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Where to buy packing underwear online
Here is a list I compiled of online stores that sell packing underwear, as well as prices (mostly in CDN due to my location, also occasionally USD and AU). I made this list for my own personal use, but figured it may be helpful to share with others? It’s a long post, but hopefully it’ll get even longer with some input from other community members!
Please feel free to add any stores I missed, include reviews, etc. via reblog and/or comment!
*Please be advised that many of these stores are 18+ due to their selling s*x toy harnesses etc.*
GenderGear.ca:
Spareparts brand “Pete Underwear” commando ($34 CDN), trunks ($44 CDN)
Early2bedshop.com:
Spareparts brand “Pete Underwear” freestyle ($33.95 CDN) and trunks ($39.95)
Rodeoh brand “Truhk” boxer $50.00 CDN
ToolShedToys.com:
Rodeoh brand boxer ($19 USD), STP boxer ($29 USD), STP long boxer ($25 USD)
Packer Gear brand boxer ($27 USD), briefs ($25 USD)
In-store altered PS Briefs ($17.50 USD), trunks ($19 USD), boxers ($19.50)
Spareparts brand “Pete Underwear” jock ($28.95), briefs ($34.95 USD), trunks ($35.95)
PeecockProducts.com:
Store brand briefs ($43.79), boxers ($46.36), and button fly boxer (48.94)
Transthetics.com:
Store brand “Budgie Briefs” ($39.36 CAD)
FtmEssentials.com:
Rodeoh brand no-fly boxers ($20-22 USD), packing brief ($20 USD), STP packing boxer ($30.00), button fly boxer ($25.00 USD)
Packer Gear brand brief ($28.00 USD)
Spareparts brand “Pete Underwear” trunks ($40 USD), freestyle ($34 USD)
Rodeoh.com:
Store brand classic boxer ($19.99 USD) in black white grey green
Store brand boxers w graphics ($19.99-25 USD)
Store brand sport jock ($29.99 USD)
Store brand briefs ($19.99 USD) in white grey black green
Button fly boxer ($25 USD) teal, marble, dark grey
Boxer w graphics ($19.99-25 USD)
Boxer w extended leg ($15-25 USD)
STP boxer ($29.99 USD) black and grey
FTM Gear section includes a variety of packers, stps, and toys
Ftmdownunder.com:
Store brand trunks ($12 AU) and briefs ($6 AU)
I have also heard of tranzwear.net, but I haven’t the time to research the store rn.
Hopefully I will be able to update this post w more info soon! (updates may include links, descriptions of the stores esp. which ones are available to minors, etc.)
Sam is all packed up and ready for the west coast.
#packing #moving #Colorado #coloradosprings #california #sanfranciscobay
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This summer I reported and hosted a series of podcast episodes about travel for our life hack pod,
I’ll be sharing some packing tips in this post: packing cubes, being smart with what you pack, helpful light travel websites, and YouTube videos to help teach smart packing tips. Links can be found at the bottom of the post or on my Pinterest page.
On Saturday, the pilgrims from the Diocese of Gary had their last informational meeting before departing for our trip. Everyone was excited and nervous and anxious and joyful. We talked about currency, electronics, hair dryers (YOU DON’T NEED ONE), and even Bishop Emeritus Dale Melzcek was there to give us tips about Italy. It was wonderful.
At one point, Kevin, our Diocesan Director, made each one of us promise that we wouldn’t judge other pilgrims by the state of their laundry. That prompted folks at my table to start talking about packing and laundry. Most people said that they could wear their shorts or pants multiple times, but needed a new shirt every day. From there, we started talking about laundry in the sink and how to pack light (at one point, we are going to take Ryanair, a European budget airline that is notorious for being very stingy on luggage). I suggested that someone could pack for an entire week in a backpack and I was left with gaping mouths. It can be done. Come, young grasshoppers: I shall show you the ways of packing light.
My insights come from a lot of places including personal experiences, Rick Steves, and various internet places. At the beginning of the month I traveled to Washington DC with only a 30L backpack and a sling purse. I wanted to pack super light and didn’t want to check a bag on the flight. I packed a whole week’s worth of outfits in my backpack, along with pj’s, socks and underthings, 2 pairs of shoes, toiletries, accessories, and even some electronics. It was a struggle, but I did it! I’m feeling more confident in packing for WYD because I already experience packing light and survived. Knowing that I will be purchasing things, I will be checking a bag. But, having these tips helps me feel more confident in light packing.
I also have creditably because Rick Steves liked a tweet of mine.
Tip 1: PACKING CUBES
The best thing I can say is use packing cubes. Think of packing cubes as drawers for your luggage. They help you sort your clothing, find items easier, and keep your belongings looking tidy. Packing cubes are made from different materials, but usually some kind of breathable fabric that’s sturdy enough to give it some structure but flexible so it can be flattened, like polyester or parachute material. Both of the packing cubes below are about 10" x 7" x 3" (the one the left is a compression packing cube, meaning it can be fully expanded to be about 4 inches tall, but then can be compressed by zipping it up).
It’s up to you what you put inside of them. Some people use small ones for socks and underwear, electronics, or nick knacks. I’ve used the packing cubes in the picture for t-shirts and shorts. When I went to DC, I fit all of my clothes (three dresses, three shirts, pj’s, and a tank top) into a cube 14" x 10" x 3" and my socks and underwear into one 8" x 4" x 3". Don’t believe me? I packed one of the packing cubes I took a picture of to show you how much you can fit into a packing cube.
I then packed the other packing cube. This time, I could fit more clothes (though, in fairness, both were packed to the brim so looked kind of lumpy and is not what the manufacturer recommends). Please ignore my unmade bed and bad photo quality.
On the left, you can see the uncompressed packing cube. On the right, a compressed packing cube.
Tip 2: Be smart with what you bring.
When I packed to show how to use the packing cubes, I didn’t put any thinking into what I chose. When I pack for WYD, I’m going to be more conscious with what I take. Even if you can fit everything you want into perfect packing cubes, it still may be overweight for the flight. Our trip limit for our checked luggage is 44 lbs, so being aware of how much everything weighs is important.
I’m a huge fan of Rick Steves, the guidebook author and host of “Rick Steves’ Europe.” He’s known for helping those on his tours become temporary locals of wherever they travel to and is a champion for traveling light. He and his tour guides only take one carry on size piece of luggage and a personal item when they travel. Often, their tour season lasts for 2 months at a time, so everything in their packs have to last 2 months. One of his guides, Sarah Murdoch, shared some of her travel secrets in an hour long presentation. She only takes a 20 lbs of luggage with her when she gives tours.
It’s sooo helpful! Here are some tips I picked up while watching it:
-When she is deciding between two pieces of clothing she will weigh them and will take the lighter of the two. Even when going to the store to buy something, she will bring a scare to compare weight.
-Just because the item says it’s travel friendly doesn’t mean it is light weight.
-Take neutral colored clothing that goes with everything else. Wear a fun colored scarf to add to your wardrobe options (and use to keep you warm on the plane or to cover your shoulders in churches).
-If you don’t want to stick out as a tourist, stay away from khaki. And never wear flipflops out (they are considered shower shoes. I’m probably going to take a pair but as shoes for the hotel).
-Don’t freak out if you have to buy something. You may find that you like the European option more than the American one. Also, it’s a fun way to meet the locals. Remember, part of a pilgrimage is the people you meet along the way!
-Laundry can be as easy as taking a shower: Sarah said she washed her underwear and socks each time she took a shower. She got in, let the clothes get soaked by the shower water as she bathed herself, and then rubbed them together using her hands while using detergent. She let them rinse in the shower water and rung them out to remove the excess water. She also mentioned ringing them with a microfiber travel towel. That helped shortened drying time.
Now, I’m not saying that you should pack only a carry on, but be smart about what you bring. Ask yourself, am I really going to use this item enough to bring it with me or can I buy it when I get there? I like Rick’s philosophy of planning for the best of what could happen instead of the worst. Assume it won’t rain so don’t pack an umbrella, buy it if you need to, when you get there. And yes, you can pack light. Thousands of people do this each time they travel. Don’t believe me? Go on YouTube and search packing light.
I’m going to include some links for videos about traveling light below and on my Pinterest page. Again, most are for traveling with only a carry on, but they can serve as guides for packing light.
My next post will be about how to pack all of your toiletries into one, one quart bag and one small bag. Also, I’ll share with your my tips for consolidating your toiletries. If you have any tips, please feel free to share!
Websites
-Her Packing List: A travel website by women, for women. I stumbled upon this website while researching day bags and am so thankful for the helpful articles. They have reviews of travel gear, give you packing lists from people who’ve been to the locations, have travel tips, and tips specifically for female travelers. Guys, you can find this site helpful too, but be aware that there’s a lot of talk about bras and periods.
-Rick Steves: Besides his videos, you can find soooo many helpful articles on his website, including packing lists for light travel.-The Everygirl: This is a website that is for, well, the “every girl.” The link I’m recommending gives you three simple tips for organizing your carry on. Again, Gary Pilgrims, remember, we can only take a 20 lbs carry on, so being smart with what you pack will be helpful.
Videos: Besides Rick Steves’ videos, the best videos I’ve found for teaching you how to pack light are done by a company called Tortuga Backpacks. They are a carry on back pack company, so their videos do feature their products, but their tips are universal.
-Rick’s talk about packing light
-Tortuga’sHow to Pack a Carry On. The guy in the video is pretty relaxed about his packing, but I wanted to show you that you canpack super light for a long trip.
-Tortuga’s first video for stepping down to a carry on bag. This is the first of what will be a series of how to go from taking a huge suitcase to a carry on. Again, useful tips for being a smart packer.
-Tortuga’s video on how to do laundry when you travel.
Packing Cubes: I’m listing the places I’ve seen or bought packing cubes from. You can also probably find them on Amazon. Sites like Rick Steves or Tortuga also sell packing cubes that are made to fit for their own backpacks, but can also be used on their own.
-The Container Store: They favor the Eagle Creek systems, and so far, I really enjoy mine. As of writing this, they are having a sale on some travel items. If you want to see them in person, there are some stores in Chicagoland. Prices vary, but can range from $8-$13 a bag depending on the size. They also sell in sets which can go up to $40, depending on the set. They are costly, but are worth it! Eagle Creek is a well known travel brand and lots of travelers swear by them. They also come in different sizes
-Ikea: Ikea sells some travel products, including packing cubes and toiletry bags. Their packing cube set ($10, but they go down to $8 if you are an Ikea Family member, which is free so become one if you go), includes 4 cubes, one of which is double zipped, so one side can be for clean clothes, and one for dirty.
-Target: Target currently sells 2 sets of packing cubes. One is for clothes (I don’t have a personal recommendation for this one), and one is for smaller items (I use it for electronics and for scarves). The large set is $25, the smaller is $10.
*I’m not sure if I need to put this, but I haven’t been paid to recommend any of these products or services. I just really, really, really like them.
I am packing what few belongings I have in my duffle bag for my trip out to Thailand tomorrow morning. I have been longing for a vacation outside the confines of an urban city for quite some time now. Being that I seem to have been lured to reside in cities without immediate access to open seas and virginal white sand (Toronto, Japan, Singapore), I have been itching to dip my toes into warm waters.
It’s safe to say that the few days of escape will amount to devouring copious amounts of pad thai, slathering Coppertone on my skin, salt and sand in my hair, and reading—lots of it. I have rounded up a stack of books to sink my teeth into by the pool, which should turn me into a painful shade of roasted suckling pig by the time I touch back down in Singapore.
I hope you are all staying warm and surrounded with loved ones this holiday. Happy New Year!
ㅎㅎㅎ 90년대의 고등학생 준영. 두려움을 전혀 몰랐던 10대. IMF가 터지기 전 좋았던 시절. 백인들만 있는 시골 도시의 고등학교 기숙사에 있었다. 삐삐도 필요없었던 시골..ㅋ 피어싱을 떠억~ 하고 한국에 돌아오자 아부지가 심히 당황하셨었지..ㅋㅋ The late 90s…! Totally fierce. I miss that dorm room and the iMac. #packing #oldphotos #옛날사진 #korean #minnesota #polaroid
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I’m packing and I never realized how many shoes I have. I’m taking black flats, black heels, white heels, two pairs of flip flops, gold sandals, tennis shoes, vans, white lacy tom-ish shoes, black lacy tom-ish shoes, comfy sporty flip flops, and I’m debating taking a pair of boots.
I need help.
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Packing Guide v1.0
This is the second guide I’ve developed for DysphoriAid, a project meant to create simple and printable guides for transgender people on the topic of dysphoria-relieving items. This packing guide includes basics, where to buy packers, making your own, Do’s and Don’ts, and additional information. It was developed with the help of a coworker and friend Richard Cole.
As always, the original files may be requested for modification via an ask to this blog. If you download, please reblog!
The text can be read below the readmore, formatted in the intended reading order.
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DysphoriAid Packer Sheet Online v1.0
Trusted Companies - Make Your Own - Do’s and Don’ts - Further Info
The Basics, What to Keep in Mind, and Where to Buy
A packer is an item used to replicate a bulge and occasionally other features associated with having a penis for those born without one. There are multiple reasons why someone would choose to pack, including lessening dysphoria, improving body image, and increasing personal safety in public places and for people who are expected to “pass” as a non-transgender man. Making the choice to pack can be very personal and not everyone who “could” pack will or wants to. Discomfort with or a lack of a need to pack doesn’t make anyone any less transgender or nonbinary, nor does packing make anyone more transgender or nonbinary.
The decision to pack starts with the decision of one’s price range and what one would like from a packer. There are three main times of packers: soft packers, pack n plays (packers that can also be used for sex via an insertable rod), and pack, play, and pees (packers that can be used for both sex and for peeing in a standing position). Usually, the ones with more uses are more expensive. Packers come in many different materials, sizes, and colors as well. Packers made from porous material and can easily soak up bacteria and dirt, which can cause urinary tract infections and skin problems, but can be more comfortable for the wearer. Silicone packers are more durable but still need to be cared for. When it comes to size, bigger is not always better. There are definitely large packers, as there are definitely people with large penises, but smaller packers give a more realistic look and are often more comfortable to wear. Finally, most packer companies offer a range of skin colors, but finding one to match your exact skin tone if desired may make the search for a packer take more time. It is possible to recolor some packers, look for a link in “Additional Information.”
Most people who own packers own a variety of accessories as well. Packers, especially the lower-end ones, do not stay in place well. Harnesses and special underwear can be used to keep them from falling out. Pack and plays cannot be used for the “play” function without a harness. Most packers can be cleaned with soap and water, but some companies and some materials warrant special cleaning solutions. Going to websites listed in the next paragraph and the “Additional Information” section can help you make an informed decision and show you what else you need along with a packer.
If everything written here sounds confusing and convoluted to you, there’s good news - transgender and nonbinary people have been packing for decades and companies are more than willing to help you understand their products. The Tool Shed (toolshedtoys.com) is an LGBT-owned business that focuses on sex positivity and safety and offers a good selection of packers in a clean layout, including the popular first-time-packer line Mr. Limpy / Softie. TranZwear (tranzwear.net) is a transgender-owned business that focuses mostly on packers and packer accessories. A note for TranZwear however: the site may be difficult or impossible to navigate for those with reading or sensory difficulties due to the general uncleanliness of the design. For the extreme end of quality and price, look at the transgender-owned Transthetics (transthetics.com).
Make Your Own / Packing Without a Packer
Sometimes, purchasing a packer is not feasible for any number of reasons. So, here are some alternatives! All the rules to regular packing - found in the “Do’s and Don’ts” section - should be followed even when not wearing an official packer. These methods are often helped by the use of the specialized underwear made for packers.
NOTE: Never ever use tape or adhesive to secure a packer of any type. Surgical glue is used in some cases, but only for prosthetic packers and only by trained medical professionals.
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Option #2: Fill an unlubricated condom about halfway with some sort of gel, like hair gel, and tie it off tightly at the desired length. Place within another unlubricated condom or two, typing those off as well. Cover with a sock or other sleeve to reduce tugging and catching. Place in a jock strap or tight-fitting underwear. Watch for tearing and leakage, replace often.
Option #1: Roll a pair of socks into itself to create an oval-ish shape, manipulating the socks until a desirable bulge is achieved. Stick the faux-bulge into your underwear, securing it with safety pins if there’s concern of it falling out or losing its shape. Not always realistic-looking, but cheap and easy. Use thin socks to reduce heat.
The Do’s and Don’ts of Packing
Do
Wash your packer every day after wearing it with at least soap and water
Try out different placements and ways of securing your packer to find out what fits and feels comfortable
Look at examples of cisgender men and other packing transgender people online for placement reference, like underwear models
Listen to your body and make sure your packer isn’t overheating or hurting your genital region
Replace your packer if it becomes damaged, worn out, or cannot be cleaned properly
Look up reviews and videos on packing and specific packers and accessories before buying
Dust non-hommade packers with cornstarch before wearing to lessen the dirt and hair they pick up
Experiment if resources permit you to
Don’t
Leave your packer in a damp area or where bacteria is likely to flourish
Expect other transgender people to always feel comfortable talking about their packing experiences
Place tape or adhesive anywhere near your genital area
Trade your packers with other transgender people, especially if they are pack and plays or pack, play, and pees.
Feel discouraged if a popular packer isn’t right for you
Boil silicone / cyberskin / thermal gel packers, as they will melt
Ignore the directions of the manufacturer or seller - they know best!
Use non-skin-safe cleaning materials on your packer
Force yourself to pack even if you identify as a trans male or trans masculine
Additional Information
Online*:
A Guide to Packers for Transmen (http://ftm-guide.com/guide-to-packers-for-transmen/)
Hudson’s FTM Resource Guide (http://www.ftmguide.org/packing.html)
Making your own Stand to Pee (http://www.wikihow.com/Make-an-Easy-StP-(Stand-to-Pee)-Device)
Reviews on packing harnesses (http://transguys.com/features/packing-harness-roundup)
How to recolor your packer (http://toysfortransmen.tumblr.com/post/36054626438/how-to-recoloring-your-packer)
*While this info sheet includes both binary and nonbinary transgender people, a great deal of the online resources available for packing only includes language about transgender men. The information is still good for nonbinary people, but readers should be aware of this. Additionally, online guides and resources often include pictures of packers, many of which are very realistic. Keep this in mind when searching on a non-private computer, browsing in public, or if you are adverse to images of penises.
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A huge thank-you to Richard Cole for helping out with the research and links for this information sheet
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[Image Description: a one-page document formatted so both sides are visible as two pages. It is titled “DypsohiAid Packing Sheet v1.0″ and is all black text on a white background. The full text can be read under the readmore of this post.]
Packing Guide v1.0
This is the second guide I’ve developed for DysphoriAid, a project meant to create simple and printable guides for transgender people on the topic of dysphoria-relieving items. This packing guide includes basics, where to buy packers, making your own, Do’s and Don’ts, and additional information. It was developed with the help of a coworker and friend Richard Cole.
As always, the original files may be requested for modification via an ask to this blog. If you download, please reblog!
The text can be read below the readmore, formatted in the intended reading order.
The final material needing updates! Minorly changed the image description and added the full text. Also there were a few minor text errors in the file I just caught so that’s been updated as well. Enjoy!
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Traveling whilst trans! Can you pack? What about being patted down and the body scanners? Should I shave if my paperwork isn’t updated?
I answer all these questions with a few little anecdotes too!
Going home. #Travel #Packing #Superman #Kindle #Canon #RayBan #Undefeated #Snapback #Bose #Headphones #Greece #Mykonos
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While it is so exciting to get out of town for the holidays and take a little vacation, the one aspect that I can’t stand about the traveling process is packing my suitcase! Hate it! I always leave it to the last minute and then inevitably forget something, from a small replaceable item such as shampoo, to a large irreplaceable piece of clothing. And over-packing or under-packing will…
