#ace people
actually asexuality ISNT about who you’re attracted to. its about how you experience sexual attraction. if you can be gay or straight and have that not affect your asexuality, its not about who you’re attracted to. and being LGB is about who you’re attracted to. sure, if you’re SGA and asexual, youre gay or bi and belong in the LGBT community. but straight cis asexuals are still straight cis people, and they dont belong in the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender community.
Truth.
ace culture is being annoying as fuck
But only cishet aceys u mean doe
i meant you specifically actually
It’s funny cos it’s true.
bsd2:
Apparently “pee your pants” is a significant thing going around tumblr now, but because I follow a lot of ace discourse blogs (look, I know, I like to torture myself), I see it mostly used in the “exclusionist” community when they have no rebuttal for an argument.
Anyways, I just want to tell my story. When I was working at this Asian restaurant for a part time summer job last year, my co-worker bailed on me. I was the host that night, right? And an 8-top came in while I was on the phone. Right in front of me they just kept talking and talking while I put the person on the phone.
You probably saw where this is going, but I literally did it. Right then and there I pissed my pants. You guys are probably laughing at it, but it was mortifying. I had to grab one of our menu boards and put it in front of my short shorts and walk quietly around.
The entire situation was mortifying. I still have to live with that experience to this day. To people who say “pee your pants is tumblr’s new kill yourself”: no, you fucking morons. It’s worse.You guys will probably read this and reblog it with “pee your pants” because that’s how you guys are. But whatever. When has Tumblr ever listened to anyone else’s experiences? Goodnight.
hey this is op’s friend and… i don’t appreciate everyone making fun of him. this kind of stuff is really important and you need to listen to people who speak their mind like this?? if we can’t show one person respect when he needs it then how do you expect to live your life in the future.
THIS^^^ Tumblr faggots never stop do they lol.
Holy homophobia, batman!
You kids want to be part of the LGBT community, while continuing to prove how much you hate us.
Go fuck yourself.
And piss your pants, while you’re at it.
if you like someone, and you like having sex with them, and you wanna have sex with them…. that’s what sexual attraction is. there’s not some other secret definition!! it’s not that deep!!
Do people honestly think it’s deeper than this? Iean yes you “have” people that need to be emotionally attached, but still that’s a whole seperate bag.
asexuals who say stuff like ‘I love my partner and I like having sex with them but I’m ace!!!!’
I never intrinsically want to have sex. I am never intrinsically motivated to have sex. I don’t find my partner or anyone sexually attractive; I have never looked at or thought about anybody and subsequently thought or felt “wow, I want to have sex with them.”
But I love my partner, and seeing him smile makes me smile; seeing him happy makes me happy. So when my partner wants to have sex, I generally “like” having sex with him because it’s something he really likes. I “like” it because it makes him happy and it’s one way for us to be physically close and affectionate. (For me, sex itself is at best kinda fun, but often just meh. Nice sometimes, decently tolerable mostly. But with my partner, it’s nice because he’s enjoying it, and I enjoy him enjoying it.)
And that is not the same as sexual attraction. He knows it. I know it.
I “like” sex, and can “enjoy” sex if I put my mind to it, but sexual attraction means that you like sex because you like it, intrinsically, yourself. I don’t, ever. But despite that, I still say I “like” sex in some cases (at least in some way) because the person I love likes it, and I like making them happy. And sometimes I still “want” sex because I’d like to be physically close with my partner, or I know he’s had a rough day, or it’s a special occasion, or I otherwise know he’ll really appreciate it.
Even if you don’t understand, I’m ace and I love my partner and I like having sex with them becauseof reasons besides sexual attraction.
This is literally how women have been socialised to relate to sex for CENTURIES.
It’s not unhealthy to have sex when you don’t want it to please someone else.
Are you being sarcastic?
That is literally rape culture.
If you don’t want sex, the only healthy option is to not consent to sex. “Consent” given just to make someone else happy is literally rape culture.
If you genuinely believe that it’s “healthy” to consent to doing things with your body that you don’t want to do, just to please someone else, maybe ask yourself why?