If no one else is gonna say than I will

Cassandra was a horrible villain

Like, where’s the story here?? She found out her mother kidnapped her best friend and suddenly that’s Rapunzel’s fault?

NO ONE thought little of her, she led the attack against Varian, the attack to save the queen. The kind trusted her to keep his daughter safe- and this is FREDRICK we’re talking about so that’s huge. And yet she’s here complaining about how no one sees her as anything but a maid.

Honestly she cared more about her pride and ‘proving herself’ than actually keeping Rapunzel safe, “Rapunzel And The Great Tree” proved that.

And the things she did? She had absolutely no reason to do them. She really thinks the moonstone is her ‘destiny’ just because she’s Gothel’s daughter. Any 3-year-old can figure out that moonstone is Rapunzel’s destiny because she’s the SUNDROP, Gothel had absolutely nothing to do with this.

If I see one more person comparing her to Varian I’m gonna scream, because this is not the same. Varian is a grieving child that lost the only person who ever cared about him, was just betrayed by the only friends he had (I consider letting him get thrown into a deadly blizzard and never thinking to check on him betrayal, he could’ve been dead), was probably sick, got shunned away by the people and had masked-guards chasing him weeks, if not longer, before he even committed a single crime. And unlike Cassandra, he actually paid for his mistakes, both by serving his sentence and saving the kingdom.

She just walked away without even bothering to help clean up her own mess.

Your 20s are as a confusing time as your teenage years, because you have this realisation of new responsibilities and adulthood but you still feel like you’re a child, and you keep on looking at adults to tell you if you’re doing something wrong except you yourself are an adult now, and you keep second guessing yourself through things with faked confidence while also having a nervous meltdown inside, and it feels so freeing but scary at the same time, kinda like the first time you cross the road by yourself.

Me: Ooh ✨✨ A second new moon in the month of April!

*specifically keeps my schedule clear that day so I can do witchy stuff*

*4/30/22*

Me: Alright I’m well-rested for the first time in weeks. Now it’s time to shake off the witchy cobwebs and get down to business!

Mom: Hey Can you help with laundry?

Me: …. Sure

Mom: Could you clean the bathroom too?

Me: Sure

Mom: And put away the Easter decorations?

Me: Sure

*finishes all the housework (including my normal chores) at 3:40 AM*

I’ve been trying to make a list of my top favorite anime, cartoons, and live action tv shows. This is not going well because every time I get a decent working list, I’ll watch something new and completely fall in love with it and it becomes a new favorite.

aylinnworld:

acertaincritic:

elidyce:

sodabutch:

sodabutch:

sodabutch:

we need 2 normalize characters who dgaf about romance

sorry im literally so tired of everyone being shipped with someone can a guy not just chill

i want 2 say this isnt just about aro characters. im aro i love aro characters i love ace characters but this also is about allo characters. its normal and healthy and fine for alloromantic people to not be in romantic relationships and i wish media reflected that

Can’t two adult people just be happy they made a new friend sometimes. 

Recently one of my betas asked my why there wasn’t any romance between my MC and the female lead in a book. That. Takes. Place. Within. One. Week. And the two know each other for half that time!

The beta was oh so sure there has to be some bed-tumbling between two singles in their twenties whose sexualities are never stated nor implied, just because hey, these are healthy twenty-something singles! And they aren’t explicitly stated to be ace! It’s their physical needs! They got to sleep together because one of them spent the night on another’s couch for two days while their city is under attack by an all-powerful psychopathic magician! They can’t help themselves! Because PhYsIcAl nEeDs.

A knife opened in my pocket but I’m a professional, so I only responded with a “Thank you for your feedback”.

You may consider adding some nice neat and sweet explanation why don’t have sex. If your beta asks about it, there is a chance some readers will have this question too. I remember that Lois McMaster Bujold did something like this in her first work about Vorkosigan Saga, where she had the main male lead and the main female lead travel together alone. At some point one of them, I think the story was from the point of view of the main female lead, but I don’t remember it well anymore, reflects how it can be perceived that they travel together alone and what they can be doing together, but at the same time points out that after walking for a whole day they are too tired and have no spare energy for sex. As far as I remember she put it into words better than I did here.

Those confused who did not pick on other more subtle clues why there is no sex will get a straightforward answer and if it is one of the characters who reflects on it, she or he will get points for feeling a bit more real and smarter for showing some awareness of how the situation may look to some from outside. 

I will not do that because I find the notion that two adults have to want to have sex with each other after knowing each other for two days absolutely ridiculous and adding any sort of explanation as to why they don’t have sex makes having sex after two days seem like the norm.

Also, it was one beta out of a dozen and no one else had such problems.

mousiebae:

OKOK what’s one character you CANNOT STAND and why

EAH-wise, Alistair Wonderland. 

He literally just seems like,, guy Alice and not in any creative way. He’s really just boring to me, and that’s not good for a character that’s meant to be associated with Wonderland. I get the as far as stories go Alice is just meant to be a normal girl, but I personally think there was so much potential in Alistair and that it just wasn’t tackled. Perhaps it’s a case of not having much on him but I can at least enjoy the other EAH boys’ presence. Everytime I see him I just see him as a random background character, probably because his design is pretty boring too imo

Alam mo ung pakiramdam na mahal na mahal mo padin ung tao pero pagod na pagod ka na gumawa ng paraan magkaayos lang kayo. Ikaw ung laging nagpi-please sa kanya na magkabati lang kayo. Bumalik lang kayo sa dati. so paano ka nga naman mag i-stay sa ganong relasyon kahit mahal na mahal mo ung tao kung ikaw nalang palagi ung nagpapakumbaba? Nageeffort? Umiintindi? Pag mahal mo di mo susukuan dba pero paano ka lalaban kung tambak ka na ng reasons para sumuko? Mahal mo pa pero ubos ka na. Lalaban ka pa sana pero pinaramdam nyang tapos na talaga.

Phone sex operator ramble

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Hey, just wanted to announce, that I am making a TalkToMe.com account tonight!♡*°:⋆☎️ Oh my gosh! I’m so excited!♡ but also really nervous lol. Working as a phone sex operator is something I’ve been thinking about doing for quite some time now. I just kept putting it off, and I just finally decided that tonight’s the night to start! My social anxiety/ social awkwardness and introversion are what were holding me back. I kept worrying about so many different things, like stuttering, messing up my words, losing my train of thought, or not knowing what to say. The last thing I want is to mess up, and ruin the callers experience. I did all the research I could possibly do, I always do a bunch of research before starting anything. What kinda helped me finally decide to start was watching Ellie Bou’s live call videos on YouTube, where she actually films a full call night, so you get to hear everything they’re saying, including the ✨ juicy details ✨. This helped a whole lot. It shows great examples on how to start the conversation, and it also gave me reassurance about messing up, because she would sometimes mess up her words a bit too! Phone sex operators are technically actresses, but they are also just regular people, and people make mistakes, it’s part of being human! I’m still really scared lol, but I’m also excited!✨ I just need to remind myself that if I start it, and decide that it’s not for me, that’s ok! Not everything is for everyone, and there’s nothing wrong with trying something new, and deciding you don’t like it. Then again, I am going to give it at least a month or two. That should be long enough to determine whether or not it’s for me. I really do hope though that this works out for me, I’ve added up how much I could make if I work the days and hours I’m planning to work, and it could be really good income! My goal is to be an adult content creater full time, and finally quit my job! Anyway, that’s my rant lol. I’ll probably post updates about how things are going!☺️

(…Seems my recent post doesn’t showed up on the tag? I’m not sure what triggered it, plus it seems a waste to reupload the post too…
Sigh my luck with tag is so bad, sometimes my art won’t showed up on twitter, and now tumblr started to act up too….. I’m tired dealing with this ;;;)

So, yesterday (Wednesday) my college send out an email saying that as of next Monday, all classes with more than 50 students in one room will be cancelled and replaced with online classes, until after Easter Break, in order to reduce the risk if people getting infected with. Corona.

Today (Thursday), my faculty sent out another email, saying that this will happen as of tomorrow (Friday) instead of next Monday.

10 minutes later, I got another email from teacher A, saying that her lecture for course X, and teacher B’s lecture for course Y, will indeed be given tomorrow, and will not be cancelled, because even though there are well over 50 students, it’s fine, because the auditorium is very big so students can leave empty spaces between each other.

Another 10 minutes later, I got ANOTHER EMAIL from faculty, reminding us again, that, yes indeed, tomorrow no lectures with more than 50 students will take place.

And then, not even 5 minutes later, I got ANOTHER EMAIL, reminding us againthat, tomorrow, her lecture and teacher B’s lecture will indeed take place, literally quoting the email I just got from faculty 5 minutes ago, saying, yeah, so, faculty just send you this email, saying “quote from faculty email”, but, uh, ignore it.

So, to summarise:

University: no lectures as of Monday

Faculty: ignore university, no lectures as of tomorrow

Teacher: ignore faculty, yes lectures tomorrow

Faculty (annoyed): ignore teacher, no lecture tomorrow

Teacher (extremely annoyed): I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, ignore faculty, yes lecture tomorrow

I have to say, watching bureaucracy falling apart around me is really scary, but also really, really funny.

Glad to see that Eurovision isn’t about great voices and songs. It’s the perfect opportunity for Europe to show how fucking tasteless people are. Idgaf about politics. Sam has an amazing voice and he’s really sweet. I’m not even going to mention Finland (sorry babies, both juries and the people have 0 taste whatsoever), Poland, Azerbaijan or Australia. But sure. Serbia and Sweden, Moldova and Spain were the ones to go… There’s a word in Greek which describes these ppl.. It’s called μπουρτζοβλαχοι. Και σε όποιον αρέσει στο κάτω κάτω.

⚠️Once again, I’m talking about the songs not the actual ppl who live in these countries. I’m not judging the people. I’m looking at my own fucking business

It’s that time of the year again… We’re close to the final and here are the comments once more about Greece/Cyprus 12 points romance (yes, ik that this year Greece will give them elsewhere).

I’m gonna talk about committees and not televoters.

Europe doesn’t like Greece (not gonna talk about Cyprus ‘cause I don’t live there). Eurovision is about politics, no matter what the juries say. Voting each other is because we have each other’s backs. If we don’t do it, who tf will??? It’s rare for other European Committees to give us 12 points even if our song deserves it.

So, for anyone who has a fucking problem, go cry about it somewhere else, because frankly that shit is pissing me tf off.

It’s 4:44am, I haven’t slept and just got around to reading chapter 146 of Jujutsu Kaisen so here we go again on another mini rant. *Spoilers*

It amazes me that we’re 146 chapters in and we are still learning new things about the Jujutsu world. We now also have more information about the upcoming killing game which is nice, I think?

Well that one way to find out your best friend is now the leader of a clan.

Itadori’s ability to share brain cells with a person he meets that same day never fails to amaze me. I mean c’mon, at this point I’m starting to think it’s his curse technique.

We also get to meet the third year, after only really knowing his name I have no idea what to expect and am maybe a little worried about how he’ll react to Itadori.

Nope, not emotionally ready. I would not be surprised if this is the last time they see each other (I’m too afraid to hope not, after Kugisaki), also can we talk about how cute it is that Choso is trying to act strong, but the moment Itadori turns he starts to cry. (Also the little hand motion is adorable.)

It’s hard to believe that Choso was trying to kill him, like what, a day ago, less than that?

I’m also still really curious about what Gojo sees inside the prison realm, or is he essentially unconscious? In the sense he can’t see, hear or feel anything. I wonder what his reaction is gonna be when they get him out, considering everything that’s happened.

Just imagine, you see your dead friends body, get locked in an unbreakable prison, get freed by your students. They then tell you about a killing game and the fact one of them is most likely dead. Another has lost their arm. Sukuna went on a rampage.

Not ti mention how he’d react to the fact Itadori has essentially been adopted by a death painting and who Itadori’s parents are (wait never mind about that last bit, I just realised that Itadori still doesn’t know I think.)

“I leave you alone for one day and Japan is in utter chaos”- Gojo, probably.

whatever-the-mess:

nice-predator:

just-shower-thoughts:

it’s weird how you can actually feel it in your chest and stomach when something really hurts your feelings.

The really cool thing is that this is due to the vagus nerve running through both the heart and digestive system. Stressful, anxious emotions affect heart rate and the stomach, that’s why we physically feel emotional pain there. Emotions are physical, chemical reactions of our body, not intangible at all.

Whaaaaaaaat. I’ve never actually thought about the cause of those feelings, but of course there’s an actual physical link there. It makes so much sense.

I learned a thing today!

Yeah it changed my perspective a lot back when I learned about it. Studying emotions from a medical/anatomical standpoint really brings home the fact that we are not in bodies; we are bodies (fuck you, Cartesian dualism).

I also think it demonstrates how dangerous it is that ‘mental health’ is perceived as more abstract and treated like the separate, red-headed stepchild of 'physical health’ when they’re literally the same thing.

Is it too much to ask to get an Adidas promo with CL&SOO HYUK together??