I recently learnt about he/him lesbians and I’m making this post to form a greater understanding of this part of the community and perhaps educate someone else.
To my knowledge, people who use he/him pronouns can be lesbians because pronouns don’t equal gender. It’s just a form of their gender expression. So someone who is a woman can use any pronouns.
If any he/him lesbians would like to add on, correct me or share their own stories, that’d be great! I’d love to learnt more.
If a label is comfortable to you, it is your label. No one but you can define your own labels. Not your friend. Not your family. Not the cryptid staring at you in the corner- you: wait there’s a cryptid staring at me in the corner- not an exclusionist. The point is. Be proud of your identity. No one can ever tell you who you are. Your existence is vaild.
As a kid I often said, “I’m not a girl I’m a tomboy” because that was the only language I had to describe my feelings of floating between the worlds of man and woman.
Now I say “I’m not a woman I’m a butch” with my feet standing firm between worlds and finding a pride and comfort in the community I have chosen as home.
just a reminder to say that youre loved! please take your meds, drink some water, and dont forget to eat something! people over 13 need over 2000 calories a day!
