thehalalgirlofficial:

so you’ve fallen off track this ramadan

first thing’s first, it happens. beating yourself up now won’t change what’s already been done (or hasn’t been).

secondly, know that Allah ﷻ is the most forgiving, so if He ﷻ wants, He ﷻ can choose to overlook all the mistakes you’ve made and turn them into good deeds, so neverloosehope

now, the most important thing is that you still have time. ramadan isn’t over yet. let’s work on making the absolute most of whatever’s left.

1. wrote down your goals- this will make them more tangible and once you place them somewhere visible, it’ll serve as a reminder of what you ought to be doing. be realistic about how big you make your benchmarks, but don’t completely dismiss your ability to give it your all once you get down to it (inshaAllah ﷻ)
2. make a plan- so, you know you want to recite the entire qu’ran this month, and you don’t have a full 30 days to do it anymore? that’s ok, plan out how much you can recite daily in order to complete your goal. similarly, have an approach for each individual goal so you’re not left wondering how to achieve them.
3. hold yourself accountable- this varies widely for different people. some like to use a chart or app to ensure they stay on track whilst others need a buddy to check in with. some need a variety of methods. figure out what works best for you and then commit to not letting yourself slide anytime you fail to complete an intended task
4. time is everything- as stated in sura asr, man is at a loss with time. it’s truly the one thing we can never get back. try to keep this in mind for the rest of the month, so that as soon as you feel you’re about to waste time on an app or doing something unnecessary, you snap yourself out of it. there are only 720 hours in ramadan, and out of that, you need time to eat, sleep, and use the bathroom. after that, every hour counts and we can’t afford to waste even one.
5. lastly, turn to Allah ﷻ for help- make dua to Allah ﷻ to help you make the most of this ramadan and keep firm faith in your ability to do so. if you have hope in Allah ﷻ’s mercy, He ﷻ will definitely take care of you.

there’s a lot more to be said on this topic, but these are just a few tips that i feel are basic necessities. may Allah ﷻ grant us all the tawfiq to reap the most benefit of this most blessed month. ameen

Ramadan is in the air

When your intentions are pure, the goal is achieved so easily and miraculously that it leaves you in a daze. Despite the obstacles in your way, you continue down the path with such beauty and grace that it can only be understood as God’s special love and favor on you.

Sunset in Jeddah, Ramadan 1443

long time no see hehe. i’m fine

25/2-21

01/11-20

i got very very drunk last night and a guy took care of me

1/11-20

getting drunk tonight :)

30/10-20

i really have up and downs with my mental health rn

message me, ask something in my inbox or whatever i’m bored and need distraction

ask meeee idc which one it is

yesterday i was busy the whole day fixing my room at my moms and i slept here for the first time. but today i need to go to school :/

14/10-20

skipping school today too. i wanna burn down that fucking school

13/10-20

i’m so broken dude omg

12/10-20

i wanna dieee

8/10-20

i’ve been feeling so fucking ugly lately

6/10-20

tired of life.

6/10-20

feeling so sad today and i hate that i don’t know why

5/10-20

this song hits hard everytime

why even be alive when i’m just so sad and depressed all the time

5/10-20

i’m so tired but i had really fun yesterday with my friends until we were about to sleep and the sadness came back.

3/10-20

i’m with 4 ppl right now but i feel so alone :/ i want somebody to hold me

3/10-20

1/10-20

to be honest idk what the meaning of life is. we go to school many years, then we work many many years til we’re old and then we die. wow what a funny life

1/10-20

getting drunk tmrw :)

1/10-20

i kinda don’t wanna be here anymore fuck life dude

30/9-20

i’m sad. i miss being a little kid runnin around, having fun and be truly happy. and i miss having someone holding me in their arms when i’m upset and show me real love :( shit hurts man

29/9-20

there was a fight in my school today and a bunch of policemen came and the ambulance came too. my school is crazy and not so safe lmao

28/9-20

i haven’t been in school for a whole week in all classes since i started school after summer. so ima try to fix that next week

20/9-20

i’m so sad

19/9-20

getting drunk tonight all alone just to drown my pain :/

18/9-20

Oo I was 1 year self harm clean yesterday

15/9-20

getting drunk tonight :)

12/9-20

no one fucking cares until you’re actually dying and that’s a fact.

10/9-20

Suicide Prevention Day. I’ve struggled and still am struggling with suicidal thoughts for some years now. I know how it feels and it is okay to feel like life isn’t worth it. If you feel like that please talk to someone <3

10/9-20

it’s been a chaotic day at school today, the police came and everything was so fucked up. the police in my country doesn’t know how to do their fucking work right.

10/9-20