don’t let them shift the focus, ever. “what if the childconsents? what if she wants me to hit her? what if my partner consents to slurs during raceplay?”
no! we’re focusing on YOU! why do YOU want to fuck a child? why does YOU think it’s acceptable to beat your wife? why does it turnYOU on to call your partner racial slurs?
these people justify everything with consent but act like you’re a prude for asking “why do you want/accept that consent in the first place?” don’t let them wave away all criticism of their sexual desires with “i can find someone who’s willing to participate”
“why do you want/accept that consent in the first place?”
hot take i guess but i do wish that people would stop calling men trying to sleep with or being creepy towards oversexualized 15-17 year olds “pedophiles” because it masks the fact that there are two problems society should be stamping out, (1) people who are attracted to young children because they look like young children and (2) people who are attracted to minors because they are dressed up to look like adults. they arent the same issue even though both are disgusting
What a piece of work. How can this monster call himself a Christian. This is just the tip of the iceberg with this hate monger. Oh yeah, and he’s anti-vax and anti-mask.
i think the reason i’m so deeply cynical about literally the entire “anti-pedo” culture on tumblr is because instead of focusing at all on aiding survivors or preventing abuse of children from happening, the entire thing seems to be a mish-mash of alt-right pizzagate conspiracy theories, unhinged abusive people finding any reason to call trans feminine people child predators, and opinions so extremely socially conservative, such as “people under the age of 18 should know nothing about sexuality, not even enough to make ‘nsfw’ jokes”, that they’re actually the same as those of the fascist ruling party of poland, constituting the core argument being deployed to eliminate sex education from schools across the country.
the latter one was like, legitimately the most baffling one to be honest, people sincerely and earnestly arguing that the only way to protect minors was to completely isolate them from any knowledge about human sexuality or any filthy ideas about sex, because if they know enough as to make a single dick size joke, this means they’ve been “sexualized” and are therefore victims of abuse! …this is literally an argument against sex ed in schools, its literally far-right christian ideology, and it actually makes children more vulnerable to abuse, not less.
Over the past few days, a lot of black girls have gone missing around the Washington D.C area.
64,000 black women and girls are currently missing in the U.S. Unfortunately, the media is doing a very poor job at reporting this. When I looked up these girl’s names, I only got about 3-4 articles. We need to do more when it comes to black girls being in danger…..We matter, our fears matter, and there is absolutely no reason this isn’t making national news. The least we can do is trying to spread this information throughout the internet, but the media needs to start heavily picking up on these cases.
4 years ago I’ve worked as a babysitter in my spare time and I’ve never had trouble finding work. I guess the main reason was that I already had 2 years of work experience and was therefore trustworthy and qualified.
Because of T and my insecurities I stopped working as one and focused on school and studies.
Now I am trying to find work again and even though I texted countless families, I’m still jobless, you could argue that it is because of Corona but my sister looked as well for babysitter jobs and already has 3 children to look after (our work experience is almost the same).
And now comes the funny part about all this. In these past 4 years there is just one thing that changed about me.
My gender.
My experience didn’t vanish, my character stayed the same and my overall competence too.
It is not the first time that I hear about men having difficulties to work as a nursery nurse because of parents. Apparently parents think that because of their gender they are pedophiles, so everytime they carry a child they get a weird look from them. But now it is the first time that I experience something like this on my own and it really sucks.
2 years ago we discussed adoption in the religious study classe and my RE Teacher asked us why gay couples have so much trouble finding a child to adopt and the answer was not because of a long waiting list but because of parents who often say that they don’t want two men taking care of their child in fear of pedophilia. And isn’t that a really ridiculous thing.
My main point is that this whole gender thing is absurd. Testosterone doesn’t turn a person into a pedophile. I am still me. And I wanna work as a babysitter because I wanna earn money and have experince and confidence in this work field and not because I wanna touch little children. So let’s stop this gender discrimination let’s start seeing people as individuals with their own characteristics and mentality.
This episode of The Deprogrammer deconstructs the narrative that sex bots –even the ones designed to look like children– are merely “sex toys” no different than dildos and vibrators. However, these realistic & life sized simulacrums of women & children’s bodies serve a much deeper & darker purpose by helping “users” to train their brains to perceive women & children as objects & tools that can be used for their twisted & perverse pleasures.
Women Against Sex Bots // The Deprogrammer is creating original media & analysis to help people deprogram themselves from the harmful & toxic messages contained in propaganda promoting “sex robots” & dolls.
We understand propaganda created to promote “sex robots” serves multiple purposes –other than sales– and we intend to examine as many angles as possible.
We understand “sex robots” to be a global public health & safety concern and we intend to work to elevate this issue until every woman, man, and child understands the dangers posed to our human existence.
In addition to sex robot specific material we are working on media that explores the intersections of patriarchy, colonialism, social engineering, “queer theory”, transgenderism, transhumanism & posthumanism, eugenics, pedophilia, and sex robots.
When I was 14, I dated a 20 year old in a band and over the course of 6 years it’s ruined a lot of aspects of my life.
I broke up with him when I was 16, and tried to remain friends for years, but it never worked. I would try to hang out with him, but he was insistent about us continuing to sleep together, and no matter how many times I said no, I continued to give in. Over the years, he got increasingly weird about it. He would ask me to say that I was 14 while we were sleeping together, even though I was only 16 or 17 at the time. I suspected he was sleeping with the younger girls at his shows, because his band’s following is mostly 14 and 15 year old girls. But I had no idea what was really happening.
I’d gone to a lot of their shows, but it got harder to attend. Mutual friends were always there along with a crowd of underage girls, all singing along to songs about me. The younger crowd knew who I was, and hated me for “hurting” him. The older crowd who used to be friends with me blamed me for his affliction with younger girls, which is when I found out he was taking a lot of these underage girls home with him after his shows. He is 25 now, and still does this.
Everyone sings along, forgetting that I was a child. I was mentally, emotionally and legally too young to consent at any point in our relationship. And other adults who KNOW this is the case continue in their friendship with him, continue to show up to his shows and treated me like I was the problem for years. I have been blamed for making this man a pedophile.
I am now dating someone else, but a lot of those people are my current boyfriend’s friends and acquaintances. They now pretend they never treated me like that, like they don’t support the man who robbed me of my childhood and made me feel like my value relied on my age and my willingness to have sex.
My current boyfriend wonders why I don’t like being around his friends. The same people who are friends with a man who is (by all definitions of the law) a rapist and a pedophile. The same people who think I was the problem and not the victim.
I’m not normally very vocal about this, because when I tell people I’m told that I should have known better. I was a child. I’m still paying for my mistake and he’s still taking children home with no repercussions.
I know that it’s hard to think of your friends as pedophiles or rapists, but if you’re being told that’s the case or if you SEE it happening, don’t be silent. Don’t ignore it. Talk to your friends. Talk to the damn police.
***If you’re an underage girl in Cleveland, please avoid going to see Theta Waves. They have a decent local following and I can name a few too many teenage girls that their lead singer has preyed on. Be safe.***
I just came across a blog titled “whatever I find sexy” and almost everything the person reblogged were pictures of LITTLE (like 5-13 years old aged) girls in suggestive clothes and poses. I reported that shit so fucking quick. Porn is fine but not that. That’s fucking disgusting and people who like that shit deserve to die. Real quick: if you’re a fucking pedophile, unfollow me.
Me: /has a pinned proship post telling antis and harassers to fuck off, and consistently posts proshipper support Rando Anti: i’M tRyInG tO rOoT oUt ThE hIdDeN pRoShIpPeRs!!!! /includes me on proship blocklist/ Me:…………
Not linking or reblogging, because antis will use lists like that for harassing proshippers, and I’m not going to give them the publicity, but like. Come on!
That said folks, keep an eye out if you surf proshipper tags and see positivity posts from new blogs with no other notes. Apparently this scumbag is posting from alt accounts to try and ‘uncover’ the 'hidden proshippers’ so he can libel them and 'out’ them as pedophilia supporters. Which is NOT correct, is dumb as fuck, but there it is. Typical anti harassment.
I guess im asking cus idk if i wanna be associated w ppl who endorse like legitimate pedophila ships ig
Moving to a reblog to address this, because no character limit, and this is a serious subject.
There are going to be proshippers who like and enjoy minor/adult ships, yes. Not all of them: it’s not something I like, personally, it squicks me out, and I’m not alone among proshippers in that. There are plenty of proshippers who actively dislike/are-squicked-or-triggered-by/flat-out-hate different types of problematic ships, such as pedophilic ships, incestuous ships, etc, because the basis of being proship isn’tabout what you personally like or enjoy in shipping.
The basis of being proship is being anti harassment.
Being proship is about not harassing real peopleoverfiction.
BecauseFiction =/= Reality.
Here’s the question you have to ask yourself. Are you okay with, or do you support, harassing real people over fiction? No matter how disgusting or wrong or immoral that fiction would be if it were real? If your answer is ‘yes,’ in any way, shape, or form, then you are not proship. If your answer is 'no,’ congratulations. You understand the difference between fiction and reality, and you meet the requirements to be proship.
Remember: you can’t judge a person by what they like or enjoy in fiction. It does not mean they condone or support or endorse it in reality. Fiction is not the same as reality, and the impact of fiction on reality is not one to one. Fiction is fiction, fake, not real, and so long as you remember that, and choose not to harass people over their preferences in fiction, you’re golden to be proship.
