#relevant
hey shout out to queer people that didnt immediately recognize their queerness, or didnt understand the signs from early on.
trans people that didnt know they were another gender until later in life? i love you.
queer people who werent in the closet for years and just realized it all at once? i love you.
bi/pan people who developed/recognized their attracted to other genders later in life? i love you.
ace or aro people who understood later in life and didnt know from the beginning? i love you.
there’s a stereotype that theres always “so many signs” from the beginning of a queer persons life. and for many people, this is a very relatable experience.
But i want to say that sexuality and gender can be fluid and you are JUST AS VALID if you dont have these early experiences.