Swinger singers

We attended a karaoke party last week. The guests were all LS, many we knew and some we didn’t.

The hostess is an absolute doll and loves to party. She’d already been pregaming when we arrived and greeted us with a not so accidental nip slip as we came in.

I wore a new, cleavage baring dress that received a lot of compliments. There were a lot of gorgeous, scantily clad girls there, so I tend to feel a little self conscious. It did spark a few “are those real?” (they are) and “can I see/touch them?” I did appreciate the request for permission before being groped, and I obliged.

One of the first few songs was Patience by Guns n Roses, sung by a guy we knew. 3 ladies began, uh, servicing him right when he got to that really high pitched verse. He sang right on through like a real champ.

Later, there were lots of boobs coming out, and other, um, stuff happening on stage during the performances. Waaaaay better than Tuesday night karaoke at your local vanilla bar. The hostess did have play areas set up; knowing the group, I’m sure they were used.

I had a guy who I knew confess to me that he is way into me and a subject of his fantasies. Either he was hitting the bottle hard that night, or he was looking to get lucky. Either way, I was flattered, because there had been zero indication of this prior to tonight.

Another guy walked around with his shirt off wanting to know when the “real” house party starts. I informed him that it’s a karaoke party with play accommodations, not really a house party, per se. He proceeded to brag that usually he’d already fucked 2 chicks and made pizza by that time (it was 9:45 pm). I just kinda thought, looks like you’re striking out then, dude.

We had a ton of fun and made our way out around 10:30, in our typical Irish goodbye way (at least I did). We had some early morning house stuff we needed to get done.

It had been awhile since I’d been to a LS gathering, so it was good to see friends and be seen. These are my favorite types of LS events.

Reason #4,616 I love my boyfriend

We have in depth discussions on, and are completely entertained by, the ins and outs of power point presentations. Transitions, fonts, clip art. Studies about what keeps people engaged. How to present a slide that has features that are different from the last. All while in the presence of others. At the bar. I love that we can both be nerdy.

Catching up

I haven’t posted lately; Chandler and I have been in balls to the wall mode finishing our latest rehab. The upside to that is that we, again, have a private love nest for the 4 of us. Both our oldest and their oldest live at home, so there’s not a lot ofzero privacy, even to just watch movies. So now we have a private abode…until it sells, anyway.

Our next house is lined up which we’ll convert to a 2 family residence as an Airbnb. One unit will have 2 private bedrooms/full baths adjoined by a kitchenette. Each one of these rooms will be “our” private little place, one for Rachel and Chandler, one for Ross and me. The income generated by that unit might be hard to come by if we’re always staying in it, though. Oh well, priorities.

I’ve found myself kinda drifting away from the swinger scene. It’s not off the table, but I guess I just don’t have the desire. I feel a decent degree of anxiety when I get texts from past partners, thinking they’re looking for a hook up, even if it’s just to say hi. I’m just pretty fucking happy with what I have. We’ll still attend some events just to keep our feet in the door, and see friends we’ve made in the LS, but I’m not shopping for anything.

I still get nauseous at the thought of Ross with someone else, but I try to make sure he knows he is free to do whatever with whomever, and I’m sincere about that. I still don’t want to know, though. I know, I know…not healthy. In a group setting where I could see, though, I’d be fine. Turned on, even. What’s up with that?

I can’t express how much I’m loving living in the city, and living 1.5 miles from my loves. I don’t know how I did it when they were 45 minutes away. I love knowing they are just down the street. Many nights are spent at our favorite dive bar, sometimes till closing time. It’s hard to connect with each other while there though; we seem to be rather popular with the regulars. There’s always a parade of people stopping by our table. That’s not a bad problem to have though. Everybody knows our name.

So that’s kind of a catch up since my last post. I’ve crossed the 5200 followers mark (I’m just as shocked as you, but thank you all, porn bots included), so I thought I should catch my blog up and post more regularly.

Xoxoxo

New Year 2019

The 4 of us rang in the new year by attending a NYE swingers ball at a large hotel. It’s a formal dinner/dance event followed by a hall party after midnight.

There’s a buffet dinner in the ball room and a DJ playing music till midnight. Everyone mingled in their fancy clothes. The cash bar was stupid expensive ($8.50 for a jack and diet? No thanks.) so we smuggled in our own liquor and mixed our own drinks (in the $4.50 soda- wtf?). As the night wore on, it was evident we weren’t the only ones, and no one was even hiding it any more.

The crowd was smaller and quite a bit older compared to previous years. We did run into 3 of our favorite couples, and we spent the majority of the evening hanging out with them.

After the midnight toast, everyone headed back upstairs for the hall party. The top 2 floors are closed off to just our group, and everyone changes into sexy attire and the naughty fun begins.

We stopped into the body shot room where alcohol infused whipped cream is devoured from body parts. We checked out the sybian room and watched a few ladies take a ride. We enjoyed appetizers served by a friend wearing underwear with his own face printed on them. He never disappoints us with his good natured, over the top antics. In that same room, Ross and I ran into one of my kids’ previous teachers who got frisky with us. A little awkward, but she’s super sweet.

We did meet a group of 6 or so new people through a mutual couple. They were a lot of fun, and I’d hang out with them again. Everyone we encountered was great and always asked permission before touching or kissing, which I appreciated.

Ross, Rachel, Chandler and I shared a hotel room, and got back around 2:30 and had some of our own fun. It’s probably one of my favorite nights/swinger events of the year. We had a great time.

Chandler and I ended the holiday with a lazy day at home eating left over snacks from the hotel.

I have no complaints about how my 2018 went, and I’m looking forward to all that 2019 brings.

Happy New Year to all of you- be safe, and make it the best yet!

OTP Prompt 367

Person B, C, D+ give Person A a pet betta and a fish tank for a gift.

Person A literally loves this fish. Maybe too much? But they’re too happy for the others to interfere.

Just because you don’t understand something doesn’t make it invalid.

Just because you don’t agree with something doesn’t make your opinion the law of the land.

If you aren’t uplifting those you Love, you are bringing them down, period.

So, I’m sure you’ve heard the saying “power couple” before, that references two hard working monogamous people in a relationship.

Well, when referring to my triad I always say we are a “power triple” because we are badass!

queerlyplaced:

“So, wait - you only date one person at a time, on purpose? Okay. But - FOREVER?! On purpose? You both talk about it and agree to that? You both WANT that? Is this - I think I saw this on TV one time. Is this, like, part of a religious sect?”

“Rhonda, I just realized - I don’t think I’ve seen your husband out with another woman for, gosh, it must be years now. Is everything ok with him?”

“Aren’t you worried you’ll become totally codependent and wrapped up in each other and not be able to put energy into other important relationships in your life, like close friends and family?”

“Monogamy, huh? Kinky.”

“Want me to set you two up? … oh, my bad. I don’t know a lot of monogamous people. How does that work, anyway?”

“So you never date anyone else? Ever? Do you at least have sex with other people? … wow. I could never do that.”

This!!!

We will be around to answer questions and chat a bit this weekend!

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