Make sure to have an acc where youre not proship openly at all, one where you are open and one not
Much like a blog about all being queer and one not
It balances out the stress, sometimes to just blend in, not be special at all, just being a boring normie
It can feel great, you can either have a separate blog, or an entire acc, maybe just reblog stuff there, maybe pretty aesthetic stuff, maybe positivity posts, funny memes, dumb theories, tumblr shenanigans, game gifs, anything! Maybe post some pretty quotes, post pics you took of the nature or city or sky around you.
And it may sound like it isnt your style but it feels nice, atleast give it a try, find what you find most best, and make it your little chill place, you dont gotta label any identidy down there, a completely anonymous nice place
But the other one, thats proship? Treat it more as a venting blog, being openly proship is like being openly gay to your homophobic parents, its a pain in the ass, all you’ll get is people yelling at you, with some people being happy youre bravely openly you
And dont take it too seriously, who knows, maybe put asks off, just vent, just do what you gotta do, rant, if someone doesnt like it, block em, doesnt matter if theyre proship themself or not, its your blog
And of course, you can have blogs that fall in between those
hey, are you openly proship? you’re valid and very brave, your transparency and kindness is unbeatable
are you proship only in safe-spaces? that’s ok, self care comes first, you are simply amazing
do you have anti-harrassment or proship-alligned morals but dont consider yourself proship? thats ok, you dont gotta get involved in this whole fiasco, you know your moral basis and that should be enough
I will no longer be tagging my posts as “comship” due to my discomfort with the coiner(s) encouraging minors to enter spaces if they are “mature enough” for them. While I’m pretty sure they weren’t talking about NSFW spaces, I still do not agree with encouraging adults to share spaces with minors where abusive dynamics are discussed. I do not believe minors are “mature enough” for discussions like that with adults in the real world. Thank you for understanding
I figured it’s high time to talk about Arlene C. Harris’s Les Mis spinoff series: Pont Au-Change. I’ve already purchased and read the first two books on Amazon, and plan on buying the third one after my next paycheck! Harris has stated that she intends for the series to be as long as Hugo’s unabridged novel, with four out of six volumes already published.
PAC imagines a scenario in which Valjean rescues Javert from his suicide attempt and they go off on bizarre (totally unromantic) adventures together. Although the story centers around these two, it also introduces a slew of new characters and elaborates on the whereabouts of old ones.
Javert’s physical description sounds pretty brick-accurate plus he has grey eyes and Long Flowing Hair ™️ because why the hell not. Also, although the series focuses on Javert’s character devolpment, it also elaborates on Valjean’s tramatic past and hesitant future as he comes to terms with his sainthood and learns not to be SO GODDAM SELFLESS ALL THE TIME!!!
(P.S. This is the CLOSEST thing I’ve seen to Valvert without actually having them bang. Valjean shaves Javert while he recovers post-Seine. Javert rubs ointment onto Valjean’s bee stings like an anime girl. I AM NOT MAKING THIS SHIT UP!!!)
Overall, I really enjoyed Ms. Harris’s writing style and she seems to have a solid understanding of Hugo’s rhetorical, down to the elaborate chapter names and long-winded descriptions. I could have done without Javert’s blatant mysogyny, but hopefully this will be corrected in the later parts as he completes his redemption arc. I’ll try to review the other parts as I read them, from what I’ve seen things just keep on getting weirder!
ok so is it just me or are anti’s really salty when it comes to ex-antis? like i don’t like it when a proshipper becomes an anti, but thats because i don’t like saying good bye to people that i liked and now they either hate me or wanna show how to change (when it ends up hurting people) but any time i somehow end up an some anti’s blog, theres always something about ex-anti’s being bad and not in a way they hate proshippers, but like adding your partner cheating or something like they treat them like a kid who turned out not believing in god and is trans when the anti is the evangelical christian
So The 1 with the red hair is Andromeda, And the other is zander, Zander is 26 and Andromedas dad Andromeda is 16 and very much in love with zander her dad she still calls him daddy sometimes! Zander goes by he/him pronouns and andromeda goes by she/her Zander is a trans male and bi Andromeda is cis women and is Bi with a male preference the mom left the family when Andromeda was 2 years old so she never really knew her mom but she is completely fine with that after all she has daddy all to herself now! Zander loves her so much to! Zander is so in love he when the mom left and took Andromeda he kidnapped her and has her to this day! They are dating and are getting married soon!
Tfw: Your therapist (grief counselor) calls you by your preferred name, because you want to experiment and your preferred pronouns, and is completely fine with you proshipping and selfshipping to help you cope with grief
The one on the left: his name is Jack, he is 13 years old and he is gay and transgender and polyamorous he goes by he/him,they/them,it/its and, xe/xem basically any but she/her,he likes going outside they are very kind and loyal he gets into a lot of fights with others over a lot of important things ie: women’s right, LGBT rights,equal rights of all and abortion rights, he gets into physical altercations xem has a crush on their teacher it loves flowers
The one one the right: his name is Jackie they are 23 he is bisexual genderfluid and polyamorous they goes by he/him,they/them,she/her,and it/it’s he likes going to the mall teaching, her students and he is very generous and is very supportive of everyone they have hanahaki (that covers up his eye) because he loves Jack so much and he stops Jacks fights but in heavy support of Jack Jackie bought Jack a chest binder when he came out as trans
