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manhwa-anime-lover:

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theyanderegf-deactivated2020012:

the thought of her loving you makes me want to puke.

the thought of you loving her makes me want to die.

the thought of you together makes me want to kill her

and then you

and then myself.


so please…

don’t make the wrong choice <3

i’m not jealous, i’m territorial. jealous is when you want something that’s not yours. territorial is protecting what’s already yours.

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amusedyan:

A couple of video essayists that I watch and respect highly have done videos on the yandere community in the last few days. They’ve expressed confusion and worry about us romanticizing mental illness and worry that we’ll emulate their behavior, citing several ‘real life yandere’s’ (including Yuka Takaoka).

At first I was a little bummed out, because that isn’t what we are. I’d like to think that anyway.

For me, the yandere community has been nothing but supportive. I’ve been in highly toxic fandoms before, and it’s awful. 

But when I step back, I see why people are worried.

Yanderes should not be seen as romantic, they should be horrifying. And that that’s how it is for me. It reads like horror.

So, reminders:

Stalking is not sexy or healthy: if you have a stalker, contact the police, take steps to protect yourself. If you are stalking, you need to stop. It’s not cute, it’s not sweet.

No means no: if you need to stop what you’re doing with your partner, they need to respect your wishes.

Violence is not romantic: if your partner or crush is expressing violence- either hitting you or lashing out at you, you need to leave. It’s not safe. They don’t love you.

Emotional manipulation is just that: “If you leave I’ll die” “I’ll kill myself without you” are not sweet or romantic. It’s fucking disgusting IRL, and you shouldn’t stay with someone out of guilt.

Easier said than done, I know, but there it is.

Yanderes should not be sought out IRL. They’re dangerous and abusive. Do not strive to find them or become them.

Get help.

yes, i’m a yandere. no, i am not violent. i do obsess over people i love, but by no means do i stalk them or abuse them. i do get very jealous over the people i love. i do see a therapist and i’ve always had an obsessive personality. i write to vent my feelings and i do not pressure or manipulate my crush. him and i do both have feelings for each other, but we’ve agreed not to date because we never see each other. we text all the time as friends and i’m fine with that. please do not assume i’m a bad person because i am a yandere, thank you.

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