For proshippers, or anyone really

Make sure to have an acc where youre not proship openly at all, one where you are open and one not

Much like a blog about all being queer and one not

It balances out the stress, sometimes to just blend in, not be special at all, just being a boring normie

It can feel great, you can either have a separate blog, or an entire acc, maybe just reblog stuff there, maybe pretty aesthetic stuff, maybe positivity posts, funny memes, dumb theories, tumblr shenanigans, game gifs, anything! Maybe post some pretty quotes, post pics you took of the nature or city or sky around you.

And it may sound like it isnt your style but it feels nice, atleast give it a try, find what you find most best, and make it your little chill place, you dont gotta label any identidy down there, a completely anonymous nice place

But the other one, thats proship? Treat it more as a venting blog, being openly proship is like being openly gay to your homophobic parents, its a pain in the ass, all you’ll get is people yelling at you, with some people being happy youre bravely openly you

And dont take it too seriously, who knows, maybe put asks off, just vent, just do what you gotta do, rant, if someone doesnt like it, block em, doesnt matter if theyre proship themself or not, its your blog

And of course, you can have blogs that fall in between those

But those two are very important, imo

Hey guys tell me your fave fictional tropes and I’ll rate them

(It can be super vanilla soft or hardvore edgy, i like anything)

hey, are you openly proship? you’re valid and very brave, your transparency and kindness is unbeatable

are you proship only in safe-spaces? that’s ok, self care comes first, you are simply amazing

do you have anti-harrassment or proship-alligned morals but dont consider yourself proship? thats ok, you dont gotta get involved in this whole fiasco, you know your moral basis and that should be enough

Watched Turning red! What a wonderful movie, I kin mei mei and just agh such a good movie, also imagine turning ginger

tbh its good when antis interact cuz me and other people can grow our blocklist of harrassment obsessed freaks

OI
YOU
YES YOU
TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF

ok so is it just me or are anti’s really salty when it comes to ex-antis?
like i don’t like it when a proshipper becomes an anti, but thats because i don’t like saying good bye to people that i liked and now they either hate me or wanna show how to change (when it ends up hurting people)
but any time i somehow end up an some anti’s blog, theres always something about ex-anti’s being bad
and not in a way they hate proshippers, but like adding your partner cheating or something
like they treat them like a kid who turned out not believing in god and is trans when the anti is the evangelical christian

Something random

Thank you world forgiving me all the issues now I can personify my grief

I will eventually

Ik no one ships this but….

I WILL GO DOWN WITH THIS SHIP!

My ocs in a nutshell

Zander: I’m a being of pure darkness I don’t know how to love! And I don’t do hugs

Andromeda: hugs?

Zander: Correction I do hugs sometimes *hugs her*

Explaining my profile picture

So The 1 with the red hair is Andromeda, And the other is zander, Zander is 26 and Andromedas dad Andromeda is 16 and very much in love with zander her dad she still calls him daddy sometimes! Zander goes by he/him pronouns and andromeda goes by she/her Zander is a trans male and bi Andromeda is cis women and is Bi with a male preference the mom left the family when Andromeda was 2 years old so she never really knew her mom but she is completely fine with that after all she has daddy all to herself now! Zander loves her so much to! Zander is so in love he when the mom left and took Andromeda he kidnapped her and has her to this day! They are dating and are getting married soon!

No one move

No one move at all it’s perfect…nice

Tfw

Tfw: Your therapist (grief counselor) calls you by your preferred name, because you want to experiment and your preferred pronouns, and is completely fine with you proshipping and selfshipping to help you cope with grief

A new oc ship

link for credit

The one on the left: his name is Jack, he is 13 years old and he is gay
and transgender and polyamorous he goes by he/him,they/them,it/its and, xe/xem basically any but she/her,he likes going outside they are very kind and loyal he gets into a lot of fights with others over a lot of important things ie: women’s right, LGBT rights,equal rights of all and abortion rights, he gets into physical altercations xem has a crush on their teacher it loves flowers

The one one the right: his name is Jackie they are 23 he is bisexual genderfluid and polyamorous they goes by he/him,they/them,she/her,and it/it’s he likes going to the mall teaching, her students and he is very generous and is very supportive of everyone they have hanahaki (that covers up his eye) because he loves Jack so much and he stops Jacks fights but in heavy support of Jack Jackie bought Jack a chest binder when he came out as trans