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Tumblr is out here recommending my own blog to me under ‘Top lesbian yearning blogs’. *staring into the distance* have I just reached a new level of lesbian?

Currently in the mood for soft domesticity like cooking together, drinking tea/coffee in comfortable silence, making the bed while she’s in the shower, kissing her before going to work…

Every time I listen to this song I imagine dancing with a girl in our apartment and laughing together, neither of us wanting to be anywhere else in that moment

Imagine a girl sitting between your legs, leaning against you as you run your fingers through her hair, and watch a mindless movie, which ends with you both asleep and cuddled up together

Imagine those moments where you see her sitting on the couch in the living room, staring out the window as light from the late afternoon sun pours in, falling perfectly on her. She looks away from the window and looks at you, which makes the contemplative frown on her brow fade away and a loving smile grace her lips

I’m back and with a renewed passion for yearning!

I’m making this brief return to tell you guys about something that happened.

So, I was obviously feeling a bit down from my breakup, and my mum noticed. I was doing relatively alright until she asked what was wrong and if I was okay. So I just broke down a bit and she comforted me.

This woman straight up said: “So you two broke up.”

Keep in mind, I’m not out to her and she wasn’t even supposed to know I was dating someone. After I collect myself, I say: “I don’t still need to come out, do I?”

She laughed so hard she was sitting on the floor with literal tears streaming down her face. And you know what she said next? She said: “I may act oblivious, but I’m not stupid. You should see the way your eyes light up whenever you talk about your ‘friend’.”

Me, half-joking: “I’m sorry, I just don’t like men in that way.”

My mum: *jokingly* “you’re not really gay, you just haven’t found the right man, yet.” *can’t take herself seriously and snorts*


So that’s how I came out to my mum.

Note: my mum was joking on the last part, she’s totally supportive.

Can’t wait for those days where we can just have a lie in and lay in bed, all cuddled up, a little longer than usual. When we get up we’ll drink our morning tea or coffee and slowly make our way through the morning, just the two of us with a companionable silence in the air. I want to spend those calm days with her, only her, with not a single worry on our minds, and a sort or peace in the atmosphere that comes with truly finding your home.

totally-sapphic-posts:

To anyone who heard lgbt slurs this holiday, directed at them or not, I’m sorry you had to go through that. I know it feels horrible hearing your family speak like that

You are notworth less than any other person. You are amazing and beautiful and absolutely valid ❤️❤️❤️

Imagine experiencing life with them… waking up in each other’s arms, eating breakfast together, buying groceries together, watching the rain start to fall… I can’t wait for all those moments

Mentally, I’m lying in bed on a rainy day with a girl in my arms, listening to the soft pitter patter of the rains drops tapping the window while we cuddle.

In South Africa, on 30 November 2006, same-sex marriage was legalized, which is exactly 15 years ago today.

️‍❤️ ️‍

We’ve come a long way since then. Let’s keep going!

me vs annoying my girlfriend by going on about stuff that im obsessed with.

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