#traits

Aries: protective / reckless
Taurus: unrelenting / egocentric
Gemini: attentive / talkative
Cancer:compassionate / depressive
Leo: loyal / self-absorbed
Virgo:delicate / distrusting
Libra:supportive / indecisive
Scorpio: mature / discontent
Sagittarius: independent / overly dramatic
Capricorn:intuitive / dismissive
Aquarius: adventurous / bitchy
Pisces: dreamy / unstable

Atro note:

Having a stellium in one house makes you afraid of the oposite house.

I.e.: 3 or more planets in the 4th house and none in the 10th makes you afraid of being in the public eye, makes you lack online socializing skills, but it gives you great management when meeting the people physically.

An stellium in the 5th will make you a great boyfriend/girlfriend material, will give you great creativity skills but having none in the 11th will make you be detached from friends and/or be afraid of them.

To be actually able to handle the empty house you have to look at the sign that is in the cusp of it and avoid the bad traits of it:

I.e.: Cancer in the 11th empty house will make you feel pitiful and whiny over friends, instead, try to text them and make them feel nurtured and cared.

Hey, thanks for 200 followers!! In celebration, I guess I’ll be making this post for you guys. Ahh, I’m sorry if any of this sounds super mean, because I know I’ll get pretty bitchy writing this. Welp anyways, check Sun, Moon, and Rising.

Aries:Get. Your. Shit. Together. Your such a mess at times, like really, you’ll start so many projects and overflow with ideas, but learn to finish something for once, will ya? And stop trying to be the leader of everything, learn to work in a group, you’re not going to lead everything in your life, and you won’t alway be in control, and honey, you’ve gotta learn to accept it, the faster you start, the easier it will get over time. And believe me, you’ll get so many other opportunities and times to lead, but when you’re not in charge, learn to sit back, be part of the group. Stop holding yourself above others, you’re not the queen, you’re no better than anyone else, so stop acting like it. Also, there’s a line between confident with yourself, and being self obsessed or conceited, so stop, love yourself but don’t act like you’re the queen, not everyone has to obey your every order and drool over you. And on that note, stop assuming everyone wants you, news flash, they probably don’t you’re not the center of the universe so stop acting like it. Stop being so headstrong, listen to other people’s thoughts or opinions and don’t just shut everything out and be stuck on your own thought. It’s infuriating to others, and I’m sure you don’t enjoy when someone else is like that. Also learn to be patient, not everything in life will come in a snap, learn to wait for things. 

Taurus: Stop being so stubborn. The first thing you’d expect to read when your talking about a Taurus’s negative traits. But seriously, stop having your mind set on one thing, listen to other people’s ideas and arguments. I can assure you, once you stop having your mind so set on one thing, people will enjoy hanging around you more. Learn to be open. If you want people to listen to you, then you sure as hell better listen to them. Also stop being so materialistic, there’s a lot more to life than possessions. Have you maybe thought about friendships or a life? I can tell you for certain that you won’t perish if you don’t get that new piece of Hayley Kiyoko merch. And stop worrying so much about your appearance, that’s not all that matters, have you maybe thought about just focusing on your personality, because I know I’d rather be friends with someone non attractive with a wonderful personality, than a supermodel with a shit personality. And with how you tend to act sometimes without thinking, potentially ruining relationships of any kind, maybe you should think about improve it. Lastly, you don’t rule the world, or anyone but yourself. So stop acting like everyone is obliged to listen to you, and don’t think everyone wants to. Everyone is they’re own person, and you have no right to try and take away their freedom, because you sure as hell wouldn’t enjoy having them taking away yours.

Gemini:Stick to shit in your life and stop giving up so easily. Stop changing your mind so much about every little thing, once you decide something how about you fucking stick to it. Do you honestly think you’ll ever be able to accomplish anything if you keep abandoning everything so quick? If you get bored of something just look into the aspects of it deeply, find something about whatever it is that you enjoy, and work on that. You can’t just keep giving up, just thought through things sometimes or just try your hardest to find something interesting, because no one is going to do all the work in your life for you. But at the same time, don’t shut people and take on all the work yourself. Learn to actually let people help you, you’d be surprised that people other than yourself can actually do things correctly. Spoilers: YOUR NOT THE ONLY ONE.  And stop focusing on all the physical aspects of yourself and others, does a Nyx or Mac lippie really tell you who a person actually is? What’s inside matters a whole fuck ton more than your appearance. So stop avoiding people just because you don’t like how they dress, or how they look. Open your eyes and don’t look just at the outer appearance of everything and everyone, and start thinking about what’s inside. (And I don’t fucking mean organs and shit.) 

Cancer: Stop being so rude and moody, learn to lighten up about things. No one appreciates being around if all they have to deal with is your sour mood and attitude. Try not to let everything affect you so much. If someone has a sour comment about you, try to not think about it or let it affect you, though I won’t discourage that you send one right back at them. And stop being so down about everything, life isn’t out to get you. You don’t have to be so pessimistic about everything. Just hope for the best and try your hardest, you’d only win at something if you learned to belive in yourself, you can actually succeed at things in life if you put your mind to it and think you can do it, because hun, I know you can.  Also stop being so clingy when you’re in relationships. If someone actually loves you they won’t cheat on you, so stop getting so worried. If you want your partner to give you some space and freedom, you sure as hell better do the same for them. Learn to let go of things close to heart, whether it be people, possessions, or anything super close to them. Also stop being so scared about everything, everyone’s not trying to hurt you in life, so just relax and stop being so worried about everything. Stop doubting everyone in everything they do. And for fucks sake, stop taking every little thing to heart, stop being so emotional about every little thing. You need to learn how to have tougher skin and not let every little thing break you.

Leo:Just like an Aries, you are stupidly fucking headstrong. So it boggles me why you two can still be so compatible. Stop being so stubborn about every little thing, let other people change your mind from time to time because I’m sure they might have a better idea than you. You’re not the only one with a brain, so stop acting like it. You’re not the center of the universe, accept that. Your ego is fucking insane. You think you’re always right and no matter what anyone says, they can’t convince you otherwise. Do you know how fucking annoying that is? If you keep acting that way and not let anyone change your mind from time to time, then you’ll find you have no one that can stand you soon. And stop being so possessive of people, and don’t assume that everyone wants to follow behind you. Some like to follow and some like to lead, yes you may be on the leader spectrum of that, but learn that you can’t be the only one, or you’ll encounter a lot of conflict. Learn to just sit back sometimes, you’re not always going to be able to be in control of things. Stop being so impatient as well, you expect everything to happen so soon. But just lean back and enjoy things one step at a time. Stop worrying so much about deadlines and dates. And for fucks sake, stop being so self centered and think before you speak or act, didn’t you ever think about another person’s emotions other than your own?

Virgo: Stop being so overly critical about every little flaw in every little thing. You make everything seem like a production even though it could be something as simple as cleaning the kitchen. You have such a clear picture of how everything should be in your mind, but you need to learn  that not everything will always be perfect and you shouldn’t try to force it to be. And for fucks sake, your not always right, stop acting like you know best, everyone knows what’s best for themselves, but yet you think think you know them better. Stop. It’s frustrating, no one enjoys being bossed around. And I know you usually just want the best for people, but they’ll ask if they need help, so don’t just force it on them. And learn to think about people’s feelings a bit more. I know sometimes you have to say the complete truth, but it wouldn’t hurt to sugarcoat things from time to time, or at least throw in a couple strengths before you go straight for a flaw. And stop setting your standards so high, and when people don’t meet them completely, stop making such a fuss. People can try to impress you with all their heart, but you just put them down because you feel it wasn’t extravagant enough. Thats bullshit. And stop being so fucking conservative, give things a chance, sorry but there’s no reason for you to be stuck in 1960 while everyone else around you in modern day.

Libra:You easily get carried away by outer beauty, to the extent that you may ignore the beautiful inner qualities of other people. This can be extremely fucking problematic in most cases. Like imagine how many good relationships you’d be missing out on just because you’re only thinking of someone’s outer appearance rather than the great personality they might have. One of the most difficult things for a Libra is to make a decision. When faced with a choice, it is very tough for you to select what is best for them, which can become a big hurdle in their path. If you need help with big decisions in life, don’t be afraid to ask other people for help. I’m sure a friend would be more than happy to help you out. Just don’t rely on people for every little thing. Because you have a strong desire for material comforts, you may tend to waste a lot of money in unnecessary luxuries. I know you don’t need that Gucci purse. Libra are firm and strong, but they can also be detached and pretend to be happy sometimes as they don’t wish to displease anyone. Stop being so worried over what others think. You can easily be influenced by the views of other people and are prone to keep changing their minds. Remember, don’t focus so much on what other people think, and focus on what YOU want.

Scorpio:You tend to be extremely possessive and jealous. And the jealousy more often than not disturbs your relationships and affects their peace of mind. Stop focusing so much on what other people have and learn to appreciate everything that you have. Someone may have some really expensive computer, and you might think that they’re super lucky that they have it. But then think about everything that you have in your life, they most likely don’t have that best friend of yours, or someone close to you. Life isn’t about the materialistics. You find it extremely difficult to trust people and are therefore very secretive. You will not let people easily know what’s going on in their mind or life. While it is sometimes pretty useful to let people help you out sometimes. You are very sensitive and can get hurt easily by negative treatment and comments. So, you often will try to get even with those who dared to insult or harm them. Just fucking accept that people are like that sometimes, you don’t have to stoop to their level. Manipulative and domineering as you are, Scorpio have a knack of getting things done their way. Although they are sensitive and considerate, they can become extremely ruthless especially when they are supposed to take tough/ firm decisions, and so no emotions can delay them.

Sagittarius:You are prone to taking things for granted, and taking unnecessary risks. Your careless approach to life attracts criticism from everyone. Maybe try to fucking think before you act so you don’t end up in some deep shit. Your honesty can sometimes be too brutal, which hurts others. A lesson on how to speak tactfully can help you a great deal. Maybe try sugarcoating things just a little. Maybe give a couple compliments or good bits of news before you point out a flaw or give bad news. The people born under this Sign are prone to be restless and can push things too far, especially when your energy is not channelised properly. Outer looks mean a lot to them. This can be extremely fucking problematic in most cases. Like imagine how many good relationships you’d be missing out on just because you’re only thinking of someone’s outer appearance rather than the great personality they might have. You don’t have enough patience or inclination to look below the surface to see the actual substance. Your interest in things can be short-lived, and keeps fluctuating. Thus you end up being less efficient than you can be. You find it extremely difficult to deliver consistent performance. The Sagittarius can be over-confident. You tend to believe that they can do no wrong, and thus actually end up making many mistakes.

Capricorn:You are prone to becoming pessimistic because you find it difficult to go against the odds. Just hope for the best and try your hardest, you’d only win at something if you learned to belive in yourself, you can actually succeed at things in life if you put your mind to it and think you can do it, because hun, I know you can. But still no matter how much you achieve, you always think of yourself as a underachiever. Seriously learn to give yourself a little credit from time to time. Especially if you’ve put in a good amount of work to whatever it is. Capricorn have a strong feeling that their decisions and methods are perfect, and will rarely change their views. But you should always consider what other people think. You are good at communications but are fundamentally shy and normally take your own sweet time to open up to the best of friends. You are very conscious of how events will affect you, and this preoccupation with yourself make people think they are selfish. Capricorn can be very detached people who will not get close to others beyond a certain point. Emotional involvement doesn’t come easily to you. You can be witty and funny at one moment and grumpy at the very next. These mood swings can make you behave irresponsibly which can ruin things. No one appreciates being around if all they have to deal with is your sour mood and attitude. Try not to let everything affect you so much.

Aquarius:As ironic as it sounds, you're literally the definition of hipster. You’ll be in love with something for so long, but as soon as it’s popularity rises, you say you absolutely despise it. It is very difficult to predict what you will do next. You dislike monotony, and will never follow a fixed behavioural pattern. Maybe try sticking to one damn thing from time to time. Stop changing everything around so often. Your philosophy in life is to live and let live, and you will not let anyone get close to your heart beyond a point. You are scared of losing your freedom. Just try to talk to people about that, state how you need your freedom, don’t be silent about it or just tough through it. Be vocal of your opinions. Although you are good at listening, it is very difficult to make the you change your pattern of thinking. Maybe try listening to what other have to say because who knows, maybe they’re right or have some good ideas. Stop acting like your the only one who actually has a brain. You tend to cut yourself off from others whenever you wish, and become distant. Thus, you can miss out on some good opportunities. There seems to be no middle path for the you. It is always all or nothing for you. This is the reason why people in your circle think of you as an extremist.

Pisces: You tend to be an escapist. When things go wrong, you blame it on their bad luck or something else and avoid dealing with it fair and square. You seriously need to learn to just deal with things yourself, You can’t just rely on everyone else to help you. It’s not bad to ask for help from time to time, but if for every little thing you rely on others, it’s annoying and unnecessary. Learn to take control by yourself, you can go running back to people everyday for help. You get hurt and demoralised very easily, and you’ll be an emotional wreck from every little thing. Learn to get a little tougher skin, don’t take every little thing to heart. Especially if someone says it in more of a joke context. Not everyone’s out to get you even though it may seem that way to you. Even with all the talent and resources you possess, your low self-esteem becomes a hindrance in your path. You take everything to heart and become emotional in the extremes. If things don’t turn out as per your expectations, you can lose the motivation to carry on. You tend to look at the negative side more than the positive side of things. While looking at that negative side of things, try to pick out things to improve on, but be sure to find thoses you’ve done well, give yourself a treat or a pat on the back for them. Try to find things that interest you out of whatever you’re working on and focus on them for a while. You can be very lazy about things that don’t matter to you. Your enthusiasm and energy levels last only for a short time.

catboymuqing:

guys again please please please please please please please think critically about those posts that are like “i didn’t realize [really common or nonspecific thing] was an adhd thing and doesn’t apply to neurotypicals/anyone else at all!!” bc a lot of the time they are completely unfounded (sometimes frankly insane) and give people really messed up ideas about the differences between nd and nt people and how those differences work. and that shit doesn’t help anybody in any way! you don’t have to pathologize and essentialize everything you do, and you shouldn’t build up firm definitional barriers between neurotypes that don’t really exist. i’m talking about that friendship post specifically rn which is a prime example (come on, you can’t characterize how all people of a certain neurotype manage something as infinitely complex as human friendship), but it applies to SO many other things i’ve seen floating around i feel like i make this post every other day. the mental math thing comes readily to mind too.. honestly just think about these things before u spread them like true information, check the sources or go find sources at least.. please

Also sometimes it’s something from another condition, and the spreading of information saying it’s from condition A can cause people to not persue an assessment for condition B.

Sometimes it’s a genuine misinterpretation, mix up, incorrect wording, etc… But it can still lead to people going without the correct diagnosis.

(yea so I ended up with a bunch of misdiagnoses (which does happen, especially if you’re late diagnosed autistic like me!) and took forever before persuing an autism assessment (correct diagnosis) due to seeing all kinds of stuff propping up the incorrect diagnoses from psychiatrists who didn’t spend more than 5-20min talking to me before throwing a label at me. Once I had a proper full assessment for everything I lost like. 5 different diagnoses I’d had it was ridiculous.

Wasn’t until I started seeing a new psychiatrist who looked at my LONG diagnosis and medication list and was like “Uh… Something’s up.” That I started double checking shit and realized things weren’t adding up.)

So yea; seriously PLEASE double check things!!