove should involve making a commitment to take care of someone else; likes hard-workers who pay attention to details (conversely, is also attracted to flawed, disorganized partners that need fixing)
good hygiene, a neat appearance, and an orderly environment are aphrodisiacs
Attractslove by handling all of the “dirty work” in a partner’s life
Flirtsby making analytical observations, self-deprecating humor, or offering self-improvement advice
Wantsto feel needed and useful in relationships
Libra
Believeslove should = 50/50 partnership + 24/7 romance; likes attractive, intelligent, and sociable people
The usual romantic clichés (such as rose petals on the bed and long, moonlit walks on the beach) are aphrodisiacs
Attractslove by being charming company, understanding and attentive
Flirtsindiscriminately for attention and popularity
Wantsequality, romance, and lots of attention in relationships; beauty, making plans as a couple
Scorpio
Believeslove should be passionate, intense, and life-altering; likes to associate with powerful people whose sexuality comes in contradictory layers
A strong sex drive, instant chemistry, intensity, and loyalty are aphrodisiacs
Attractslove by keeping a mate’s secrets, developing an emotional bond, and not wanting to share the partner’s affection
Flirtsthrough seduction
Wantsto have control and trust in a relationship
Sagittarius
Believeslove should bring happiness, great times, and good luck; likes outgoing, intelligent, independent, adventurous people
Visiting exotic places, meeting foreign people, exploring foreign cultures, and different accents are aphrodisiacs
Attractslove by being friendly, fun-loving, generous, and free-spirited
Flirtsthrough friendly conversation and making someone laugh
Wantsfreedom, honesty, few expectations, and undefined commitment in a relationship
Capricorn
Believeslove should make people keep their word; likes responsible, successful people who can help with achieving aspirations
Knowing what’s coming next is an aphrodisiac
Attractslove by being dependable and loyal; shows affection by honoring commitments and not leaving the relationship;
Flirtsby getting straight to the point, assessing a potential mate’s value, and showing off their dry wit as they feel more comfortable
Wantsa solid commitment from the right person in relationships
Aquarius
Believeslove should be dessert with friendship as the main entrée; likes free-spirited, eccentric people who aren’t afraid to go against the status quo
Discussing new, inventive ways to have sex is an aphrodisiac
Attractslove by being friendly to everyone
Flirtsby sharing unusual ideas and opinions
Wantsa best friend, intellectually stimulating company and emotional detachment in relationships
Pisces
Believeslove should be a perfect blend of an intuitive, spiritual bond and romance; likes nonjudgmental, creative people who think and communicate in imaginative ways
Dreamy kisses that cause tingles, foot massages, bubble baths, and mind-altering substances or practices are aphrodisiacs
Attractslove by being infinitely compassionate and seeing the best in people
Flirtsby developing and acknowledging a special connection
Wantsempathy, kindness, and sensitivity in relationships
Self-defeating habit: Seeking the approval of others in social situations.
Result: The fear of disapproval holds back your ability to spread sunshine and light. You become trapped in self-absorption when you withhold your ability to inspire others with your warm and gregarious nature.
There’s a tendency to censor yourself by expressing a type of spontaneity you feel will be approved of. If you indulge in the fear that others may hold back their love, ignore you, or judge you harshly, you experience a lack of social ease.
In advertently, you might manipulate others by moderating your expressiveness in order to gain recognition. Social isolation and powerlessness ensue when you interpret others’ reactions as personal rejection.
Conscious Expression
Being willing to share your natural gift for drama with others leads to the empowerment of paying attention to their needs for acceptance and supporting them with your warmth. In taking the initiative to include others, you are automatically included as part of the group. The idea is to use your charismatic dramatic flair to share the center of the stage. By recognizing others’ individuality, you are uniquely gifted in proving emotional encouragement, empowering them to overcome disabling emotions and the monotony of daily life.
You are sensitive to the inner reactions of others, and by using this knowledge objectively you lift the audience to new heights of inspired experience. You can bring about ease of communication through your inclusive open arms policy in which each person is able to relate comfortably with others.
When you use your generosity and sensitivity to help others reach positive emotional states, you can experience without fear your own social worth. You have a dramatic talent for inspiring others and an inbred confidence, warmth, and enthusiasm that brings about self-worth. Security with others comes from knowing that you have acted according to your humanitarian ideals.
