#vagina problems
to anyone that has any sort of pelvic floor dysfunction and feels burnt out and tired of trying treatments and what not, if you want to pause and take a break from all of that im here to tell you yes do it! i’ve been on a break for a couple of months now and im not ashamed to say it. i felt guilty at first because i felt like i was losing precious time but i then realized i wasn’t, i was just taking care of myself. do it for your mental health and don’t worry this isn’t a race its a whole process and journey that may take a long time so whenever you feel like you need to take a break do it no matter how long that break is, take your time you will be okay and trust that things will happen when they need to
having vulvodynia and vaginismus is crazy like it’s really just pussy out of order 24/7
the fact that there’s really no cure for vulvodynia
in a sex obsessed society having vulvodynia, vaginismus or any other sort of pelvic floor dysfunction is like a curse bc at the end of the day everything in one way or another seems to come back to sex and im just like well i can’t do that so what now
vulvodynia and vaginismus suck not only are they invisible burdens that barely anyone is aware of but it’s also so fucking embarrassing and humiliating like how am i supposed to tell people sorry my coochie is broken what the fuck
ya know one thing that i’m slowly accepting is that its ok for me to feel all this pain and it’s okay to be angry about it i shouldn’t expect myself to be happy about this. i don’t have to pretend. im allowing myself to feel all these things bc it’s all part of me
not to be a downer on my own self but i simply don’t see myself ever having a fulfilling relationship or wtv like hello how is someone gonna want to stay with me when i can’t have sex due to my vagina problems it’s just not realistic also not to mention all the other bagage i carry lol
the things pelvic floor dysfunction has done to my already none existing self-esteem… didn’t have one to begin with but somehow it tanked even lower i guess the impossible is always possible
sex do be kinda disgusting when you really think about it maybe the monks and the nuns did make some points after all
sometimes everything seems to be going just fine and then out of nowhere i remember i have pelvic floor dysfunction *sighs* yeah it fucking sucks lol
had to take a massive break from physio bc depression was just hitting hard and i felt like i was just gonna go crazy eventually but alas im back in business lets go! also to all my vagina owners out there don’t feel bad for putting off your physio exercises even if it’s for a really long time, doesn’t matter the reason, just put yourself first and do what is best for you in the moment. be patient and be kind to yourself, you deserve a break, you deserve some peace of mind. take care of yourself
damn people really be out here with normal functioning vaginas having regular painless sex
would literally rather throw myself off a cliff than to be touched by a person like no thank you stay away
my chronic pain has completely ruined even the idea of ever being intimate with someone i would literally rather die than to be touched i feel so unwanted yet i don’t even want to entertain the idea of someone liking me
im young yet my body feels rotten and wasted like it’s already decaying ready to just become dust. i hate being pointed out that im young as if that means i must be perfectly healthy. i hate feeling like my body has failed me and im not like others. i hate my body and i hate myself
the way so many doctors and medical professionals just don’t be giving a fuck about the patients
