i know you’re lonely. i know it feels comforting to slip into the same old familiar loneliness. the same religiously good hurt of refusing yourself the things you need and the space to heal. i know it feels beautiful to have something to worship. i know in this cold, confusing world, having goodness be safely defined as thinness within a community with whom you can push for that ideal feels like a comfort. i know it feels safe and familiar. but if you think that this is something that you can compartmentalize and keep safe tucked in a corner of your life, you can’t; and if you think it ever ends, or that your ideal is something you will ever reach, you’re wrong. this disorder is a parasite, and it will take over every corner of your life and every minute of your time and in the end, you will not be rewarded for it. no one will like you any better, least of all yourself; no one will thank you for hurting yourself like this; the world will not turn rose-coloured, your head will not clear and your perfect life will not materialize. you will come out of the end of the tunnel and you will have lost years of your life that you can never get back, and you will realize you were worshipping a false god the whole time. you will realize you never needed to change to wake up with a smile on your lips and birds singing in the window, you never needed to change to dance in the kitchen with your significant other or feel the warmth of another’s presence and laughter. if this made you doubt yourself at all, come and take my hand. i know the grave is comfortable, but don’t let yourself sleep yet.
Fairies tending to their fairy rings, black cats napping in the full moon’s light as they sing; pumpkin pie wax melts filling the crisp autumn air; and nag champa ringlets of smoke bless houses sitting atop hills basking in the night sky.
practical and simple ways to cleanse and bless your home
burn cedar sticks or cedar incense. cedar helps drive away negative influences, energies, and spirits. really good herb to work with when moving into a new space. helps with protection on all levels.
sprinkle a blend of salt, sage, and mint on the floors to soak up all the negative energies on the ground and vacuum up when you feel it has picked everything up. clean out all that salt from your vaccuun and dispose of it in the trash outside (not in nature)
diffuse lavender oil. lavender oil is very protective and helps bring serenity and peace into a space.
manifest abundance and prosperity by meditating with citrine and placing it in your home. place a clear quartz next to it to amplify abundant energies
make a crystal gird out of selenite, black tourmaline and white jade. these crystals will create a barrier of protection around your house and they will cleanse the hell out of it.
place pieces of selenite in windowsills, this will purify energy coming in and out of the house. immediately raises the vibration of the room
when burned, palo santo releases a cleansing smoke filled with healing energies. great for filling spaces with good health and fortune
ask your spirits/deities to cleanse, protect, and bless your space and leave them offerings when you are done
sandalwood incense raises vibrations, cleanses, offers psychic protection, and helps to open up psychic awareness
amethyst is not only a enhances the intuition and increases calm energies, it is also very protective and will shield you from psychic attacks
work with the elements for protection, meditation and visualization works well
visualize an impenetrable bubble of protection surrounding your home protecting you from all lower energies
visualize a waterfall pouring into your space washing away all stagnant and negative energy leaving your space with abundant and healthy energy
put mint leaves all around your house, in your windowsills, in your shoes, jewelry boxes, altar, etc. to protect you from evil intentions. also good for protecting your home from misfortune
wind chimes will warn you when a negative spirit is around, there sound will also help drive them off your property
cinnamon is extremely protective, i love dressing candles with ground cinnamon for cleansing and protection
burning dragon’s blood incense will create a wall of fire protecting you and your space, also a really good incense for clearing bad spirits
sleep with a lavender sachet underneath your pillow to protect you from psychic vampires
labradorite protects you and your home from demons
placing a vase of flowers in a room will lift the energy and invite positive energy in. use different flowers for attracting different things example sunflowers for happiness, roses for love, marigolds for success and creativity, etc.
