Can people just be friends please? Because I’m a girl I apparently cannot be friends with a guy without the whole world doing one of three things 1 - assuming we are fucking 2 - assuming we are GOING to be fucking very soon 3 - suggesting that if we are not currently fucking, we ought to be.
Without fail I become friends with a guy and apparently those are the only three possible outcomes.
I am friends with my co-worker. We have a loose and casual dynamic. He has the same name as my boyfriend, it is the source of joking but it is clear we are not attracted to each other and our friendship is just a friendship.
The manager of another store comes into our store every morning, so knows both of us. And suggested to our boss that I “want his bod.”
My manager’s reaction was to text my coworker and tell him this and tell him that he should definitely try to be a homewrecker i.e. RUIN MY RELATIONSHIP and try to “go for” me because HE deserves to be happy.
1) I don’t want him. That’s been made clear. I really truly don’t. 2) HE deserves to be happy? But I don’t? Like if you set someone to ruin my relationship I’m pretty sure that directly fucks with my happiness. Why is his more important than mine? 3) WHY does anyone else consider this their business?! I am seriously so angry.
