#positivemindset
give yourself a sense of place and time. rotate your wardrobe when the weather changes. update your playlists every month. write down three things you did today. do it everyday. message your friends good morning. buy yourself different flavours of tea based on your mood, the packaging, the weather, your heart. save the little paper labels; stick them in your notebook until the inside cover is full of little colored tags. have it hot in the winter. have it cold in the summer. learn to make apple cider, raspberry cordial. spend the summer knitting a scarf for the colder months. spend the winter sewing loose flowy blouses for the summer. open the windows, five minutes a day if it’s cold, all day if it’s warm. give yourself a sense of place and time and weather.
Don’t let your clouds make you forget who you truly are beneath it all. Don’t let it make you forget how bright you can shine…☀️
Live life☀️
Be the person who stops the cycle of hate by not passing it on to someone else..Don’t become the person who wrecked you…Don’t be that person to either yourself or to someone else…Be the beautiful result of the ugly process..
Don’t force yourself to feel positive all the time. It’s okay to feel negative emotions sometimes but after experiencing and expressing those emotions, you have to let go.
To that lady who refused to accept any money and gave me this christmas tree for free several months ago, thank you so much.
Who would have known several months after that I would be blessed with a new job, but had to go a full month without a paycheck because of it. As a single mom living paycheck to paycheck, this took a huge toll on my finances right before the holidays.
Then someone said to me, “For being a single mom, you have a lot of materialistic things.” That really got me thinking.. When times get rough it is so easy to forget to be grateful for what you do have. You see everything I own was from when I previously living alone, hand me downs, and second had stores bought for stupid cheap.
Whenever I have a hard day, i pick up my baby after work and head home. When I get home I plug in the christmas tree and seeing my babys little face light up makes all my problems go away. It’s something as little as other people’s kindness that can really brighten up someones bad day. Remember that life throws at what you only what you can handle.
Random acts of kindness keep passing it on. You never know who’s life you helped make better.
you are allowed to exist for yourself. you don’t have to exist for others. you don’t want to share that painting you made? you don’t have to! do what you want !!
who decided that you need to be rude / mean if you have a dark aesthetic. you can be edgy all you want and still be kind to people! compliment them, make their day better whilst still wearing clothes that might intimidate people! be kind!!
youare worth it, keep going
What Do I Want To Learn Over The Next 6 Months?
How do I want to improve?
- Understanding of who I am and how I work
- Accept and understand others for how they are
- Accept reality, circumstances, and other people
- Increase in my self-love and worth
- Better communication
- Have better relationships with the people in my life
- Manage self control: behavior, emotions, thoughts, perceptions
- Adopt a growth in mindset
- Improve my self-esteem
- Increase in my courage and confidence
- Learn how to set boundaries for myself
- Respect the boundaries of others
Dreamit.Believeit.Achieveit.