To anyone who heard lgbt slurs this holiday, directed at them or not, I’m sorry you had to go through that. I know it feels horrible hearing your family speak like that
You are notworth less than any other person. You are amazing and beautiful and absolutely valid ❤️❤️❤️
also , my inbox is dry ! send in requests if u have them ! :)
y’all will probably attempt to save up money to head to a concert together . they promise you that if they choose the band / artist , you choose next time ! though if you like rock music , you shouldn’t have too much to worry about . they’ll choose either van halen , ac/dc , or some other great rock group !
but since all of you are broke teens , going to places like 7/11 and circle k are the most common . you guys often buy slushees and junk food before sitting on the curb and bonding over stupid stuff .
“do you ever think about if the time traveling stuff was a dream?”
“woah, dude, you could be onto something…”
“guys, how did we have the same dream?”
when either ted’s or bill’s parents’ are gone , you guys have a sleepover ! which of course consists of listening to rock music , watching horror movies that they rented , and them trying to show off their guitar playing skills .
all three of you guys have tried to dye each other’s hair with kool-aid at either one of their houses at some point . ted needed to buy some bleach for his hair since surprise surprise , he’s a brunet . the kool-aid idea backfired and you cackled when some of bill’s curls became multi colored . i’m talking red , blue , and a weird brown color on every curl . thank god it was washed out .
after that , he pouted and sulked for a solid three days before he managed to get most of the dye out .
you all tried baking a cake as a date idea one evening after school . your boyfriends ended up accidentally getting a bunch of flour on your hair and clothes ( courtesy of ted , who claims that the flour dumping was for bill ) . though they helped you do almost every step , minus the ones with flour .
board games ! they both team up to beat you at monopoly , though you excel at battleship . during twister , they were kind of pervy but you beat them anyways with your ✨beautiful s/o charm✨
they try to teach you how to skateboard at some point , which causes you to fall many times or you get right away , depending on how himbo you actually are .
they have watched drama movies with you at the local theater . the three of you went to watch ‘steel magnolias’ and they refuse to admit they cried . you could hear sniffling noises and tiny sobs , which broke your heart and amused you at the same time . after the movie , you bought them snacks to try and cheer them up ( which didn’t really work but they appreciated it anyways )
“thanks babe, but this doesn’t change the fact that *sob* that movie was most non triumphant…”
expect cute little picnics at the park ! they tried to make food , but they ended up buying fast food and just made it seem like they cooked it—
honestly , no matter what you guys do for dates , these himbos always make it fun .
The bad news is that the writer’s block that I’ve been in denial about for the past few months hasn’t left. The good news is that my desire for White Collar content hasn’t been impacted by it. In conclusion I made a short White Collar video edit for operationmorewhitecollar’s 12 Days of White Collar event, which occurs in December.
It’s the first video edit that I’ve been able to finish and feel enough good about to publish, so I’m really excited to see what you guys will think!
The video file is approx. 14.1MB, and a quick google search tells me that tumblr allows you to post videos up to 100MB so I might post it here. Other options I’m considering are posting it on youtube and/or ao3, and adding a link on a post here. Let me know what you think!
A nice full body pic of Fitts. :). Just a really big nerd outside of the band. He’s a very sweet soft boy with a lot of love to give and he loves his boyfriends very much.
Meet “Fitts” he is a fainting goat boy! a very sweet nerd who takes on a totally different look while he’s on stage. Who thought it was a good idea to have him play the drums!? He seems to be really popular but really just wants to be left alone. Fans sneaking up on him really does a number on the poor boys heart. He is happiest in a cuddle puddle with his boyfriends.
He is in a band and relationship with @crimson-chains OC Angus
Alfred is the straight supportive grandpa, he is a great ally and everyone loves him, he makes the best rainbow cookies
Bruce is a disaster bisexual dad with a preference for women
Dick is a disaster pansexual icon, this man does not give two fucks about gender, he just loves to love everyone
Barbara is either bisexual or the best straight ally(second place to Alfred, of course)
Jason is pansexual and Polyamorous, his datemates are great and he loves them with all his heart
Tim is a chaotic gay with a coffee addiction and bad sleep habits, Kon always has to make sure that he takes care of himself
Steph is a raging chaotic bisexual, she’s like a Golden Retriver, must protect her at all costs
Cass is the best, I love Cass, she’s my smol bean and nobody’s allowed to touch her… she is either a lesbian icon or an asexual icon… or both… in any case Cassandra Cain is an icon
Damian is asexual and I also see him as demiromantic (also, I’m pretty sure him and Jon have something, it’s so pure and wholesome I just love it)
Duke Thomas, my baby is pansexual, another smol bean that must be protected at all costs… also, I think he is Non-Binary, but he uses he/him or he/they pronouns
Selina is the bisexual mom
And of course, as everyone should know this by now, Kate Kane, our lesbian wine aunt/gay cousin, honestly she’s the best, she will kick butt if someone tries to insult/disrespect you
Our second graphic is for 3’s Company, the team representing any and all Poly Ships (whether they have 3 members or more). I hope that some of you are planning to “tag in” with a polycule; they’re lots of fun and there are so many possibilities! Whether you’re playing with a dynamic we’ve seen before or pioneering a new polyamorous perspective, we’d love to see it! You’ve got seven weeks left to think it over.
Check back next week for the next team graphic as we count down to our Tag Team Tournament!
Anti-Polyam attitudes that center around “It’s just cheating, but the other person knows about it” SO clearly come from people who have no understanding of why cheating is bad.
Cheating isn’t bad because you had sex with someone else. Cheating is bad because you violated the terms of your relationship. Cheating is bad because you violated your partner’s trust. That’s why things other than sex can be cheating- it’s why there’s emotional cheating.
Cheating is bad because it is violating your partner’s trust. It is bad because you and your partner(s) decided on something, trusted one another, and you said “fuck them and their trust”. THAT is why it is bad.
Polyamory is not cheating. In polyamory, everyone knows about everything and everyone. Everyone consents. There is communication. If not everyone is aware and consents, then it’s fucking cheating. There’s a damn difference.
There’s also the “Polyamory is bad because you’re having sex with someone who isn’t your one true love” which… I could go on all day about how fucking stupid that is, but same principle.
In honor of Pride month- stop shitting on polyamory and polyam people. And stop telling us that we’re all cheaters, because if you say that, you’re coming from a place of totally misunderstanding why cheating is bad. And, spoilers, cheating isn’t bad because of the sex.
