#woman crush wednesday
Versus during the date….
gasp, feigned surprise.
Our digital footprints are a double edge sword…I want to make sure he is who he says he is but I also hate that I now know he participated in the 2005 fad of frosted tips.
Lady Eartha Kitt was my woman crush Wednesday.
Before the Beyoncés and the Rihannas and before being on fleek.
We had subtle, unfiltered, natural beauty.
Now please stare and appreciate this golden melanin
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This week’s Woman Crush Wednesday features the delectable Ms. Minks one of my very very good friends, show her some love! If you are new to this blog, our #WCW segment showcases different women with different hair types so we can learn a little bit about their hair and beauty secrets! So far we have heard from Lydia Forson,Hayet Rida(thathayetrida.com),Anita Erskine,Ama K. Abebreseh,Kokui Selormey,Dede Buckman (accracraves) and so many other fabulous women!
We love to hear from you! Send me a message [email protected] if you or someone you know would like to be featured, variety is the spice of life!
Now, let’s hear what Minks has to say
What do you do for a living?
Living the broke life of a student! I am about to be a 2nd year MBA candidate at George Washington University
How long have you been natural-tell us the whole story
My last relaxer was November 2013. So I guess I’ve been natural for about three years. I wish I had some deep story about why I went natural but I don’t. My relaxed hair was thin and I was tired of it so going natural seemed like a good option. I wasn’t too sure what I would look like so I transitioned for 10 months and cut away the relaxed hair a bit at a time so I didn’t have the shock that comes with the big chop.
What do you LOVE about your hair?
I love how versatile it is and how much volume it has. My relaxed hair did not help my tiny face, especially when it was freshly relaxed and I didn’t like that. My natural hair, especially when I have it in twist outs, hides that tiny face.
What bothers you about your hair?
The upkeep of natural hair gets me. Twisting it at night, to the detangling and the washing, it’s such a process. I don’t trust any hairdresser to take their time to do it right so that’s time I have to take out of my schedule to get it done. With relaxed hair, most of the hardwork is done by someone else in the salon.
Whats your favourite protective hairstyle?
Kinky twists are my go to protective style, shout out to Aunty Philo and her girls in east legon. Takes me all of 2 hours and I’m out of there. I’m yet to find someone as good in DC.
Whats your weekly regimen?
In terms of styling, I always start the week with vim so Sunday night I twist the life out of it. Rock the curls Monday and Tuesday. Wednesday as the curls vanish I pin it up with some volume on the top. By Thursday I’m over it and I’m just putting a band in there (looking like a pineapple) trying to get through the rest of the week.
What’s your daily regimen?
I always spritz some water in there to start and then I put a little bit of my nkuto (pure shea butter), olive oil mix that I make myself. And then style however my heart desires. Depending on how tired I am at the end of the day, I put it into large twist (4-6), cover with my silk bonnet and then pass out.
What is your favourite makeup product?
Eye liner
What’s your favourite hair product?
“As I am” twist defining cream – they aren’t lying about the definition it gives, but more importantly, it moisturizes the hair well.
Do you have any special tips/tricks for us?
Nope, none
Any advice for the ladies who want to go natural?
Make sure you know what you’re getting yourself into before you go down this road! Everyone shows you their bouncy curls but they never tell you the work that goes into maintaining natural hair. And know your hair (texture). Don’t be drooling over 3a hairstyles when you grow 4c hair, you’ll be very disappointed.
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Anita is a true inspiration! I have had the pleasure of working with her once and believe me when I tell you that the answers in this interview are a true representation of her bubbly, effervescent personality! If you are new to this blog, we have a #WCW segment every Wednesday (most Wednesdays) just to showcase how different women approach beauty and style and to inspire you if you find yourself in a rut and don’t know how to move forward.
Other women we have featured are Lydia Forson,Hayet( That Hayet Rida),Ama K. Abebrese, Kokui Selormey,Dede Buckman (Accra Craves).
I love reading these interviews, I find it fascinating that every woman has a regimen that they stick to which works for them. I do believe in sharing and collaboration and this segment is a great way to learn from each other! If you would like to be featured (or you know someone who would like to be featured), please emailme!
Let’s get into Anita’s interview now, enjoy!
Tell us about yourself
My name is Vered – Marian Anita Erskine! I am 37 years old! I am a wife, mother and the last of 8 children!
What gave you the confidence to pursue your dream of becoming a TV personality?
I never knew what exactly I wanted to be you know? I just felt whatever I committed my life to, had to include an opportunity to connect with people by being able to speak with them or talk to them! In September 1997, I walked into Metro TV which was situated at Pyramid House on the Ring Road in Accra. I asked them for an internship and they were happy to give it to me. A few weeks after they had me audition for a new live Saturday show called the Bold and Beautiful Omnibus! I loved being on TV! That experience gave me to confidence to pursue television!
What do you love most about your job?
I love that I am a story teller and a narrator! I love that I interact with people and they open up about their dreams, hopes, ambitions, failures and successes! When people tell you what they think, how they feel or what they have been through, it makes you respect them more and appreciate life!
If you could go on vacation anywhere tomorrow, where would you choose? Ibiza! I have only seen extremely exciting photos! Apparently it is an island that never sleeps! As I get older, I crave opportunities to get out of my comfort zone and do something wild!
If you won the lottery, what would you do with the money?
I would pay off ALLLLLLL MY debts! Buy two more houses, pay off my kids tuition for as many years as I can, pay my church dues off, take my parents, husband and children on holiday and move my company into the tallest building in Accra! Wait how much money would I have won? Ha-ha you see? I already have plans!
How would you describe your sense of style?
I am simple chiq. To be honest, I am only just discovering what I love. And that comes with discovering what I like and don’t like about my body. I am a very late bloomer! So I can say it’s only now that I am developing a true sense of style and it’s simple, comfortable, chiq and aspirational! Are you a jeans or dresses kind of girl? Absolutely jeans! I still have some pairs of long and lean jeans that I bought from the Gap in 2001! I bought them in every shade!!
What’s your favourite fashion trend at the moment?
It has to be my all black outfits and Adidas sneakers! It’s a self-made trend by the way!
What’s your earliest memory of Vlisco?
The moment my husband Regis told me about this Textile giant that was going to roll out a series of fashion shows that ultimately celebrated Women and helped Women express their individual style in a proud African Way! At the time, designers such as Christie Brown were just emerging and it was so exciting to see the breath taking outfits they were creating out of Vlisco!
How do you feel when you wear an outfit from Vlisco? Proud. Authentic. Feminine. Powerful.
Do you shop at Vlisco often? What’s your favourite outfit?
I love the wrap dress! It’s comfortable and totally sexy! It works for any time of the day or for any occasion! Oh and it’s so easy to get a Pret-a-Couture outfit made! There are over 20 designs to choose from in the Vlisco Pret-a-Couture catalogue which are all designed to mix and match with each other. Select one. Now select your Vlisco fabric. The Vlisco in house tailor will take your measurements and you’ll get a date for your first fitting! I have been a bit spoilt in the past because my outfits fit just fine! But Vlisco always advises you do a fitting to ensure you’re getting exactly what has been promised! When your outfit is ready, Vlisco will call you! And Voila! You’re ready to go! Custom made by Vlisco in a style of your choice and delivered in two weeks!
However, my absolute favourite Vliscooutfit has to be my very first Vlisco outfit made for me by Christie Brown in 2009! It brings back memories – I had just become a mother, struggling to understand my life and Vlisco brought me closer to women from all walks of life and of all ages! We all had stories and one common passion…which is Vlisco! I will never forget that event and I never want to let go of that dress!
What’s been your experience of Prêt-a- Couture to date?
I have had the best experience ever! The tailors know exactly how to craft your chosen style to suit your body! I don’t know how they do it! And Vlisco is always very honest on delivery time, which is something I truly appreciate!
How do you accessorize your Vlisco fabrics?
Well it depends on where I am going! I have my VliscoGala – I always go with my bold rings and chandelier earrings! Then I have my Vlisco casual – dressy which you’ll most likely see me wear on television for any one of my shows! For this, I will do my simple pair of gold or diamond studs and let the outfit do the talking!
What do you LOVE most about your hair?
My Hair????!!!! Well my hair has too many lives. Right now it’s at that extremely short stage growing out. But let me tell you, I own about 7 wigs all beautifully crafted by my hair dresser Golden Silk Hair! The owner, Francesca, gets me! What can I say? I have hair for every occasion!
What is your daily hair care routine?
My scalp is very dry so I am obliged to I wash my hair at least twice a week and treat my scalp and hair line to some good old shea butter! What is your favourite protective style? Wigs! Wigs! And more Wigs! I have heard some horror stories, yes…but my wigs save the day anyday!
What bothers you about your hair?
It never understands what I need!
Do you have any hair/style tips you would like to share with us?
Embrace your hair however it comes! As funny or eerie as I may sound, your hair is a reflection of you! It grows what you feed it! If you treat it right, it will adorn you! If you couldn’t care less, it will frustrate you! Your hair is like your face, nails and teeth. It reflects the time you have for it….. Trust me, I have learned the hard way!
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