#my personal opinion
Just got cheated on. I’m out of this place the bet doesn’t stand anymore. Might be back when I’m feeling better.
This makes me so mad! Being in the bimbo community as long as I have, unfortunately I have seen this too much and it pisses Me off every time.
It is so hard for anyone who is into this bimbo thing, to find a partner who is into it too, or who is willing to explore it with them. The fact that someone who had gotten so lucky could be so dismissive of that good fortune and to treat them so shamefully is positively infuriating.
@want-to-be-a-bimbo is not a bimbo (yet) but she was an incredibly good sport, and was really holding up her end of the bargain. If her boyfriend could have held it together, behaved like a real Man and a grown up, or even just had any smattering of understanding as to how lucky He was, then @want-to-be-a-bimbo ’s story could have been one that inspired the bimbo community for years to come.
@want-to-be-a-bimbo, wherever you are I hope that you are doing okay, that you feel better soon, and that you come back to us soon. All the best.
Seasonal bimbo crush
It is around this time of year when I am reminded of my huge crush on Anna Kendrick as as Noelle Kringle in Disney’s Noelle. In my personal opinion, based on my own personal preferences she has the perfect level of ditzy bimbo.
Now hear me out. Sure it’s a Disney movie and there is no sex in the movie, although Anna Kendrick can’t help being stunningly beautiful. The bimbo part comes from the fact that Noelle is so consumed with the Christmas spirit and being jolly and making other people jolly she is often oblivious to practical matters of the real world. She is reasonably functional, not completely out of it, but she does better when there is someone looking out for her. Which is exactly the level of delightful ditziness that I like to see in my bimbos. Not brain dead, or dumb to the point of being handicapped, but so focused on being happy and making others happy that she comes across as ditzy.
I discovered Tumblr about a year ago. It turned from a guilty pleasure to an addiction to a conduit for my own brainwashing. I don’t know if it was the hypnosis files or just the constant bombardment of images as I scrolled and scrolled and scrolled. Either way, I cannot deny now that my whole way of thinking, my entire sense of self, has been rewritten.
The difficult part: I am married with kids. And he is not interested in any of this. Even subtle suggestions have been rebuffed. He’s a nice man, but he is interested only in the woman I used to be and pretend to still be.
I’m not sure where to go from here. I’ve tried giving this up and going back to who I used to be. And it works sometimes, for a while, at least. I’ll be away for a few days, maybe even a few weeks. But then I come back. I cannot help myself. And each time it just gets stronger…
If you know my blog, you know that I love bimbos. I don’t think that every girl should be a bimbo but I do think the world would be a much better and happier place if it had more bimbos in it and if it was friendlier and more welcoming for bimbos.
Having said that this next part might sound strange, but I have some hard truths for you. Your first priority MUST be your kids! Most of the time I believe that a Husband’s and wife’s first priorities must be to each other, children being a close second, but if you leave your Husband even though He might be devastated, He is an adult and would be able to take care of Himself. He might even find a new wife some day. But you are the only mom your kids will ever have. They depend on you. I do believe that it is possible to be a good mom and to be a bimbo. It’s a tricky balance to find but it is doable. It is a lot easier of course if you have a supportive partner, but even as a single bimbo I think that you could make it work. You might not be able to be as bimboey as you would like all the time but you could do it. But your first and last priority HAS to be your kids. Whatever decision you make, you need to make it in such a way that the kids are cared for and feel safe and loved.
But let’s not get ahead of ourselves. Let’s not dump your Husband just yet. It sounds like you have only given Him hints of what you want and how you want to be. Is that right? Have you told Him explicitly what you want and the type of life that you want to live? I have noticed that most people never tell their partner exactly what they want, they drop a few hints, without explaining how important it is to them, the partner responds less than enthusiastically and then they get depressed and give up.
If that sounds like a difficult conversation to have then get some help. I suggest finding a kink friendly marriage counselor.
Psychology Today: Find a Sex-positive, Kink Allied Therapist
(Disclaimer: Not all kink friendly therapists are created equal. some may be comfortable counseling you on kinky scenes in the bedroom but may not have experience with 24/7 power exchanges, or you may find one that has dozens of Master/slave clients but is totally weirded out by this whole bimbo thing. So you may need to shop around to find someone who is the right fit.)
Have a few sessions solo with your therapist and discuss developing a plan for talking to your Husband.
Side note: A lot of times in situations like this I see people offer advice along the lines of trying to secretly get their partner hooked on the same stuff that they are into. I’m not a big fan of that approach. Having more sex is almost always good. And it will be helpful when you have your talk with your Husband if He has a per-existing frame of reference to what you are talking about, and even better if He has a positive association with them. BUT you really can’t change the way that people feel about things at their core. Even with hypnosis it always works best with their enthusiastic consent and participation. Don’t try to sneak your kinks on your partner.
Also don’t kid yourself, as alluring as the bimbo life might seem it’s not a sucking on Cocks and lollypops. the bimbo kink, really any kink, can be very isolating if you don’t have someone to share it with, and finding that someone can be very hard.
For example, let’s say that there are 10,000 eligible bachelors in your city, and maybe 1,000 of those that you would actually want to date, when you add a kink on top of that the number might drop to 50-20, and if it is a niche kink like bimboisim and hypnosis then you might be lucky to find two or three in your entire city who shared that kink.
And while some bimbos love the single girl bimbo life, a lot find it super challenging to be a bimbo without a Man to depend on, to please, to focus their sexual energy on, and who can do the big thinking for them. I suspect it is why you see so many bimbo blogs fade out. Without an active and supportive partner it is really hard to keep it going.
I don’t want to completely scare you off from what you enjoy. My whole mission here in Tumblr is to help and support bimbos. If this is truly the only way that you can be happy you should go into it with your eyes open.
Which brings up one last point, is this really the only way that you could be happy? If despite your best efforts you just can’t get your Husband on board, if you decide that you don’t want to leave Him, can you see any other kind of life where you are happy? If that’s the case then I would be happy to offer you some advice and suggestions on how you might pursue that too.
Those are my thoughts, but if any of my followers have thoughts or advice for @trophytoy I know that she would appreciate the help, or even just words of support.
(This post has been compiled from a DM conversation with @trophytoy with her full knowledge and consent to re-post.)
To anyone who thought Lego Monkie Kid Macaque’s Smoke Monster was scary…
This is SOOOO MUCH WORSE in my opinion: Doctor Who’s Vashta Nerada.
I rather take the giant shadow monkey thank you very much. :P
Anyone else think that none of the Hisuian Pokemon variants aren’t in extinct but went into hiding or are roaming somewhere?
We’ve seen this multiple times throughout both Pokemon games and even the movies.
Pokemon: Lucario and the Mystery of Mew, the Ancient Tree had various Fossil Pokemon living there.
Pokemon Sword/Shield: In the Crowned Tundra DLC, there are now Fossil Pokemon dwelling about thanks to meddling and release of different Fossil Pokemon.
I won’t be surprised that some distance themselves from humans or are running around somewhere due to revival via fossils and DNA. Pokemon like Mewtwo, Ditto, Galar Fossil Pokemon and Genesect give enough proof of such things happening.
We can’t forget about Pokemon that evolve use particular moves or areas like Wyrdeer, and the Hisuian Starter evolutions. Someone could be training in Mt. Cornet or with certain moves only to accidentally evolve their Pokemon into one of these Hisuian Pokemon.
As for why the Hisuian Pokemon would go into hiding, remember that their trust with humans back then were quite fragile. There have been multiple times that people had betrayed the trust of Pokemon forcing them to disappear or go into hiding.
Suicune, Raikou, Entei, Necrozma and Hisuian Zorua line are perfect representations of that. They were betrayed or lost faith in people so they left.
This is my personal opinion but who knows?
