I’m making this brief return to tell you guys about something that happened.
So, I was obviously feeling a bit down from my breakup, and my mum noticed. I was doing relatively alright until she asked what was wrong and if I was okay. So I just broke down a bit and she comforted me.
This woman straight up said: “So you two broke up.”
Keep in mind, I’m not out to her and she wasn’t even supposed to know I was dating someone. After I collect myself, I say: “I don’t still need to come out, do I?”
She laughed so hard she was sitting on the floor with literal tears streaming down her face. And you know what she said next? She said: “I may act oblivious, but I’m not stupid. You should see the way your eyes light up whenever you talk about your ‘friend’.”
Me, half-joking: “I’m sorry, I just don’t like men in that way.”
My mum: *jokingly* “you’re not really gay, you just haven’t found the right man, yet.” *can’t take herself seriously and snorts*
So that’s how I came out to my mum.
Note: my mum was joking on the last part, she’s totally supportive.
Can’t wait for those days where we can just have a lie in and lay in bed, all cuddled up, a little longer than usual. When we get up we’ll drink our morning tea or coffee and slowly make our way through the morning, just the two of us with a companionable silence in the air. I want to spend those calm days with her, only her, with not a single worry on our minds, and a sort or peace in the atmosphere that comes with truly finding your home.
Imagine experiencing life with them… waking up in each other’s arms, eating breakfast together, buying groceries together, watching the rain start to fall… I can’t wait for all those moments
Mentally, I’m lying in bed on a rainy day with a girl in my arms, listening to the soft pitter patter of the rains drops tapping the window while we cuddle.
I have never seen a single “ugly” or not amazing girl. I know this is an nb/mlm/nb acc but I think solidarity is important :)
Straight girls are valid and beautiful
Bi girls, lesbians and girls who like girls in general are splendid and amazing :) aro and/or ace girls deserve so much love and attention
Girls who are questioning are lovely and powerful
Trans women and girl related people should honestly rule the world /hj
Girls who don’t use labels are super rad and valid too!
Masculine, androgynous and gnc girls are incredible btw, y’all get all my love <333 same with feminine girls :)
Also pssst! Neurodivergent and neuroatypical girls: you rock too! Your unique experiences don’t reflect your value as a person! You can and deserve to find happiness, even if the journey to do so is different for you than your peers :)
Chubby+fat girls, you deserve so much more love and respect than society offers.
Girls, if you’re seeing this, you rock, you’re amazing, you’re strong, you got this :) let’s build a better world together
Also i stg if I see a single one of you saying ur an exception /j but please don’t do that bc I mean all girls and girl related people :)
Anyway ily now go be urself and do things that make ye happy bc u deserve it (yes, you. Don’t deny it or you will catch these hands /j)
**do not derail**
(Will be making edits as time passes)
Girls with bumps in their noses! Girls with strong jawlines, girls with strong brow ridges or bold eyebrows!! Girls with thin lips or small eyes :0 bald girls, skinny girls, plus size girls, muscular girls, tall girls, average sized girls, short girls, girls with stretch marks, skin conditions, girls with big noses! All girls who don’t fit the societal beauty standards! I see you, I love you
*feel free to add on, just don’t derail. Mens positivity coming soon*
Mid sized girls are lovely, I know y’all are often forgotten about
BIPOC girls are so precious, you’re all important and you have a place in this world
Hey, disabled girls, you go through so much. Your struggles are real, you’re worth loving and respecting
Hey girls who use xenoidentities/microlabels, you’re so cool! I think it’s amazing that you use these to express yourself/your identity. The same also applies to those of multisexual identities (Eg: bi, pan, omni, ply, etc)
Girls who like collecting, girls who don’t
Girls who like sports/outdoors activities, girls who prefer to stay inside
Girls with paranoia or anxiety or unhappy obsessions/obsessions that get in the way of your happiness/ability to function, I know you worry. I know it’s hard. I hope that someday soon you’ll have peace of mind
Girls who are broken hearted, you’re so strong. You’ve gone through a lot I’m sure but you got this! You can do it /g
Girls who need encouragement, I love you. You’re doing great :)
Once again this applies to all girls, feel free to add on but don’t derail!
Bisexual Women and Lesbians Always Perfect Together ____________ Image Description: Full-colour hand-drawn picture of two Edwardian Era ladies kissing.
The lady on the left who is light-skinned with bright red hair is attired in clothing in the Pink, Purple and Blue colours of the Bisexual Pride Flag. She has her puppy’s leash around her wrist as she grasps her sweetheart’s elbow and leans in for a sweet kiss.
The lady on the right is darker-skinned with curly black hair and is attired in clothing in the different shades of red’s, white, and pinks ( ranging from reddish-orange, orange to white to lavender red to dark magenta) of the Lesbian Pride Flag. She has put down her umbrella as she leans over to hug and kiss her sweetheart.
i absolutely hate the fact that men are still interacting with my posts. If we look on the bright side of this situation my block list is getting longer… the more the merrier
