#never settle

To all of my sweet little girls tonight.

vaspider:

trekfaerie:

girlbossjodiarias:

tami-taylors-hair:

British transphobes have graduated to claiming that bisexual women are tainted by our association with men and thus change the “vibe” of women-only spaces. It’s true, every time I walk into the room, I’m also bringing the spirit of every man who’s been inside my vagina. They live up there like lil ghosts. 

This people are genuinely the goofiest dumbest bigots. 

Considering the fact that some lesbians have previously had relationships or children with men, this kind of thing is especially gross. Like, this is also punishing some lesbians for having lived through internalized homophobia/lived in very hostile and unsafe environments.

the powers that terfs give men are just insane. they act like being a man makes you a fucking chaos magician bending reality to your whim.

This is literally not changed at all from the 1970s political lesbian shit that birthed TERFery, that’s the fucking wild thing. Like, there have been no advancements in this discussion at all in the past fifty fucking years. They are still saying the exact same shit.

This is part of the reason, by the way, that I’m so adamant that you can’t use anything that comes from that entire swath of transphobic 2nd-wave feminism. You can’t use the term “compulsory heterosexuality” without reckoning with the fact that its coiner thanked Janice Fucking Raymond in the foreword of the writing which established the term. You can’t use definitions of lesbianism which center men or define lesbianism by its exclusion of men without reckoning with the fact that this centering of men comes directly from wanting to exclude trans women.

The only way to stop drinking that tainted water is to drink from another well.

I once had a terf loudly explain to me out of fucking nowhere that unless a women is a “gold star lesbian” (wildly fucked to use that seriously) that the “energy” of mens semen “lives inside the uterus forever and effects the Womens mind and all thoughts because the uterus has neural connections in it, it’s science!” And uh..the uterus does have some neural connections but WOW did this women not understand any human function..AT ALL and uh…what the actual fuck. My response was the stomach has neural connections too, I asked if a vagina her mouth interacted with 5 years ago was still effecting her decisions today. I insisted that since she thinks the vagina is a stagnant bucket of vibe collections that every ex was still THERE. I also asked if she had a speed dial feature to contact every previous vagina and let them to know to never interact with her again, since those vaginas can send vibes to other vaginas. I insisted every previous Vagina can hear her thoughts and her dreams, that she’ll never know any peace. Why would I settle for standard anti-man paranoia when I can sweep the leg of EVERYONE.

Some seriously cool neon in the WeWork building in Times Square.