InGreece, the name and its derivatives are especially popular in maritime regions, as Saint Nicholas is considered the protector saint of seafarers….for more than a millennia.
No wonder I have salt water in my veins! My ancestors came from seafaring towns in central and southern Greece….dating back centuries. I’m drawn to the sea….
“Nicholas” in Greek means, literally, victory of the people.
The name became popular 1,700 years ago through Saint Nicholas, Greek Christian Bishop of MyrainLycia(today’s southern Turkey). Nicholas was famous for his generous gifts to the poor….with the name and the legacy evolving many centuries later, to become the Dutch/German (my Mom’s heritage, by the way) inspiration for Santa Claus – a derivation of “Saint Nicholas.”
For all my brethren named “Nicholas,” December 6 is a day to celebrate, on par with your birthday. It’s a day to reflect on all the good things you bring to family, friends and community. It’s a time to stand tall and proud: you’re a “Nicholas”! And, around the Holiday Season each year, you might even earn the affectionate moniker “Saint Nick”!
(My Dad, also ”Nicholas”, and I celebrated the day as far back as I can remember. It was our private bond. And it’s always been a deep honor to carry his name!)
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My Dad penned this poem early one December 6th morning, as he was sipping on his pre-dawn coffee in front of his computer. He gave it to me when I went over to my parents house for dinner that evening 17 years ago (to celebrate our shared Name Day)….(he passed away quite suddenly just a nine months later)….and the poem remains a priceless gift and treasure – loving inspiration from Father to Son – that will remain with me always. I think about it almost every day….and gain strength from it….as if it were a compass for this life-long mariner….
“A father’s tears and fears are unseen, his love is unexpressed, but his care and protection remains as a pillar of strength throughout our lives.” —Ama H. Vanniarachchy #film#filmphotography#family#fathers#hasselblad#hasselblad500cm#hasselblad203fe#kodakblack#kodak#kodak_film#kodaktrix400#beautiful#fatherdaughter#filmphoto#filmisnotdead#filmphotographic#ishootfilm#filmnoir#istillshootfilm#issf#filmcamera#vintagefilmcamera
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My body reaches down into a bottle of gin to make a world out of something close to death. We were never meant to be alive, to be 25 and a chandelier broken into a million fragments of light. Father allowed the bees escape from the beehive. Here’s the sting, here’s the sound of fear, here’s your father’s face carved into the day breaking the world across your back, here’s all his memories burning down your bones. The wound hurts in its softest part. During the war a father saved the severed head of his daughter, he talked to it until a rotten head talked back. Here’s your father’s head in your bosom, Here’s your mouth begging for love, for his tongue to show you a way home. Here’s your father saying you can’t teach a dead man how to love. All the rivers come into you, which means water is never enough to save a man falling from the sky. I have learnt to love every broken thing the way a man learns to live with a memory that doesn’t die. I have learnt to carry my father’s body in my heart like a son that inherits a knife cut without flinching.
Summer Shredding Classic has been going well so far. I’m down about 20lbs. I’m 14 weeks into the cut. I probably have about 5lbs-10lbs to go and about 7 weeks left tell the compition. If I can do it so can you. I have 4kids, a full time job, and YouTube channel. . . . . #summershredding2019 #summershredding @alphalete @officialalphaletegym . . #fatherslove #love #fatherson #mydad #fatherhood #fatherandson #superdaddy #tats #bestfather #fatherdaughter #dad #familytime #bestdad #fathers #daddy #myfather #bestdaddy #proudfather #dadlife #parenthood #prilaga #lovemyfam #fatheranddaughter #parentlife #fatherlife #father #fathersday (at Evansville, Indiana) https://www.instagram.com/p/Bxd_6qEjkbR/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=n251lojb721t
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After a two week stretch where I lost the two men who helped guide me through this journey called life, Thomas L Foley and Clarence A Burrows, my dad and my moms love her life, the haze is lifting and we heal by living the lessons we learned. I take those lessons and continue on my path. Peace to the TriState as I head back to the 305…thank you all for your prayers and thoughts. I love you all. ❤️#folexonlex #dad #pop #tlf #cab #strongmen #fathers #fatherfigures #teachers #mentors #guides #folex #nyc #ct #914 #305 #fuckcancer (at Lexington Avenue/51st Street)
More Bang for Your Buck Running Scared Brennan Bestwick
Isaac is woken by the hinge of his door. Before morning can open its red eye. Abraham is in orange head to steel toed boots. The pickup idles in the drive. A thermos of coffee in the cup holder. Isaac is gifted his first rifle. Isaac who jumps at the sound of thunder follows his father up the deer stand ladder. The boy who can’t look down. Abraham believes time is right to give his son to God’s country. To teach him to live off the land. Abraham is never gun shy when his shot grazes square in front of him. A twelve point buck. A fawn skipping behind it. The boy closes his eyes. Pulls the trigger. Misses. Hears Abraham’s low sigh. Watches the deer bolt. His chest pounding just as quick. Both of them spared. Next time. Abraham offers, a heavy pat on his son’s shoulder. Isaac winces. Feels the purple blush of a bruise begin to kick over his collarbone. Eye of the fawn wisening.
St Joseph, Guardian of Sons – Melchior Paul von Deschwanden
Eternal God, originator of Fatherhood, I offer to you the blessed office of Father. May the men who occupy this dignified place protect and care for their children and wives with valiant honesty, heroic chastity, noble humility, and stern sobriety.
Ignite a fire in the hearts of men, O God, so that they may respond to the Divine call to fatherhood, both natural and spiritual, and model themselves after the holy example of Blessed Joseph, Father of the Universal Church.
Through his intercession, may fathers be strengthened to flee from sin, subdue their flesh, wrestle with the powers of corruption, banish the darkness, and obtain victory over hell and its agents.
We ask this through our Lord Jesus Christ, sanctifier of all men, to the glory of God the Father. Amen.
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