#positive reminders
this is it!
this is the sign that you were looking for - the sign to make fresh efforts, the sign to move forward, and the sign to let go of your inhibitions.
it’s a new day. try again. it’ll be worth it ✨
hi!! here is your daily reminder to drink some water and have a snack
hey guys i wanted to make a post about little things in life that bring people joy and i wanted your help. if you have an idea that you want to share please send me an ask or dm me because i’d love to see what things bring you guys joy it can be anything even if it seems really small it is still important if it brings you joy!!
things to remember:
- you don’t have to be perfect
- having a bad day is ok
- small steps are still progress
- asking for help is strength
- people love and care about you
i just thought i should bring this back as a reminder for everyone
to anyone who sees this,
have you had any water today? please have some even if it’s just a little bit you’ll feel a bit better i hope!!
have you had anything to eat today? if not can you grab a snack please, your body needs energy so you can listen to music and have a boogie
and also when did you last stop for a minute? the world tells us we need to be constantly moving but that often just leads to being burnt out. so if you need a 10 minute break, take it. if you need to have a nap, please do.
taking care of yourself is so much more important than anything else, i don’t care who tells you otherwise
i read something the other day that’s stuck with me.
self care shouldn’t be solely about becoming productive again.
instead it should be a reminder that you are worthyandimportant without productivity.
Don’t let your clouds make you forget who you truly are beneath it all. Don’t let it make you forget how bright you can shine…☀️
Reminders for people who haven’t had relationships yet:
- There’s no time limit for having your first relationship. Not having had one yet doesn’t mean you never will.
- Try not to compare yourself to others. It’s not a race, and other people having had relationships before you doesn’t reflect upon you at all.
- It doesn’t make you unlovable - it just means you haven’t had the luck that others your age have had to be fortunate enough to meet someone they click with.
- Your value is not based upon your relationship status. You are whole and lovable and valuable regardless of whether you’ve been in a romantic relationship.
- You are still young and you still have so much time to find someone. Even if you’re in your late teens/20s etc and feel that you’re much older than others who have already had relationships, don’t forget that in the grand scheme of things, you’ve barely begun and you have so much opportunity in the future to meet the right person/people.
- Especially for LGBTQ+ people - it can be much harder to find relationships as a teenager than it is for cishet people because the dating pool is smaller and it can be harder to find tolerant/accepting environments. It doesn’t make you unlovable or mean you won’t find anyone, and your dating history or lack thereof doesn’t invalidate your sexuality.
- Other forms of relationship are just as important, if not more so, than romantic relationships. Platonic love and affection are just as important and valuable, and you are not without love just because your love isn’t romantic.
- You don’t have to rush into anything because you feel there’s a clock ticking down. There isn’t. There’s absolutely no shame and nothing lesser about you for not having dated anyone yet, and there’s no need to rush or force anything.
- You are a lovable, valuable, deserving human being, and your relationship status does not impact that in the slightest.
my joy doesn’t have to look like yours
not all positive changes will feel positive in the beginning
⭐️ you are responsible for your own happiness ⭐️
be kind to the person you are becoming
Things I Have Learnt (part 4 or 5)
kindness literally costs nothing
as long as you’re trying, you have something to be proud of
being stuck in the past can hold you back in the future
the right attitude can make any challenge seem easy
some people don’t deserve your time
a good nights sleep can make all the difference
gentle reminders
* you can get through this
* i believe in you
* take a deep breath and keep going
* you are worthy of love and kindness
* you deserve to have your voice heard
* it’s not your job to fix everyone else
* saying no doesn’t make you selfish
it’s going to be hard but hard is not impossible
your self worth isn’t defined by others
You radiate something very special every day. The care you have for people and things you love, the way you laugh, the way you move, the energy you bring when you’re at your best or when you’re just trying. That doesn’t go away when you feel you’re not looking or doing your best. You are always beautiful just by being here
Reminders for food and water and the basics are so important, and if you need one of those when you see this you should try to get it. But also, try to do things that aren’t just to survive each day. This is a reminder to talk to someone (human, animal, or plushy it does not matter), to look outside or open your window or watch a video of birds eating some seeds, to wear your favorite shirt and socks, to remember what makes you happy and find it in any way you can. Survival is good, but there needs to be a reason for it that you can find through joy
You have the ability to make so many choices in life. How you move past tough memories or thoughts, who you are kind to and who you surround yourself with, what kind of changes you want to see happen in the world. Don’t forgot about your impact, both on your own life and others. You have the capacity for so much good, so why not use it?
Your life is worth something. Your actions, creations, thoughts and dreams are all impactful to something or someone. Its hard to find value in ourselves, but trust that others can find it until you have the skills and the love to do it yourself.
