#its okay

venusian-prince:

***this is just for fun, based on my irl view / stereotypes ~ all types can behave differently based on health levels/values/etc. 

SO/Sx

pros: honestly get along with this stacking so well, definitely on the same wavelength & usually become/are great friends, usually just nice in general

cons: flighty, really needs to work on grounding themselves?? like take care of yourself for once and don’t give everything away to people whether its  emotionally or physically?? know that people will take advantage of you

SX/So

pros: also get along with this stacking. knows what they like, definitely has an alluring aura around them that draws people in, but only they decide who gets to come in or not. I would say much more magnetic than so/sx

cons: can be pretty cold if they decide something is not for them, a little obsessive over certain things that others would be like ???? why ?? also needs to take care of themselves more, but I feel not as willing to rely on others so double whammy?

SO/Sp

pros: can be good friends, especially if you just want someone to chill with & not talk about anything in particular. knows how to play the social game, what will be generally perceived as accepted/rejected by the group you’re in 

cons: reminds me of the cliche, but true, social climber suburbia stereotype? can be shady & pull some stunts if they don’t value you as important to their well-being/life

SP/So

pros: has a softer vibe than so/sp, reminds me of truly just going with the flow, solitary type but not with the intimidating vibes of don’t fucking talk to me types. once you get to know them, they will usually be their for you tend lend a ear; grounded

cons: seemingly a little barren inside, has trouble truly expressing their will, passion, and zest for life with conviction. even tho so-second , can seem a little aloof, disconnected from the social sphere 

SX/Sp (****note: don’t know have too much exp. w/ So-blinds)

pros: also has a magnetic energy about them like sx/so, but in a much more bad boy/bad girl way that draws me in. although not willing to participate in lots of so- activities , not necessarily rejecting people in general. if you connect with them through sx 1-1 , in can be truly a great relationship

cons: ok we get, you’re not like the typical person who doesn’t play by societies rules!!!! ur edgy!!!! (but you kinda want people to know this, even tho you say you don’t care what other people think)

SP/Sx

pros:truly self-sufficient, doesn’t give a shit & takes nobody’s shit. can provide insightful critiques about society as an outsider. if you win the lottery and somehow become close to them, I think they truly will have a deep value for you

cons:irl lone wolf, also edgy but in a more scary, off-putting way. being the outsider of society, who may have valid critiques, but doesn’t willingly want to contribute to change so kinda of contradictory ?? 

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Not today okay. I’m so sorry that you’re here, and sometimes it feels pointless. Just know, that its’ okay. It’s okay to not be okay. You’re going to be okay. DM me if you need to vent.  

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Remove the negative connotation from the concept of failing

smiles-advice:

slow progress is still progress

asking-jude:

“It’s okay to cry over something you thought you were healed from.”

— Lauren Marana 

♡ Need support?

Isn’t it funny how something that use to be the worst habit like cutting,carving and burning took over your life, but then all of a sudden its just easy to stop..?

i have been self harming for a year and a half and the longest i have ever gone is 6-7 weeks.. i am currently at 5 weeks and my goal is 8+ weeks. it use to be all i would think about.. 24/7 i would self harm once, twice maybe even 3 times? a day depending in what was going on… i have self harmed not only at home but at school as well.

i remembered one time i was so depressed and didn’t have blade and i was out shopping with one of my best friends and i bought a package of pencil sharpeners and took the blades out cause i was so desperate.

now that i think of it i just think of how i don’t want to be that person and how gross that is, to be so addicted like that, i have no longer wanted to self harm in like 5 months it just doesn’t really appeal to me anymore but when shit happens that’s all i really know to do so i trying to fix that and change that into new habits that are good.!!!

although i say that.. ever since i slowed down and stopped self harming i have started starving myself and am under weight but i will be trying harder to recover as i need to be strong to susceed in my sport,

-Depressed mess (B)

ily all stay strong xoxo

check out my instagram @you.wrecked.me._

Spring break is over, Tomorrow back to school I’m very nervous and might relapse, going to try very hard not to self harm I haven’t In 3 weeks. My longest is 6 weeks and I’m going to go longer. But I’m going to focus on my eating disorder right now. I’m trying to stay strong because I know there’s hope! Stay strong all xoxo

There’s so many articles or “think pieces” popping up about making Zuko/Katara a thing now that there’s going to be an Avatar live action remake. (Buzzfeed has even mentioned Zutara in two of their recent posts) And, while I doubt the creators would change who she ends up with, I hope Netflix doesn’t push them to throw in a love triangle for the sensationalism of it all. Not only because love triangles are annoying and unnecessary, but also because I can’t stress enough how unhealthy that relationship would be. I don’t care about people shipping them—to each your own—and some people have even said they shipped them because they like Zuko and related to Katara. All the power to you! But I’ve said it once and I’ll die saying it: he tried to kill/harm her several times. He fought with her in the Siege of the North episode with a vengeance that was meant to kill. He hired an assassin, stalked her and her friends, verbally abused her, stole from her, and there was literally physical confrontations. If someone does that to you, donot get into a relationship with them. I can’t believe I even have to say that. Yes, he changed, but you can’t discredit that he did all those things to her at a point in time. If you choose to ship them though, then that’s fine. Tomato, toe-ma-toe. But please for the love of everything, do not write think pieces or posts asking for the remake of a children’s show to have a young girl be in a relationship that would ultimately be toxic rather than the healthy, supportive-from-the-start relationship she originally ended up in. Let’s give kids healthy relationship examples.

“Sometimes people forget how hard it is to go about your day. How hard it is to just love someone who loves you. When depression hits you, you forget everything, you forget that you’re loved and you love someone. Because its this piece of shit that reminds you constantly that you are not worthy of the love. That whatever you set out to do won’t be enough because you are not enough. I feel this constantly. Some days I’ll be fine but days like today, breathing even crying feels like the biggest task in life. So, I want everyone to know, that this will pass and one day we will look back and realize that this had to happen, to let us become who we are today.”

- g.d (this will make us weak before it makes us strong)

“And I did not realize how hard it is to forget you. Forget the friendship we had, the memories we shared. The laughter that rang through the dark nights and sunny mornings. The promises we made to stay together forever. But I guess I was justthe sea for you, while you were my anchor.”

- g.d (best friend break ups hurt more than anything)