imstuckinarut-astrology:

Aries: Lets get right to it, sultry, seductive, straight forward, spontaneous.

Taurus: good food, gentle music, Nice aromas, sensual, a classic seduction.

Gemini: love letters, Humour, Conversation, stimulated intellect.

Cancer: To show vulnerability and sensitivity in Conversation, good food, emotional connection, gentleness.

Leo: Theatrics, burlesque, performances, loyalty, affection.

Virgo: Cleanliness, subtle seduction, intellect, nothing spontaneous. 

Libra: Charm, Literature, Gentle conversation, good manners.

Scorpio: dark, erotic conversation, secrets, nothing superficial, games of power and control. 

Capricorn: Straight forward, discretion, sensuality, be classy. 

Sagittarius: Have fun, travel, variety, Freedom, humour. 

Aquarius: intellectual conversation, be fun, detachment, speak on the phone/computer, use of technology.

Pisces: Imagination, intricate fantasy, escapism, compassion.

- This would work in combination with your Venus sign also. 

Amor Asteroid (1221) and soulmates

TheAmor asteroid in Astrology is connected to platonic love and compassion - similarly to Ceres it can represent unconditional love, one that doesn’t need to have a reason to exist, one that would exist regardless of the circumstances, but in a romantic way, unlike Ceres which is normally connected to a mother-child type of relationship.

Amor can show intimacy, closeness, a relationship that doesn’t have to be sexual, but one that carries a strong connection between the two people. Amoralso shows how we deal with romantic rejection - whether it’s aspected in anger (natal aspect to Mars), in isolation and loneliness(natal aspectto Uranus and/or Saturn), in victimhood(natal aspect to Neptune), in putting more focus on ourselves (natal aspect to Sun or Venus) or accepting it as a lesson, despite our ego being hurt (natal aspect to Jupiter).Natal aspects between Amor and Pluto, or the Moon can be a big sign of holding onto relationships(Moon) or them being life-changing, having big impact on us and our future relationships (Pluto).

Amor can also show the love that feels ideal to us - our true romantic desires, how and what we require to experience the highest form of love, to feel truly loved.

Here are the best Amor aspects to have in Synastry (in my opinion):

Amor conjunct the other person’s Sun or Ascendant, Amor in the other person’s 1st House

The Sun/Ascendant/1st House person has the qualities that the Amor person can idolize romantially, it can show direct attachment and romantic feelings that can evolve fast. The Amor person may fall in love with the Sun/AS person’s presence, their being. They can romanticize them, view them through rose-colored glasses (at times it can be quite Neptunian). The Sun/AS person will feel truly confident, appreciated, worthy and valid. They can view each other as their ideal lover, as someone who directly represents the qualities in the person they have always wanted to love.

Amor conjunct the other person’s Moon

This can give a feeling that it was “meant to be”. It can be very selfless, quite sacrificial at times as if even hurting the other person the slightest causes great pain to yourself too. The Moon person will feel like their true self is finally loved by someone, as if someone worships the part of themselves that they can’t seem to always love themselves.

Amor conjunct the other person’s Venus

This is one of the straight-out-of-a-fairytale aspects. It can show a very romantic love, a love in which both people, the Amor person specifically, are willing to do whatever it takes to please the other person romantically. It can show a growing love, one that builds up both people, one that allows them to live out their romantic desires. It can feel that the relationship was meant to be - even if other aspects in the synastry chart are bad, they are likely to come back to this relationship.

Amor conjunct the other person’s Descendant/opposite their Ascendant or Amor in the other person’s 7th House

The relationship will feel very reflective - they are likely to act on it or develop feelings for each other at the same time. This can signify a very strong union, a union that carries love for each other that can’t go away regardless of the circumstances. In many cases, it can be said that this is the type of relationship where both people are ready to take a bullet for each other. It can be selfless, the other person will be a priority, they will be an important part of your life you have to think about before making any decision. It is often seen in long-term relationships.

Amor conjunct the other person’s Psyche

This can show a love that is very emotional - very profound. It is not physical, not just emotional - it seems to come from a very different place. In this aspect, you are in love with the other person’s being, their soul. The relationship can feel romantically transformative, as if all journeys have finally led to this. The relationship will bring out both people’s intuition, especially when it’s connected to the other person - it can give a telepathic-like connection. The relationship may feel like the place in which the Psychic person finally allows themselves to be loved. They may learn more about themselves due to the relationship. It can also show that while the relationship can be their greatest strength, it can also feel like their greatest weakness, due to the dependency on the other person.

Asquare or an opposition can also be felt strongly, but it will have the ability to make the relationship a bit more complicated - there may be one-sided attachment, one person giving everything they can while the other may be more apathetic or passive, it can show a strong love that also brings out the Amor person’s insecurities, makes them question their worth, it can make them neglect themselves due to the focus over the other person.

If you want to find out more about your romantic life or relationship, I do both transit synastry chart readings and composite chart readings. If interested, message me here or by email ([email protected]) xx

ah yes. Mars in the signs. Mars =motivation, energy, aggression, passion. Mars is what drives you, what fuels you. If you go against it, it’s like shutting off your fuel, you’ll feel sluggish, heavy, dispassionate, weak. Used negatively and you’ll feel rage, aggression, in a fighting spirit. Used positively, you’ll fuel others, you will glow, you feel free and can fight off negative energies being thrown at you.

aries mars: you are focused on your rights and your needs. you go after what you deserve because you know you give so much. you are most honest with yourself. you naturally ruffle feathers because u know how selfish people can be and you just don’t tolerate that.

taurus mars: you. defend. your. fuckin. self. because who the eff will. you are the protector of personal opinions. yours or others. you have an opinion and you don’t let others change your mind unless you decide to choose it. you know what you want and you expect others to know too. you are fueled by being in a safe open environment.

gemini mars: you are driven by communication. people with lack of communication will DRAIN YOU. your thoughts drive you, motivate you. THOUGHTS motivate you. you need that pep talk in the morning. you need that motivational speech on youtube to get you on a positive path because someone somewhere will try to suck you out of your positivity by speaking negatives.

cancer mars: love and vulnerability. you can’t stand people who cannot show their vulnerable side because it tenses you. in fact a lot of cancer mars will have a hard time because they see how much the world is beating everyone up and they have no choice but to protect themselves from people who declare that they will not be vulnerable. you are driven by the emotional connection of others

leo mars: when you are able to express and people focus on that, you are at your best. being you and aligning yourself with who you are is what fuels you. you love helping others but if it doesn’t align to how you want others to see you, than you’d rather just practice self care. You need people to see your efforts and the way you express love, friendships, etc etc. not being able to be seen for your value drains youuuu.

virgo mars: you are driven to be the best at what you do. you can’t stand being second place, but it drives you. imperfection drives you to keep going. imperfection fuels you to get up and do better. you expect others to do that, you drive people to be better. you know how to make people lives better because thats what motivates you. you want to make people lives better.

libra mars: if it isn’t fair then why should i care? thats literally your mars libra motto. you love so deeply and you give so deeply of your time and energy that if people do not see this oh man, you might as well be a mars aries. you need THE SAME ENERGY you give to others or else you will not waste your energy on others…. and THAT energy you would have given to people will be all for you. and man, it’s a sad day for someone who ONCE had the love of a mars libra. LOLOLOLOL sucks for you bro. <3

scorpio mars: literally know how to love someone soul crushingly much(your soul) you actually raise people up from grounds with your love. you know what it’s like hitting the ground because you’ve been there done that so many times. in a positve energy, you are fueled by healing others and showing people their own innate strengths. in a negative energy, you can destroy someone even prolly using black magic just to give that revenge some spice. you go through your reckless phase just as much as you go through your healing from ashes phase.

sagittarius mars : if it aint the truth get out my face. thats your motto. okay sometimes you understand that there are different truths but there has to be passion in their voice, there has to be like some kind of personal passion to it. you want to explore every inch of the world(inner or outer or both) so that you can uncover for yourself your own truths. you are motivated by learning something new, you are fueled by exploring. Mars Sagittarius is laid back unless provoked by confusing statements and the unknown.

capricorn mars : you are a warrior tbh you are fueled by a deep desire to survive. you don’t fight unless you have to because your motivation is just to survive. and in this world it’s who has enough money to survive. the negative side to mars capricorn is that they can get too caught up and will leave others in the dust. the positive side to mars capricorn is that they know exactly what to do to help others because they have been on different paths enough to know which works and which wont.when a mars capricorn give you advice, you better listen. they ARE NOT playing.

aquarius mars: they will choose independence of expression rather than just pure space in a relationship. aquarius is fueled by self expression and being able to love what they love and want what they want without judgement. and they also give this same non judgement to others because they know how hard the world can beat at people just trying to be themselves. When in a relationship, they are full of passion and love, they want communication, they want to understand their partner and what makes them tick. Communication really drives them and motivates them. It makes them feel like every thing will be okay. They have a drive to belong somewhere while still being their truest self.

pisces mars: What motivates them can ebb and flow. one minute it does nothing for them and the next minute it’s every thing to do. not like some maniac, but they are constantly evolving like a mars virgo expect pisces does it in a more INNER SELF kinda thing. They are fueled by compassion and giving people what they want. When a pisces feels like they can’t offer love and support.. they can feel lost and empty. don’t ever guilt trip a pisces mars, they will wallow in their inability to make u happy. SERIOUSLY DONT. they will get lost and it will be hard to pull pisces out of IT are you willing to dive thousands below just to pull them back up? no. because you can’t cuz you suck.

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astrology notes p.2 x

■ libra in the 2nd house natal people spend their money on pretty clothes, jewelry, aesthetic - somewhat unnecessary - things, it’s hard for them to save money, especially if they have some leo placements. But if they do have a virgo rising, they think a lot before buying anything.

□ the best gifts to give a virgo rising (venus or sun as well) is something they get to actually use most of the time or on a daily basis.

■ leo moons love attention as much as leo suns but they’re lowkey about it.

□ sun in the 12th makes someone very secretive about who they truly are, it’s like wearing a mask all the time, they might not even know it themselves.

■ taurus moons find comfort in spending money and eating their favourite foods.

□ capricorn venus have a thing for ankles, feet and tattoos.

■ both your ascendant/rising and your MC are shown mostly when it comes to first impressions.

□ cancer placements are usually surrounded by women in their family, they might have a sister or are very close to their mom, or just feel more comfortable around women in general.

■ capricorn suns/rising had to grow up too fast, that’s why they could be very mature at such a young age.

□ mars in cancer does NOT get along with another mars in cancer, or it’s just really hard since they get easily offended and get crazy angry. Also, absolutely hate not being listened to.

■ mars in capricorn is the scariest sign when angry that I’ve seen so far. They just have this “don’t give a fuck about you” face that makes them look like they could murder anyone.

□ venus in leo are the one of the most committed placements in relationships, but they need it to be reciprocated.

■ you can see how competitive someone is by their mars sign.

□ someone’s fashion style is defined mostly by their venus,rising&2nd house.

■ cancer risings usually have either big eyes/small nose/small lips, or small eyes/small nose/big lips.

□ libra risings tend to have big smiles.

■ mercury in the 12th house find it really hard to express themselves/talk the way they want to.

capri-stellium:

The hardest part of being a Capricorn venus is reminding yourself that sometimes potential is just a potential, and you can’t continue to love ppl for their potential.

most compatible mars signs for: taurus venus

1. virgo:this mars sign can provide a lot of stability and security due to their love for routine. they are also committed and like to settle down, which is a huge thing for a taurus venus. both signs are happy to do small, thoughtful things for one another and help the other when they need something.
2. capricorn:in this relationship, the capricorn mars is able to help the taurus venus reach their goals and be successful. there’s no unnecessary drama or complication, and both partners feel free to express themselves naturally. this can end up being very long-term due to the commitment of both parties.
3. taurus:this is a slow burn affair, where both individuals take their time to build the attraction and intimacy they desire. both understand the other’s need for stability in their love life and keep a level head. they can admire the other’s ability to persist and be patient, especially when it comes to love.
4. cancer:on a physical level, this can be an affectionate and loving pair, as both signs are very tactile and need physical intimacy with their partner. they are also supportive in their own ways. if one of the parties is going through something, the other helps them through it. this is a very safe and comfortable relationship.
5. libra:both of these signs are ruled by venus and are highly romantic. the libra mars enjoys courting the taurus venus and making them feel attractive and wanted. their graceful and loving attitude is appreciated as well. both signs can learn from each other and grow as a couple.

signs & placements as quotes from my favorite books pt two. ⋆⁺₊⋆ ☾⋆⁺₊⋆

part one.

Mutable signs (Gemini, Virgo, Pisces, Sagittarius): “I wish every day could be Halloween. We could all wear masks all the time. Then we could walk around and get to know each other before we got to see what we looked like under the masks.”

Jupiter-ascendant aspects, Jupiter-sun aspects, Neptune-Mercury aspects: “Actually,“ said Jace, "I prefer to think that I’m a liar in a way that’s uniquely my own.”

Pluto-ascendant aspects, Pluto-moon aspects, Pluto-sun aspects, Scorpio rising: “The more you try to crush your true nature, the more it will control you. Be what you are. No one who really loves you will stop loving you.”

Scorpio Venus, Cancer Venus, Pisces Venus: “I love you, and I will love you until I die, and if there’s a life after that, I will love you then.”

4th house placements, especially Pluto and Saturn: “I am, in the end, what you made me.”

Jupiter, Saturn, Mercury in the 3rd house, Gemini Venus, Virgo Mercury: “it was books that made me feel that perhaps I am not completely alone.”

Aquarius Venus, Aquarius Mars, 11th house placements: “Thanks for being my best friend and making my life bearable. Oh, and sorry I fell in love with you for a while there.”

Taurus mars, Libra mars, Aries moon, Leo moon, Capricorn moon, 7th house placements: “I hate hiding how much the stupid things he did hurt me, but I hated the idea of him finding out even more.”

Scorpio Placements: “People being nice for no apparent reason always made me suspicious. People being nice to me with no apparent reason made me even more suspicious.”

Gemini Venus, Sun, Moon, Jupiter, Mercury in the 3rd house:“And all the books you’ve read have been read by other people. And all the songs you’ve loved have been heard by other people. And that girl that’s pretty to you is pretty to other people. and that if you looked at these facts when you were happy, you would feel great because you are describing unity.”

Aquarius, Libra and Gemini in the 12th house: “I won’t let your ignorance silence my pain.”

Mars in the angular houses (1st, 4th, 7th, 10th): “When your opponent has no honor, you must fight in different ways, smarter ways.”

Water sign risings, Scorpio, Cancer and Pisces in the 10th house: “Everyone else feels like being caught in the rain. You’re the whole tsunami.”

Sagittarius Venus, Leo Venus, Aries Venus:“It is remarkable how much courage it takes to kiss someone, even when you are almost certain that person would very much like to be kissed by you. Doubt will knock you from the sky every time.” 

8th house placements, Venus-Pluto aspects (how people treat them): “I was scared of you. Being around you, it was like—you were everything I wasn’t supposed to want.”

5th house placements (especially the water signs in this house, which can create beautiful art from their pain): “People will say you’re coping wrong, but really there’s no wrong way. Anything that lets you keep going is the right thing, as long as it’s not damaging. You need to find the way that works for you.”

6th house placements, especially sun and moon: “You can’t go back to how things were. How you thought they were. All you really have is…now.”

9th house placements:“And then Jesus says, ‘Well, watch this’ - "Really? Well, watch this?” “What? that’s biblical language.”

12th house placements: “Looking for a thousand years is worth it, if in the end you find what you need.” 

3h synastry, 4h synastry, 11h synastry:“it’s hard not to see. You’re the kind of pair that makes everyone around them feel as though they’re missing out on a private joke.” 

8h and 12h synastry: “Maybe that is the price of loving someone: you lose your grasp of where they ended and you began.” 

Capricorn placements: “Because I want you to know,” she says, “that there is life after survival.” 

Aquarius Mars, Scorpio Mars, Capricorn Mars: “At fist he didn’t say anything more, and we had a little staring contest there in the darkness. but I liked staring at him, and I won.”

Mars-Uranus aspects, Jupiter-Mars aspects: “You said you were going for a walk!? What kind of walk takes six hours?“ "A long one?”

Cancer placements: “Usually I’m remarkably good natured. Try me on a day that doesn’t end in y.”

Moon-Saturn aspects, Venus-Saturn aspects, Sun-Saturn aspects: “You endure what is unbearable, and you bear it. That is all.” 

-This was just for fun & just signs/ placements that came to mind from quotes in books by cassandra clare, scott westerfeld, tomi adeyemi, lynne reid banks, sarah j mass, stephen chbosky ,mackenzi Lee.✨

The Capricorn desire to just be fully taken care of but yet never wanting to be viewed as weak.

Sexual Healing

Slow and sensual wins the race with Sun and Mars in earthy Capricorn.

I think earth signs are natural sexual/sensual healers. The Cappy brings the added energy of getting the job done well, several times even when it means denying himself in true ‘the job comes first’ Cappy fashion.

Pun intended.

He works overtime never asking for extra wages, finding pleasure in completing a task well done. All to the background sounds of a Jim Rhon on loop.

I couldn’t make this shit up folks. ♑