#mutual
I put on my Tinder profile that I hate sports, I don’t drink beer and I’m 150% feminine all day all the time and so many guys are like…offended? One guy was like “what if the guy you like loves sports, you won’t even watch with him?” And I asked “will you wake up at 8am during fashion week to watch live streams of shows with me because that’s what I’m really interested in. And he said “I don’t really find that interesting.” And I’m like THEN WHY THE FUCK WOULD I CARE ABOUT SPORTS FOR YOU OMG.
this isn’t an isolated thing. women are expected to change for men. if you don’t want to have children (ever) then someone is bound to say to you: well, what if your husband wants to have children? i was thinking about dyeing my hair & my dad says, what if the guy you’re dating doesn’t like it? we’re expected to lose weight & to dress in a certain way to appeal to men. we’re expected to be less opinionated, less assertive, less talented when competing against a man… it never fucking ends.
DO YOU AND WEED OUT THE WEAK MEN
I needed this, was literally thinking about getting into sports for a guy recently, don’t know what I was thinking lol
it’s totally fine to get into sports for a guy! As long as he’s also willing to get into your interests!
The issue is when you’re expected to get into sports, but he doesn’t ask you about your interests or watch fashion week with you.
Healthy relationships mean all parties involved being genuinely interested in their partner(s) lives.
It’s also totally fine to agree to both do you and have completely separate hobbies!
The issue is when any expectation is one-sided in a relationship, because that means that someone in the relationship thinks of themselves as the “superior” partner–and that’s never a good thing.
Being mutually willing to explore each other’s interests is so important! The best and most fulfilling relationship I’ve been in to date involved me watching loads of march madness (I like basketball but like… I care about one team, and only sorta. March madness is a shit ton of basketball) and him watching RuPaul’s Drag Race All-Stars Season 2. Neither one of us really knew what was going on, but we both asked questions and genuinely tried to become interested in each other’s interest. I still don’t know why Duke playing like shit is the end of the world, and he still doesn’t know why I feel like Tatianna was cheated, mom, by rolaskatox, which was in full effect, but I know that he has a man crush on Frank Jackson, and he knows that Katya is my favorite queen. The point is, we both tried, and just seeing someone try means so much, even if you don’t really become interested yourself. Humans just like to share what makes them feel, which is amazing. This is too long now.
Anyway.
hotel room memories @meganann-xo
gotta piss but all the bathrooms are being shitted in atm
A Watcher!Grian piece I made for a DTIYS on Instagram.
I like it a lot, honestly.
I hope one day I find the right person.
It’s hard to keep hoping though.
Since I’m still alone, after trying so hard and waiting so long to find that person.
I don’t want just anyone.
I want mutual, genuine, long term love.
True love is the hardest to find…
But it’s the only kind I want.
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Put myself up on Craig’s list. It’s time I sucked a cock.Will keep you all posted.
thank you @rollsofdestiny for remotely walking me though emergency snake plant surgery. These plants owe you a great debt.
Awwwwww have any time ❤️❤️❤️❤️ I’ll always be there to help the planties!
This is for only one person on this entire planet so if you are not interessted in reading this you can scroll past this. But if you are interessted why this person is so special and why I am dedicating a whole post to her!
And now to you, Tani. Yeah I am talking about you @the-second-tonks! You are one of the loveliest and nicest people I know. No matter what I do and what I decide you’ve got my back! I said I’d stop writing and you told me that I should take my time and that there will always be a door open for me if I would want to come back. Now I posted that I don’t know if I should delete my blog because I have nothing to post! You answered and gave my advice on what I could post just to give me a reason to stay. You were my biggest supporter on here and my kindest, loveliest and most loyal mutual here on Tumblr! I asked and you answered. It was always like that! When nobody cared you listened and texted back. Thank you! Thank you so incredibly much my dear! I love and worship you
Love Chosen
guess who’s back
OML U R SO ADORABLE AND PRETTY AND GORGEOUS AND IDICHEBHRJWJE I FEEL SO BLESSED I have just spilled all my uwus on the floor and I swear, I am drowning in them rn omg jeifihsjejtjie AHHHH YOU LOOK LIKE AN ANGEL
Mutuals, meet me in the spiritual ideation tube
*sees a take* oh wow that is objectively bad
*sees my mutual agrees with that take* actually it’s uhhh it’s a complex issue. there’s room for— there’s nuance
Paul justifying anything John says
this person is talking about the fucking beatles on an already kind of shitty tumblr post. where am i.
I THOUGHT THIS WAS TALKING ABOUT THE BIBLE
kenobie >> keanurevees
bro I tried I swear. I’m SO down bad. down ASTRONOMICAL for obi wan I just cannot handle change. keanurevees is back baby tagging mutuals under the cut (hopefully) for the last time