For proshippers, or anyone really

Make sure to have an acc where youre not proship openly at all, one where you are open and one not

Much like a blog about all being queer and one not

It balances out the stress, sometimes to just blend in, not be special at all, just being a boring normie

It can feel great, you can either have a separate blog, or an entire acc, maybe just reblog stuff there, maybe pretty aesthetic stuff, maybe positivity posts, funny memes, dumb theories, tumblr shenanigans, game gifs, anything! Maybe post some pretty quotes, post pics you took of the nature or city or sky around you.

And it may sound like it isnt your style but it feels nice, atleast give it a try, find what you find most best, and make it your little chill place, you dont gotta label any identidy down there, a completely anonymous nice place

But the other one, thats proship? Treat it more as a venting blog, being openly proship is like being openly gay to your homophobic parents, its a pain in the ass, all you’ll get is people yelling at you, with some people being happy youre bravely openly you

And dont take it too seriously, who knows, maybe put asks off, just vent, just do what you gotta do, rant, if someone doesnt like it, block em, doesnt matter if theyre proship themself or not, its your blog

And of course, you can have blogs that fall in between those

But those two are very important, imo

Hey guys tell me your fave fictional tropes and I’ll rate them

(It can be super vanilla soft or hardvore edgy, i like anything)

Watched Turning red! What a wonderful movie, I kin mei mei and just agh such a good movie, also imagine turning ginger

tbh its good when antis interact cuz me and other people can grow our blocklist of harrassment obsessed freaks

pro-shitter:

shout out to all my pro-ship catboys, catgirls, catpeople, nyanbinaries and alike 

proshipjunko:

Want to know more about proshipping? Or antishippers? Or what any of these terms even mean? Why dont you visit this carrd i just made that explains all of that and more!

*gives every proshipper a Christmas gift*

Here, you deserve it

You are vaild and loved

❄️❄️❄️❄️❄️❄️❄️❄️❄️

Your way of coping is 100% vaild and shouldn’t be policed.

Your ship regardless of coping or not is 100% vaild and shouldn’t be policed.

You are not a bad person for what you ship in fiction.

What you ship in fiction does not reflect your irl beliefs.

❄️❄️❄️❄️❄️❄️❄️❄️

insomniac-ships:

I wonder if antis realize that proship was the norm for most people until the last few years. Don’t get me wrong, there have always been ship wars, and there most likely always will be. But the idea that enjoying or consuming fictional taboo media must automatically mean you condone such things in real life seems to be a fairly recent development. I can’t help but wonder what’s changed.

Perhaps it’s how much more accessible and easy to use technology is now, and how wi-fi and internet access are available just about everywhere nowadays. Maybe it’s in part because parents aren’t paying attention, aren’t teaching their children proper online safety anymore; they just stick a phone or tablet in the kid’s hands and leave it at that. Maybe it’s the lure of anonymity that comes with online interactions. Anyone can say they’re someone else, or no one at all. How many anonymous burner accounts are made by antis with the express purpose of using them to spew abuse? The kind of vileness that they would never say on an account they’re personally connected to because deep down, they know it’s wrong.

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It makes me wonder what’s going on in these kids lives to make them think that their behavior is “normal”. Sending gore and death threats to people is not normal. Telling people to kill themselves is not normal. Wishing for someone to be harmed or assaulted is not normal. Making burner account after burner account in order to harass someone is not normal. Telling abuse survivors that they deserved what happened to them, and that you hope it happens again is Not. Fucking. Normal. Under any circumstances.

“But they’re a proshipper!”

No, friend. They’re a person behind a screen just like you. They’re a person with thoughts and feelings and interests and hobbies just like you. Treat others the way you wish to be treated.

Kindness is free, and so are the block button and tag filtering.

To every anti that’s cross tagging; no you’re not cute. I don’t want to date you. Begone TOT and stop lurking my posts. It’s very creepy and unattractive. Also learn to read banners, you’re embarrassing yourselves

Y'all ugly // Vine

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this gem

pro-shipcutie:

I feel like it should be common sense to not harm real ppl over fictional ships. I swear a few years ago it was

Your daily reminder that all of your ships are vaild and good and that you can have fun shipping whatever you want ❤️

Iwish every proshipper making a holiday themed fanfiction right now a very lovely day. ☃️❄️

If a label is comfortable to you, it is your label. No one but you can define your own labels. Not your friend. Not your family. Not the cryptid staring at you in the corner- you: wait there’s a cryptid staring at me in the corner- not an exclusionist. The point is. Be proud of your identity. No one can ever tell you who you are. Your existence is vaild.

I hope every proshipperhas a wonderful start to the holiday season and that they be safe, happy and healthy

Oh you’re an anti? Get well soon

Also on a side note; y'all really hate fictional ships so much y'all gotta threaten to spread around real csem? There’s so many more morally humane things you could’ve done than do this. Like for example; not even talking to mafu. Acting like mafu exists and moving on with your life, but you just willingly chose one of the worst possible things to do. You talk big on how you want to protect children from the “big scary mean proshippers” but you’re the ones putting them in harm’s way to begin with. The anti movement is therefore not about making kids safe (hell it never was). It’s about scaring and oppressing a group of people they find weird (like the rest of this fucked up society/world). Antis are all sick fucks if they think anyone deserves this because they like 2(or more) fictional characters together as a ship.

What we commonly like to say: “what we like in fiction does not affect our in real life morals.” And hell yeah it’s correct. Antis just showed that. They’re really over here spewing this purity culture BS about fiction while committing real life heinous acts to anyone who disagrees with them.

I’m sorry but it just really pissed me off.