So, my birthday was last week (got to kiss my health insurance good bye btw) and I just realized I had not yet updated my age in my bio…but for anyone who cares, I have, officially, made it to 26 lol 

TW: mention of calories

Just a brief check in today. No long, venting post this time.

Anyway…today went pretty well. I didn’t make it to the gym like I, originally, had planned. However, I was very mindful with what I ate today. I even managed to incorporate some vegetables and fruit. But, I also made sure to not deprive myself. For instance, after lunch today, I really wanted a cookie, so I had a cookie. AND…I didn’t feel bad about it all. I didn’t immediately head to the gym to work off the calories (which is something I would have done a few years ago).

I’d also like to highlight the fact that I went shopping for clothes this past weekend…and guess what? I didn’t have my usual mental breakdown in any of the fitting rooms I used (can’t wait to report this to my therapist LOL).

Overall, I’m really proud of myself. I know that meeting all of my goals will take longer than I’m used to, as I’m doing it with a healthier mindset this time. But, I know that, in the long run, this will be the best and most sustainable way. :)

Hey everyone!

I am not very active at all but I did post about my new kitten and realized some terf had the audacity to comment on it so I’m here to remind y’all:

This user loves and supports trans women, trans men, and all non-binary people out there

Terfs are not welcome anywhere near me or anywhere in general

I will block and report any terf I find on tumblr

Terfs: I will not debate you, entertain you, or even acknowledge you in any sort of way.

I want to be clear about this now because again I am very inactive here and it took less than 12 hours for a terf to pop into my notifications.

*please don’t reblog*

would it be bad if i had one of the scenes from the downton movie almost exactly the same in the fic, except the character isnt allowed to sit on a table cos thats tapu? none of these character are māori but I hate it sksjjsksjsjk

why is booking a visa appointment so hard. you need to book well in advance. you cant book until you have documents you wont get until next month. you need to have the appointment between these dates. the website only lets you book for the current month. the website only works on internet explorer.

*live tweets stretching myself*

New haircut ♡

Dain got a sweet new flail during his last session so I updated my previous design for his flail a little so that it matches the new concept. The flail is called Zaragosa’s Tooth && it’s got an ice dragon’s tooth at the end !

EDIT: I am only sharing this information to warn people that this person is still exhibiting these behaviours AFTER being spoken to & asked by multiple people to STOP, which they PROMISED to do. They have been blocked by myself & my friends involved (as well as other people), kicked & banned from two servers, & though I’ve tried to give the benefit of the doubt they’d change it’s not looking like it’s going to happen. Please DON’T harass them or anything, just block & move on.

Due to. Getting anon hate. I’m turning off anon for the time being. Askbox is still open, however, the luxury of privacy is gone.

I hope you understand my wishes, thank you.

- Cak

(P.S. Drink some water if you haven’t today. Take care.)

For someone who had a lot of early pagan experiences with Church of All Worlds, it’s kind of surprising that I’m only just now reading “Creating Circles & Ceremonies.”

hyprmemes:

secret encounters starters
edit as you see fit!

• no one followed you, right?
• do we have to meet in the middle of the night?
• make sure no one knows where you’re going
• we can’t meet anywhere else
• do you think if i could meet you in public, i wouldn’t?
• i just don’t want people knowing i’m associated with you
• this can’t be the place they wanted us to meet at
• tell me again why we’re meeting at a place like this?
• are you sure it isn’t safe for us to be seen with each other?
• wait, are you actually disguised right now?
• the keyword was ‘inconspicuous’, if no one followed you while dressed like that, it’d be a miracle
• my family owns this place so no one will question me renting it out
• you were never here, you hear me?
• did you lock the door?
• please promise me no one saw you getting here
• it’s a public place, yeah, but no one we know actually frequents it
• listen, i have a list of places to use for secret meetings, and this one, is not on that list
• we’re very deep into the countryside, aren’t we
• did you make me lie to people about my whereabouts just to make me leave empty handed?
• i’m getting the feeling you don’t want people to see us together
• lower your head, the neighbours can see you through the window
• as far as the world goes, we never met
• you’re the only one i’ve ever shown this place to
• you didn’t tell me us meeting was supposed to be a secret, i told everyone
• change topic, we’re being listened in
• i knew it wasn’t a good idea to meet somewhere known
• no one would suspect us here
• everyone would suspect us here
• an abandoned church? is this the best you could do in terms of location?
• this seemed like the perfect place, neither your side nor my side knows of it
• they didn’t actually see you entering the room, right
• it needed to be somewhere neither you nor i would be caught visiting otherwise
• hey, this isn’t the worst secret meeting i’ve been at, surprisingly
• i don’t think you know how secret encounters work, do you
• you’re supposed to stay undercover indefinitely, not blow your cover in the worst possible moment imaginable
• you probably already know why i wanted us to meet like this
• could we not do this right now? my family is in the other room
• meeting like this is tasteless and you know that
• i just wish i could just walk up to you in broad daylight and let everybody know
• this is the last time i’m meeting you like this
• i’m tired of hiding, i don’t care what depends on it, this secrecy is exhausting
• i wanted to meet like this to end things, they’re starting to suspect something
• did you bring the things i asked you to bring?
• don’t give me that, this was your idea, so shut the door and shut your mouth even tighter
• i think this place is too beautiful for an encounter like this

screnwriter:

intimate starters

• “come here.”
• “stay with me.”
• “i want to show you something.”
• “i love you.”
• “can you hold me?”
• “i don’t want to be alone.”
• “i’m here for you.”
• “stay tonight.”
• “come closer.”
• “why don’t you come here for a second?”
• “i wanted to apologize.”
• “thank you for taking care of me.”
• “i really like you.”
• “is this your first time?”
• “trust me.”
• “let’s stay here for a while.”
• “come to bed.”
• “it’s just the two of us.”
• “touch me.”
• “i feel safe here.”
• “what is love to you?”
• “could you bring me [something]?”
• “i need your help.”
• “come with me.”
• “you don’t have to pretend with me.”
• “i wanted to thank you.”
• “i need a hug.”
• “call me when you get home.”
• “kiss me.”
• “you’re cute.”
• “it hurts when you’re not around.”
• “i miss you.”
• “be one with me.”

hey guys- not worms so if you’re just here for worm content feel free to scroll past but seeing as this is my most followed blog BY FAR i wanna plug my main blog (which is actually a side blog but i don’t use the primary blog anymore lol) SO- if you wanna get to know us more as people follow @velvet-space-system ! and yeah, plot twist, we’re an OSDD-1b system (lol)

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from the bottom of my heart, and I mean this with all sincerity, FUCK chronic illness