#relationship things

LIVE

What a beautiful thing it is to be completely, intimately, and solely desired. For your mind as much as your body. For your needs as well as your wants. For everything that makes you the unique person you are. For the fact that there is no one else quite like you in the world.

you reach for me

and i breathe

into you.


you’ll never catch me

saying “no.” envelope me

in your arms, lips to neck

and i’m yours. i find that

we’re at our best when we’re

under covers figuring things out

and i could try to romanticize us

but it would never fucking compare.


ReBecca DeFazio

More Than A Flower

B: loves traveling to warm, tropical, climates during the winter

B: also knows I love mountains, trains, bridges, and snow during Christmas

B: hey I’ve been doing some research, how would you feel about a trip to Switzerland and Italy over Christmas so we can ride on this train that goes through the alps over a world heritage railway site with over 50 tunnels and nearly 200 bridges?

Me:

Yesterday, sitting on the couch with B:

B: keeps up a running monologue on playoff basketball

Me: nodding along attentively, doing work on my laptop

Today, sitting on the couch with B:

Me: keeps up a running monologue on playoff hockey

B: nodding along attentively, doing work on his laptop

Due to Reasons I pretty much exclusively use period underwear/washable pads during Shark Week. I have a cute little laundry bag that I keep them in separate from our normal hamper, and I wash them separately from our clothes. I put them in the washer this morning and then left to run errands.

I got home to find all my underwear/pads that I’ve tried very hard to keep out of sight/out of mind since moving in with my partner carefully laid out on our drying rack in the sun on the porch.

Me: you…took care of my laundry?

B: yes? they finished while you were gone and I didn’t want them to sit there wet.

Me: thank you?? you really didn’t have to do that. like I do not expect that of you at all.

B: (baffled by my bafflement) but why wouldn’t I?? I do the rest of our laundry, I can do that too.

So I guess I should just stop making assumptions based on prior experiences.

The last few days with the love of my life have been so nice❤❤ we have snuggled together and watched spoopy stuff and she has been working on skeleton decorations out of plastic baggies❤ Its all so amazing and I’m such a lucky man to have her in my life @disasterpussy❤❤❤

disasterpussy:

Getting texts like these

I love this man

I’m so in love with you and I mean every word❤❤❤ I’m so so excited for it all!

I just wanna wish my baby a happy 30th birthday and our six months anniversary!!!! I love you so so sooo incredibly much! I can’t wait to spend our lives together! I’m so in love with you!❤ You have really changed my life for the better and I’m so lucky to have you. You showed me that true love is real and ours is so pure. The happiness and love I have for you grows stronger by the day!❤❤❤ I love you my peach scone☺☺

disasterpussy:

My darling bought me a new tarot deck!

I am so blessed to have a man who not only takes interests in my passions, but encourages them as well.

The cards are just so cute! I cannot get over how adorable they are.

I am so excited to make the recipes it comes with. I thought I should share them just in case anyone else wants to give them a go :)

Feel free to shoot me a message if you want a reading!

I’m so happy my baby loves her earily birthday present! I love you so muchhh❤❤

disasterpussy:

The other day marked four months since my life changed for the better. I know I say this often, but I am so insanely in love with my boyfriend. He is truly a work of art. I have never been so attracted to someone both physically and mentally. No matter what we talk about we vibe so well. It is so rare to find this type of connection, and I am truly blessed to have that with him.

Being with him has changed me into just a better person. I laugh and smile more. I find myself focusing on positive thoughts instead of negative ones. Instead of thinking what could go wrong, I find myself daydreaming of everything that could go right.

I find it crazy that at one point I really felt like this type of happiness was a myth. I didn’t think it was ever possible for me to find someone who could love and accept me for who I am. No matter how much I changed for others, I was always doing something wrong. Just the same, when I just tried to be myself all I attracted were people who would try to mold me into what they wanted. But John wasn’t like those people. From the moment we started talking I just felt like I was home. I don’t believe my soul has ever felt the type of comfort he gives me. It’s enough to make me cry.

He’s my best friend. He’s everything that I have ever wanted. He’s everything that I never even knew that I needed.

John has shown me the true meaning of love, and I look forward to everything that we will experience together. I’m going to freaking marry this man one day

How did I get so lucky, Jesus. I’m so in love with this woman❤❤

This is the type of stuff my boyfriend sends me at 7:30 in the morning and I am very happy.

John: Do you need anything while I’m up? Something to drink?

Me: You look like a nice tall glass of water if I do say so myself. Let me get a sip

John: You can have more than a sip. You can have the whole pitcher,Darlin’



I love him

We clean up nice sometimes✨

We were both in a wedding this weekend and I think we look pretty snazzy

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