#gentle reminder
hey!! you!! youre doing amazing!! i believe in you!!
To my best friend,
You are lovely, I love you and appreciate you
Hey there! Just here to remind you: there’s a human being behind your expectations.
Monogamy isn’t for everyone.
Polyamory isn’t for everyone.
Both of those ideas can coexist.
everytime you feel sad or wonder why you’re still here, just remember you have made it through every single day that this world has thrown at you. you’ve fought your way through a society that isn’t always kind to you. you, the wonderful, amazing, beautiful, unique person that you are, you are still standing here and i am so proud of you for that. if the thing you did today was get through it, that’s ok because there’s always tomorrow and the day after that. you are enough, you always have been and you always will be
i know a lot of people struggle with this (myself included) so just a quick reminder to everyone that it is ok to ask for help, you don’t have to deal with everything by yourself, there are always people who will help you. you don’t have to keep all of your struggles a secret, sometimes telling someone can help quite a lot too.
Why do people stop commenting on fics if they’re more than a week or two old? Please comment on old fics. Tell me you like my one shot from 2014. Tell me you like my old multi-chap I finished in 2016 that I spent a year writing. I will be fucking thrilled.
Fics are not social media posts. There’s no “stalking” someone’s “old posts”. They’re meant to be found and enjoyed years down the line. No need to be nervous.
Don’t be afraid to reward yourself once in a while! Even if you think that you don’t deserve it, just know that you do. Even if its something small, as long as it makes you feel better!
Never feel guilty for resting, never feel guilty for having to recharge your body and mind. You deserve to rest and you deserve peace, even if your tasks haven’t been finished yet.
“Be gentle with yourself, you’re doing the best you can.”—Unknown
