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thefayth:As I say daily, “Bi is not binary” (thinking of making t-shirts and a banner at this poin

thefayth:

As I say daily, “Bi is not binary” (thinking of making t-shirts and a banner at this point).

So grateful for the consistent advocacy of so many fellow non monosexual community members working hella hard to disprove a fallacy that murders bi, pan, fluid, queer (bi+) people by isolating them from each other and the full embrace of a 50 year old bisexual movement started by self described punks, freaks, and waaaaaay outside the binary box thinkers. How dare anyone try to redefine our identity against us.

I’ve decided to protest that wherever I go, wherever I be…sorry/not sorry, if that bothers you…

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BiNet USA President Faith Cheltenham, a Black bi, pan, fluid and queer activist stands facing camera with blue hair, unflinching in the face of biphobia (trust her, it IS out there).

**Photo Credit**
Deborah Atwater

**Further reading**
https://radicalbi.wordpress.com/2011/02/22/words-binary-and-biphobia-or-why-bi-is-binary-but-ftm-is-not/ (by bi theorist Shiri Eisner who began the “say bisexuality is binary one more time” meme in 2013.

http://juliaserano.blogspot.com/2012/11/bisexuality-and-binaries-revisited.html (Trans-bi author and critical genius Julia Serano expands on 2010 classic ode “Bisexuality does not reinforce the gender binary”)

http://www.writewhereithurts.net/whats-in-a-name-on-bi-and-pan-sexualities/ (Excellent recent analysis exploring how binary based biphobia attacks undermine bi, pan, fluid, queer (bi+) communities)

https://thetaskforceblog.org/2014/09/30/biphobia-not-in-my-name/
(One of my favorite writers, and my friend Aud Traher’s classic take on binary bisexual accusations and how they hurt bi-trans-non binary people like them)

http://binetusa.blogspot.com/2014/01/1990-bi-manifesto.html
(Historical evidence from national bi magazine manifesto that rejects the idea of binary genders over 25 years ago, but yeah way to catch up with us on the topic.)


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midwestbiactivist:The Bisexual Queer Alliance Chicago is out elevating the B in LGBT. Look out for

midwestbiactivist:

TheBisexual Queer Alliance Chicago is out elevating the B in LGBT. Look out for this display ‪of Bisexual Pride‬.

Signs:“Bi and Proud! Bi folks are Everywhere! I love Many Genders!”


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[Minneapolis Minnesota]: Bi+ Contingent - Twin Cities Pride ParadeCalling all ‪Bisexual‬/Non-Monosex[Minneapolis Minnesota]: Bi+ Contingent - Twin Cities Pride ParadeCalling all ‪Bisexual‬/Non-Monosex[Minneapolis Minnesota]: Bi+ Contingent - Twin Cities Pride ParadeCalling all ‪Bisexual‬/Non-Monosex[Minneapolis Minnesota]: Bi+ Contingent - Twin Cities Pride ParadeCalling all ‪Bisexual‬/Non-Monosex

[Minneapolis Minnesota]: Bi+ Contingent - Twin Cities Pride Parade

Calling all ‪Bisexual‬/Non-Monosexual, SGL, Middle Sexualities‬ Queer-identified and Questioning as well as all friends and allies, please come strut your stuff with the Bisexual Organizing Project-BOP at the 2016 Twin Cities PrideParade!

Choose between Carrying the Big Bisexual Pride Flag with Unit #7 or March with Streamers and Signs with Unit #21. 

When: Sunday, June 26 at 10 AM - 12 PM CDT
Where: line up along 3rd Street between Hennepin and Marquette in Minneapolis by 10:15 AM 
Remember: Dress for the weather and walking

Pleaseclick our link for Much More Info. So if you are a veteran or a newbie we Really Look Forward to seeing All of You There.


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[New York City]: Bisexual/Non-Monosexual Contingent at the NYC Pride March 2016Calling ALL Bisexual/[New York City]: Bisexual/Non-Monosexual Contingent at the NYC Pride March 2016Calling ALL Bisexual/[New York City]: Bisexual/Non-Monosexual Contingent at the NYC Pride March 2016Calling ALL Bisexual/[New York City]: Bisexual/Non-Monosexual Contingent at the NYC Pride March 2016Calling ALL Bisexual/

[New York City]: Bisexual/Non-Monosexual Contingent at the NYC Pride March 2016

Calling ALL Bisexual/Non-Monosexual, SGL (Same Gender Loving), Queer, Questioning, Cis, Trans, Genderqueer, Poly and just plain old Bi-friendly Gay, Lesbian & “Straight-But-Not-Narrow” folks who live, work or play in NYC.  Don’t get left standing on the sidelines. Instead, please come join us in the Bisexual Contingent at NYC’s 2016 LGBT Pride March and be part of all the fun and excitement.

When: Sunday, June 26, 2016 2:30 PM
Where: Heritage of Pride Parade Route down 5th Ave to the Village
Line Up: Section 10 (Group 22) on 38th between 5th and Madison Avenues

This year NYC Pride (The NYC LGBT Pride Organizer) has our Group to line upbetween2:30PM and 3:00PMinSection 10 (Group 22)on38thbetween 5th and Madison Avenues.  So you’ll have time for a leisurely Sunday Breakfast & to maybe even check out the PrideFest before you head uptown and get in line.

We will be marching between the Stonewall Chorale(in front) and NY Unity (in back), so it seems as if wonderful live music is guaranteed and we will all be having a lot of fun as we march!

Afterward we’ll all rest our feet and grab a bite to eat at Sammy’s Noodle Shop & Grill(461 6th Ave corner of 11th St) in the West Village. And make plans for some future fun Meetups, Parties and learn to get more involved in your local Bi Pride Groups.

Pleaseclick the link for Much More Info. So if you are a veteran or a newbie we really Look Forward to seeing All of You there.


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[San Francisco CA]: Bisexual/Non-Monosexual Contingent at SF Pride 2016All Bisexual/Non-Monosexual, [San Francisco CA]: Bisexual/Non-Monosexual Contingent at SF Pride 2016All Bisexual/Non-Monosexual, [San Francisco CA]: Bisexual/Non-Monosexual Contingent at SF Pride 2016All Bisexual/Non-Monosexual, [San Francisco CA]: Bisexual/Non-Monosexual Contingent at SF Pride 2016All Bisexual/Non-Monosexual, [San Francisco CA]: Bisexual/Non-Monosexual Contingent at SF Pride 2016All Bisexual/Non-Monosexual, [San Francisco CA]: Bisexual/Non-Monosexual Contingent at SF Pride 2016All Bisexual/Non-Monosexual,

[San Francisco CA]: Bisexual/Non-Monosexual Contingent at SF Pride 2016

All Bisexual/Non-Monosexual, SGL, Middle Sexualities, Queer, Questioning & Bi-Friendly people are invited to please join the Bay Area Bisexual Network(BABN) and friends in the 2016 ‪‎Bisexual‬/Non-Monosexual Contingent at San Francisco Pride.

When:  Sunday, June 26 at 9:30 AM PDT
Where: Placement 132 (Assembly Section M1 Market @ Main)

Our theme for the contingent this year is Save The B’s! Just as bees (and other pollinators) are an integral part of our natural ecosystem, bisexuals are an integral part of our queer community. We’ve made LG(bee)T signs for people to carry, bee costumes are highly encouraged, and we’ll have a bunch of chenille stems to make antennae on the morning of the parade, as well. Giant B placards or balloons! are welcome and encouraged too.

Pleaseclick the link for Much More Info. So if you are a veteran or a newbie we look forward to seeing all of you there.


TheBay Area Bisexual Network(BABN) is based in San Francisco with members from all over the Bay Area. Our mission is to develop a healthy, vibrant, multicultural bisexual community in the San Francisco Bay Area and to promote better understanding of bisexual lives and issues within the larger lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer (LGBTIQQ) community and the public.


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The greatest wealth is health. ~Virgil​ [USA]: It’s LGBTQ Enrollment Week of Action - open enr

The greatest wealth is health.~Virgil​

[USA]:It’sLGBTQ Enrollment Week of Action-open enrollment means open for everyone, including ALL bisexuals+ their families and friends! So we are getting the word out to the Entire Bisexual Community​ this holiday season!  Get Medical Coverage, then Get That Check-Up and Be Healthy!

And it helps that it’s cheaper and easier than ever before to get financial help and Get Covered for 2017.  So CLICK THE LINK and give yourself and your loved ones the Gift of Health Care this Holiday Season. 


Note:Bisexual+(Bi+ for short) is just *shorthand* for ALL Non-Monosexual people inclusive of but not limited to: Bisexual & Biromantic as well as Ambisexual, Flexisexual, Fluid, Heteroflexible & Homoflexible, Multisexual, No Labels, Omnisexual, Pansexual, Polysexual, Pomosexual, SGL (Same-gender Loving), Sapiosexual, Queer-identified, Questioning et al.

Additionally the Bisexual+ Community has always/will always include people of ALL genders/gender identification including but not limited to: Androgynous, Cis, Genderqueer, Gender-Nonconforming, Non-binary, Trans, et al.


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Dear BiNet USA​ Supporters,In the past eight years, BiNet USA​ and other bisexual+ advocates have fo

DearBiNet USA​ Supporters,

In the past eight years, BiNet USA​andother bisexual+ advocates have fought hard for increased visibility in national politics and social justice movements…

As the most LGBT-friendly presidential administration in American history comes to an end, and an openly hostile administration takes over, our fight for equality and justice may look different, but it certainly won’t stop … it has already become clear that the fight for social justice will require more support than ever in the next four years.

Although the entire LGBTQ community faces challenges to our rights and our humanity, the Bisexual+ Community​ remains particularly vulnerable when it comes to issues like health care access,discrimination, and anti-LGBTQ violence.

Bi+ advocacy organizations like BiNet USA​ are also struggling to plan our work ahead, knowing that the current major disparities in funding bi-specific work will only become more severe as resources become scarce.

All of this is to say that we need your support more than ever.

We are a volunteer-run organization, and while we will continue to donate our own time and resources, our programmatic work does cost money. Moreover, the bi+ community faces disproportionate levels of poverty compared to the gay and lesbian community, so we recognize how important it is to support each other and enlist help from our allies.

To that end, we are asking for your financial support in the form of a tax-deductible donationtoBiNet USA

Together we will remain strong!


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Today is Transgender Day of Remembrance 2016. We remember. We will not forget. We will ally, flank a

Today is Transgender Day of Remembrance2016. We remember. We will not forget. We will ally, flank and do whatever it takes to stand with trans folks, including the many bisexual+ trans people in the U.S. who face increased anti bisexual+ and anti transgender sentiments but still keep living, thriving and working to help us all b free.

In the name of the so many who came before, I send prayers up in the memory of Sylvia Rivera, trans bi+ Latinx icon FOR ALL transgender, nonbinary and gender nonconforming people in the world.

I hope that they, and my own beautiful nonbinary child, experience every day in the love they deserve.

I pray that the times the T in LGBT experience hatred or discomfort become rare, but *when* it does happen that trans people are quickly be surrounded in love and in light, with an explicitly anti-racist and a delightfully pro trans soft place to heal.

I pray as well that more and more cisgender people begin to celebrate the awesomeness of trans and nonbinary experience, for we should be a more grateful people to so often be blessed with bravery beyond measure.

I, and my family, personally pledge to more frequently open my home, heart and wallet to ensure that safety under the rule of the D.

I extend my thanks to all the trans allies of bisexual+ people, including bi+ trans folks who work without cease to see themselves authentically represented in the LGBTQIA movement. There would be too many names to list if BiNet USA were to call out all the trans leaders who have consistently stood bi us or with us, sometimes because they are us too and sometimes because they will do whatever it takes to ally us. Hayden L MoraMonica RobertsBamby SalcedoLourdes Ashley HunterDiego Miguel Sanchez AprCecilia C ChungBrynn TannehillScoutKylar BroadusKris HayashiMasen Davis
blessings to you!

As well, BIG BI HUGS, major thanks and BI+ Blessings to the many bi+ trans leaders in the bisexual+ movement like Julia SeranoAndrea JenkinsKayley Margarite WhalenZeam PorterBryan John EllicottAud TraherMartin Rawlings-FeinTara Madison AveryColleen Elizabeth McTigueAndy EyeAlex IantaffiSonya Saturday and the most recently honored by the QUEEN OF ENGLAND Jen YockneyMBE.

I hope you all, including those unnamed, find yourself surrounded with more work that uplifts every intersection of your being, and that you get to laugh and live in love every day of your life. You deserve to.

Thank you for blessing my life both personally and professionally, and I pray that the bi+ community is more frequently seen at your side in pride.  ~~ Faith Cheltenham, President BiNet USA


That’smy personal prayer this Transgender Day of Remembrance. What’s yours?

(1) Find a TDoR 2016 Event
(2)MoreTDoR 2016 Resources


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[ Image: Group photo of some of the Bisexual+ Advocates, some holding Bi Pride Flags who gathered at

[ Image: Group photo of some of the Bisexual+ Advocates, some holding Bi Pride Flags who gathered at The White House during various #BiWH16 events in Washington DC during Bi Week 2016. On the top right in lavender against a dark purple background are the words Spirit Day 10.20.2016 and on the bottom in large white lettering are the words “Bisexual+ Against Bullying”]

Bisexual+ Activists and Groups stand united with GLAAD Against Bullying & For LGBT Youth on #SpiritDay2016


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 Bisexuals take over the internet! [Image: Screen-grab of BiNet USA’s Twitter Page as the #BiVisibil

Bisexuals take over the internet!

[Image: Screen-grab of BiNet USA’s Twitter Page as the #BiVisibilityDay hashtag hits 3rd place overall on the USA Trends during Bi Visibility Day 2016 (23 September 2016)]


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bialogue-group:Bisexualadjective2.  noting or relating to a person who is romantically or sexualbialogue-group:Bisexualadjective2.  noting or relating to a person who is romantically or sexual

bialogue-group:

Bisexual

adjective
2.  noting or relating to a person who is romantically or sexually attracted to both men and women, or to people of various gender identities; ambisexual. 

noun
4.  a person who is romantically or sexually attracted to both men and women, or to people of various gender identities; ambisexual. 


learn how the international bi community is working to correct offensive and inappropriate definitions in dictionaries, textbooks, encyclopedias, and other reference materials 


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thebicast: THANK YOU ALL - FULLY FUNDED!!!!! KICKSTARTER FINAL PUSH!!  Monday August 29th 2016  Fi

thebicast:

THANK YOU ALL - FULLY FUNDED!!!!!

KICKSTARTER FINAL PUSH!! Monday August 29th 2016  Final Hours and MinutestoDonateandjust$700 $650 $200 FULLY FUNDED!!!! fromfundinginVISIBLE the project celebratingtheBisexual community and our Allies!

inVISIBLE: is a collaborationrooted in dance, between dance theater artist Kai Hazelwoodandmembers of the Los Angles Bisexual Community who have contributed their own stories to the sound score and as inspiration.

inVISIBLE is one part contemporary dance project, one part activist initiative and a whole lotta pARTy! It celebrates the bisexual community using contemporary dance theatre to give voice to a community that is often invisible, its members considered gay or straight depending on the gender of their current partner. inVISIBLE shares the stories of bi sons dealing with frustrated fathers, biphobic mothers, creating the perfect bi superhero and more.

Listen to this PodcastwithKai Hazelwood aboutinVISIBLE The celebration of bisexuality+ through dance, and their kickstarter campaign.

All funds go directly to the production costs and artists fees associated with our first run of shows. We’re excited to be performing Sept 9th and 10thatHighways Performance SpaceinSanta Monica CA.

Collaborators include: Kate Colman, Kiki K, Molly Yates and Martz Contemporary Dance Company, Barcelona

Watch Kai Hazelwood’s Thank you on Facebook

Thank you all So Much this has been Fully Funded (with 8 minutes to spare)


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bialogue-group: Almost every LGBT person, no matter how out and well-adjusted we may be, has turne

bialogue-group:

Almost every LGBT person, no matter how out and well-adjusted we may be, has turned to an LGBT nonprofit at some point in our lives …  None of these organizations … can survive on good will and worthy missions alone. They need support to open their doors; to litigate and advocate and organize; to keep dedicated staff — even to keep the lights on. And for that, they need us — all of us.

1 in 20: We Can Do Better:The Horizons Foundation’s research shows that not even 5 percent of LGBT people give direct financial support to LGBT organizations. That’s just one in 20.

Ifevery one of the 8 million+ LGBT people in the United States woke uponGive Out Dayand gave $10 — just $10 — that would mean $80 million to take care of our elders, to fuel the fight for full equality, to make sure that queer youth can navigate this still-tough world, to support all those with medical and mental health issues,substance use, violence, poverty, discrimination, and dozens of other challenges.

Give Out Day is a chance for all of us to be part of something much bigger than any of us.


We hope All Bisexual/Non-monosexual, SGL + Queer identified people will consider donating to helpfundyour own Bisexual+ Community.It doesn’t matter how much you give, or what you give, only that you give:


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 The Social Distancing Patch & Pin Set For 2020, you want to keep people at bay? Look no more! W The Social Distancing Patch & Pin Set For 2020, you want to keep people at bay? Look no more! W The Social Distancing Patch & Pin Set For 2020, you want to keep people at bay? Look no more! W The Social Distancing Patch & Pin Set For 2020, you want to keep people at bay? Look no more! W

The Social Distancing Patch & Pin Set

For 2020, you want to keep people at bay? Look no more! With this new patch and pin set by French Canadian artist Sophie Labelle, you’re sure to keep haters at least 2 meters of distance away. (Side effect might be to make new queer and trans friends).

Patches and pins also sold separately on the shop!

Includes :

▼ Glow-in-the-dark trans symbol iron-on patch;
▼ I don’t care if you’re from California, dude isn’t gender-neutral iron-on patch;
▼ Life sucks sometimes but at least I’m not straight iron-on patch;
▼ Gaaaaaay glittery metallic pin.
▼ Trans mushrooms and leaves glittery metallic pin.


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biasfsexual:

When I was sixteen I had a crush on my best friend. I didn’t realise it was a crush for years because we’re both girls.

We shared a bed when we had sleepovers and we cuddled when we went to sleep. We snuggled on the couch when we watched movies. We kissed each other on the cheek goodbye. We hugged the moment we saw each other. I always told her she was cute. She was the first person to notice when I changed something about my appearance. Normal best friend stuff, right? Doesn’t everyone think their best friend is the best person in the world? Don’t all girls want to cuddle with their best friends? Don’t all girls get lost scrolling through their friends Facebook pages because they’re just so damn cute? No?

Our parents were so happy we had each other as friends because we were both going through some unrelated shit. None of them ever thought that we were something more. We never had the same rules with each other as we did when we had boys over.

When she got a boyfriend I was insanely jealous. It wasn’t because she didn’t spend time with me anymore, because she would always cancel on him to hang out with me. So I couldn’t place why I was so jealous. So I just ignored it.

Fast forward a few months to them breaking up and her coming out as a lesbian to me. I was happy for her. I was supportive. I was so proud of her for being so brave. I stood up for her when people were arseholes about it.

Fast forward another few months to one of our mutual friends realising she had a crush on me and telling me. I was flattered and it got me thinking. Did I have a crush on her too? It seemed like it, but I knew I liked boys too. I’d had a boyfriend who’d broken my heart. I’d had crushes on boys. I knew that for certain. So why was I thinking this way about my best friend? Could I be bi? No. I’d heard of bisexuality but never anything positive. Bi girls were girls who weren’t brave enough to come out. Bi girls were bi because they wanted to make their boyfriends happy. Bi girls were bi because boys think it’s hot. That wasn’t me. That wasn’t something I was comfortable with. So I must be straight.

My relationship with my best friend stayed the same. We cuddled and hung out and held hands and I felt guilty about it. Especially when rumours about us started spreading. People were saying I was a lesbian too. So we stopped acting that way at school. I wasn’t ashamed, but it wasn’t me. I knew I wasn’t a lesbian.

Eventually I got a boyfriend and she got a girlfriend and we graduated high school and drifted apart.

It wasn’t until years later that I came across the term bisexuality again. In an article I found on tumblr no less. And I read it, a story so similar to mine, about a girl not realising her sexuality for years because there was no bi representation. She didn’t know who she was, except that she liked boys so she must be straight. I thought back to my best friend, realising how much I loved her and that we weren’t just friends. If I was behaving that way with a boy, we would have been in a relationship. I did some research. I practiced saying ‘I’m bi.’ And I finally came to realise that I am. I was 21 when I made the connection of something that I should have when I was in high school.

It all suddenly made sense. Not only my crush on my best friend, but my interest in pretty girls. That when we talked about celebrity ‘hall passes,’ the first ones that came to mind were always girls. It just makes sense.

My point is, this is why we need bi representation in popular culture. This is why characters like Rosa Diaz and Clarke Griffin and Angela Montenegro and Jack Harkness and multiple others are so important. Seeing these characters, this representation, helps people realise that there are other options that aren’t just gay and straight (not that there is anything wrong with either of those). I wish I had seen a character like these when I was a young teenager. I wish I had known being bi was an option and not a negative one. I wish I had seen literally anything positive about being bisexual. I’m not saying my best friend and I would have ended up together, but maybe we could have had something more.

therainbowtimes:#Bisexual week and “Bi the way…” •• #biweek #bisexual #transbisexual #biwomen #bim

therainbowtimes:

#Bisexual week and “Bi the way…”


#biweek #bisexual #transbisexual #biwomen #bimen #bisexualawarenessweek #biplus #bisexuality #bilatinx #biyouth #bipoc #biawareness #therainbowtimes #rainbowtimesmagazine #independentmedia #bitheway #humanrights #lgbt #lgbtq #instagay #love #pride #gaymemes #lovewins #loveislove #equality #tgif #biandproud #bivisibility #bisexualmemes #biweek


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Bisexuality is NOT A PHASE. Bisexuality is VALID. Bisexuality is BEAUTIFUL.
(at Providence, Rhode Island)
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