#confidence
Tania Amazon
Bimbo goals
I had several messages that I answered privately about confidence, so I wanted to write a quick thing to everyone reading. Whether you’re a dominant, a submissive, or a switchy kinkster, no one is confident all the time. You’re allowed those moments of doubt. You’re allowed to feel insecure regardless of your role. Remember:
Your body will be beautiful to the right person for you.
No one knows what they’re doing all the time. No one is confident always. You are not less of a domme/sub/etc. because you’re insecure.
Practice and conversation will help both the skills and the confidence grow. Practice your rope tying on dolls, pillows, yourself, an open-minded friend. Practice your whipping/spanking on pillows, your bed, yourself. Use sex toys to practice other things. You’ll get there. AND there’s a really good chance your partner doesn’t mind being a practice aid, and may want that themselves.
TALK TO YOUR PARTNER TALK TO YOUR PARTNER TALK TO YOUR PARTNER TALK TO YOUR PARTNER TALK TO YOUR PARTNER. You are not weak, you are human, and conversation builds intimacy which creates better scenes!
I am the sinner and the saint. I am the broken and the healer. I am the whimper and the laughter. I am the ocean and the sky. The day and the night. I am nothing. But I am everything.