#positivity
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Love
Anna
hurt. then heal. then let it go
don’t let what you see other people doing on social media rush you. no one is posting their failures. no one is as perfect as they seem. take everything at your own pace
someone out there will be careful and soft with your heart
you aren’t “hard to love.” you’re hard to manipulate, which is a good thing. some people equate having easy access to you as romance because they seek out relationships for self-serving reasons. some people want a person they can trick and gaslight into settling for less so they can get what they want out of you. you dodged a bullet if they used to tell you that. keep your standards and expectations high. don’t lower them for someone who says shit like that. that’s what they want you to do
hi there! just popping in to remind you that the scenarios you keep imagining over and over because you’re worried they might happen, probably won’t. try to think of the potential positives instead of the potential scary stuff and get some sleep. you’ll be okay!
i dont know who needs to hear this, but your relationship shouldn’t drain you
sending love to those that are struggling with something they haven’t told anyone about. stay strong. keep going. it will work out. I promise
choose to surround yourself with people who bring out the best in you
someone out there feels better because you exist
you’re not a failure just because you’re not where you thought you’d be by now
your value does not decrease just because someone fails to see your worth
train your mind to think positively. positive thoughts manifest positive outcomes. if not a positive outcome, then a positive perspective. “what if I fail?” becomes “what if I succeed?” “what if this goes wrong?” becomes “what if this goes right?” “what if I mess up?” becomes “it’s okay if I do.” it will change your life.
someday when you’re at peace, you’ll be so glad you didn’t give up