gay ppl r like:

goes on date; orders ceaser salad; goes on date; orders ceaser salad; goes on date; orders ceaser salad; goes on date; orders ceaser salad; etc

friarlucas:

one thing i hate about media is how there’s no sort of representation for how badly friendship break ups fuck you up. like there are a million and one films about romantic break ups but i have yet to see a film or television show that accurately depicts how difficult friendships falling apart can be and how that stuff can really leave you with wounds and behaviors that take ages to heal

OMG! Yes, this. My best friend of 15 years dumped me this year because she didn’t approve of me dating “so soon” after the end of my marital relationship, and I’ve mourned the loss of her friendship more than I have the loss of my marriage, tbh.

single life update

Intentionally undefined relationship with multi-racial, polysexual, aromantic man still going strong. Asked for a drawer in December and got it. It’s fully stocked with anything I may need while at his house. I adore him. The feeling seems to be mutual.

Interest in Latina trans*woman still strong but we have moved to a friendship I’d prefer not to fuck up by trying to have a relationship with. Especially since she is significantly younger than me.

Now in casual relationship with male presenting, non-binary, polyamorous person I’ve seen four times. He’s fun and quirky and a little bit naive and kind of adorable.

Chosen not to look or date anyone else for a while. Two steady relationships, regardless of definition are all I can manage with my schedule.