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Episode 14: It’s a Net Gain When People Gossip and Smear You
There are so many reasons people gossip against people and smear people. It can be devastating and it can also be lucky. It really depends on how you look at it.
Here are a list of sme reason’s people hurt other people with rumors, suggestions, and smear campaigns.
- Jealousy
- Mad because they won’t fuck them
- See them as competition for a mate, a job, or approval from the crowd
- Deflecting form…
You know how there are friends you tell personal things to, because they’ve earned that trust by sticking with you and you reward that by giving them a part of your story? It’s terrible how the habit of gossiping completely negates that.
Like, there are parts of my life that are so private, stories that are mine to narrate, to people who have stayed in my life and have worked for the right to know those things about me, yet, like a spark leading to a fire, these stories are told and retold, to people who don’t even give a damn about me to have the privilege of being privy to that particular bit of my life, by people who have stumbled across some things by happenstance.
Maybe an interesting way to think about it would be that when you hear a story about someone, to stop and think, whether this would be something that person would’ve told you of their own accord. If you do think they would, wait for them to reveal in their own time. If you think they wouldn’t, realise that it’s not in your place to have that bit of knowledge and never speak of it again.
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