#spoiled girlfriend
The prep
If you’ve ever been an SB, you’ve done “the prep” before an overnight, a trip or maybe even just a date.
The prep includes the mental mindset you need to get into before going. A lot of that time it includes doing nothing, maybe eating your favorite meal, stuffing yourself with chocolate, cleaning your house… whatever.
I’m about to go on my first overnight with my POTSD and have our first intimate encounter. Ugh. Double whammy. Oh! And I’ll be flying on a Private Jet for the first time…. I get sick easily.
Being an SB can be very mentally exhausting. Especially when you’re going to be intimate with someone who’s MUCH older than you. Despite the chemistry out of the bedroom, in bedroom chemistry is a WHOLE different ballgame.
I’ve been cuddling my cat, cleaning my house.. and just laying on my couch… lol
Reddit made me a nasty person
I just deleted it. I was obsessed with the drama and commenting. Granted, my comments were never awful but maybe it made me too pretentious and rude in person because I was used to hiding against a screen.
I don’t know I have just felt off. Definitely need to reflect on my inner self for a bit. Realign.
Sugaring for too long can make you jaded
I experienced this last night. I made a comment that was extremely rude to this guy and his company… purely because it wasn’t up to my particular standards. Oops.
I’m sure he blocked me but I texted him to at least apologize.
But be careful. Take a break, date vanilla guys… I typically do when I’ve had enough of the Bowl.
The Tumblr SB’s just get it
The Reddit forums can be so addicting and sometimes the commentary on both sides is interesting.
But the Tumblr SB’s are about SECURING. THE. BAG.
The Tumblr SB’s
know our worth
we know all the secrets
we level up
we don’t accept low allowances or cheap dates
we dress to impress
we affirm abundance in wealth
we are the enigma of beauty, charisma and strength
A real man will literally chase after you
This is why I love Sugar dating, these men will literally chase after you. They worship the ground you walk on. I fucking love it.
Meanwhile you’ve got this real estate asshole who isn’t clear about what he wants. Asks what your schedule is but never commits, cancels on dates…
OR the guy who only invites you out when it’s convenient but you’re grateful because how embarrassing is it to be with a guy who literally goes through women right after the other because he’s never satisfied.
Vanilla dating is not for me. Geezes.
Nights like tonight make me want a bf
I have a really attractive friend, and we’ve been friends for 5 years. Very intellectual, charming, movie romantic.
Because of sugaring and how fast things go, I want sex and intimacy faster than most people. He wants emotional and intellectual chemistry first… the build up… the bullshit…
But dear god… I am so attracted to him. I miss that. I miss the butterflies, the chemistry, the I can’t wait to rip your clothes off… sex with feelings
Him and I have never passed the mark of friends, nor will we ever because I can’t keep chill.
I hate hinge and dating… but I miss those feelings so much
