#positivemindset
Walk slowly, take deep breaths, and enjoy life. It doesn’t always have to go by so quickly.
The greatest part of you is yourself. Cherish it.
You have your own strengths and the more you explore new hobbies then the more you’ll know what you’re good at.
You don’t need to be in every club, in every sport, or in every social activity if you don’t think you could handle it. It’s your mental health over activities. Choose you.
Even when life gets rough, try and walk with confidence. You got this. One step after another.
You don’t need to lose weight to feel happy about yourself.
I know it’s hard to move your body, I know it’s hard to even think a thought when your mind is so muddled in grief, I know that—but please, try and get up to do any simple task such as drinking water, moving to a different place in your house, taking a shower/bath, eating a meal, maybe even some simple exercises. It’s hard to get out of your slump but the only way out is to do something rather than feel helpless and stuck in your room.
If it takes leaving to fully appreciate what you had then maybe you should’ve left that situation a long time ago.
You don’t need to constantly give pieces of yourself away, it’s okay to take time to be selfish in order to mend yourself together.
some say you can’t love others properly until you love yourself, but i disagree. i’ve been poisoned against myself for years and years and i don’t know if i’ll ever love myself properly, but i love my friends and family with the kind of open-minded, dedicated love that i am trying to learn from. i forgive them their mistakes. i notice the way they smile. i want them to eat well. i want their showers to have perfect water pressure. i want to bake them pies and plant gardens with them. i want people to treat them well and i want them to stand up for themselves. i’m learning from my love for them how to love myself.