I actually don’t know how to feel about this.

I know that he created the characters, but I really wish he would just leave the Netflix versions of them alone. He has the money and success from the original comics, why does he have to keep milking this adaptation that he already absolutely ruined? And to rename it, to try and ‘rebrand’ it? Just cut your losses man, this is so tacky.

The only reason I’d read it is to see how he writes his way out of the ending of the last season. Obviously Sabrina would have to come back from the dead somehow, (and Nick?). There were just so many plot holes and things that didn’t add up, I don’t see how he could do this. Honestly, I was relieved when I thought it was over for good, I wrote my fix it fic and went on in peace.

I don’t want to see any more of his terrible writing he tries to paint as ‘progressive’ and ‘feminist’. He ruined some of my favorite characters of all time, and ended the show in the worst possible way after a god awful last season. I really don’t want to see what he has planned next, and I hope he doesn’t turn this into a whole new show in two years when there’s no longer a hold on the Sabrina character.

I’d be interested to hear other’s thoughts on this. But I would’ve been content leaving the Netflix show to die, despite my love for the characters and actors.

I am in love with them both

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Sapphics on this site see a dark haired woman with a sharp jawline and go apeshit

astrology notes

-those with saturn square part of fortune may have some bad karma (maybe from a past life)

-pisces mars can victimize themselves and not even realize it. they just have that mentality

-your ascendant persona chart’s ascendant should be thought of like a second ascendant

-7th house sun/moon/mercury can fall into a very negative head-space if their relationships aren’t to their definition of perfection

-somebody with 8th house in gemini might be very closed off emotionally because of their fear of intimacy

-havingpluto in the 1st house can make somebody seem intimidating

-venus in the 2nd house might be scared of being seen as unattractive or awkward

-lilith in the 4th house may feel as if they never had a ‘place’ at home

-those with jupiter in the 4th house could have been spoiled as a kid

-somebody with moon square pluto can see right through somebody’s facade

-people with chiron to venus aspects are the biggest culprits of downplaying pain and ignoring their problems

-negative jupiter to saturn aspects can hold somebody back from happiness or their ability to fully enjoy things

-sagittarius placements are quick to cut people off and often end relationships unexpectedly

unfavorable aspects

-those with moon square midheaven often are torn between the opinions of others and listening to their emotions

-somebody with sun square moon has so much tension within themselves and their personality

-negative chiron to midheaven aspects may be held back by their pain. they become unsuccessful in their career if they cannot overcome these blockages

-sun square pluto often has a hard time letting go of negative thoughts. They will undermine their own happiness in fear of getting their hopes too high

-a person with mercury square lilith has little faith in themselves and can easily convince themselves that they are unwanted

-somebody with moon square venus is deeply insecure about their feelings and is sometimes saddened by the thought of love

-people with mars square saturn often can be overly aggressive and mean

-sun square chiron struggles with self expression and often has low self esteem

-those with venus opposite part of fortune will often self-sabotage and often expects the worst

-venus square neptune is incredibly self-critical and assume that people think the worst of them

-somebody that has mars square neptune can be rude or mean to people but justify it to themselves

We are all aware of Lilith, and how she can help us get more insight into our secret desires, our sexuality and things which might have been/are considered as taboo, but actually are not bad. I would describe Lilith as empowerment and an understanding of aspects of ourselves that were/are/could be shamed but can be channeled into something empowering and can be embraced.

We are going to be focusing on Black Moon Lilith.  Oh another thing, Lilith can help us also recognize where we were rejected and how we deal/dealt with it. Where we feel shame.

Lilith in Aries:

Someone with a Lilith in Aries does have deep desires to lead and assert themselves, but at the same time they also possess the fear to do. This fear can cause this individual to go both ways, either become forceful with their ‘leadership’ or just quit/run away from such positions and hand them over to others. Here, the individual might struggle with accessing the power that they obviously possess and also struggle with how they channel their individual power, how to exert themselves as leaders and how to lead. These individuals are also very restrained or without any restraint at all. Overcoming all of these fears and issues, and just becoming a dot in a balanced environment requires for the individual to learn that power comes from within, once they go inward and discover the power they hold, they will truly embrace it and just know what to do with it instinctively. Instead they might look for power around them and oftentimes become lost in the wrong corners. Change direction and go within.

Lilith in Taurus

There is always a talk about extremism when it comes to Lilith, but I feel like Lilith in Taurus can really go a long way with the dealings of Lilith. They have a deep desire for things, people, whatever strikes their fancy. No matter which route they take they can remain unsatisfied oftentimes and require more and more and more. Lilith in Taurus might also be very repressed when it comes to sex and sexuality, sexual desires, they are just contained and stray away and/or are not very expressive in that department. Taurus is a fixed sign, so being fixated on staying in one state which I described above can be very likely, which is why this placement is prone to extremism. It is hard for these individuals to come out of that box they’ve prepared for themselves which is quite cozy. This might sound very cliché, because Taurus is an earth sign, but re-connecting with nature and doing some soul-searching can actually be of help - in order to gain that balance and let their sensuality naturally flow. Learning how to manifest and attract things the proper way is going to help them elevate themselves and always be a step closer to what they want and need. The energetic flow and letting it flow naturally is very important for this placement, forcing it to flow is also a trait of Lilith in Taurus because of the inherent shame they feel if it doesn’t. Working through the shame is also a very important thing which can elevate them and liberate them.

Lilith in Gemini

There is probably a blockage in the communication with these folk. An obstacle, difficulty communicating or just being straight-up misunderstood (or maybe even an unclear or disrupted communication with Universe/spirit angels/spirit guides whatever you believe in). When it comes to sex, these individuals might be into dirty talking, word-play, self-expression but due to the shame and/or repression they really disconnect from their bodies and concentrate all of their energy in their heads and get stuck in their heads and thoughts which makes them an absent sexual partner. Drawn/draws in damaged people, people with issues, because they have a storage of unhealthy thoughts, repressed feelings/thoughts and what-not themselves. These individuals just really need to come in terms with their intellect, how their mind works, liberate themselves by grounding themselves and objectively looking at themselves in order to come closer to first, becoming aware, secondly addressing the issues. Liberating and elevating yourself is really important. I’d even recommend (for all Lilith placements) working on or at least taking a peek into your chakra energies, blockages and how to heal them and balance yourself.

Lilith in Cancer

There is this initial shame for having/expressing/feeling emotions, it is either self-inflicted or they were shamed since they were younger for it. That probably created a trauma effect and caused these individuals to repress their emotions so they may even avoid emotional situations or situations which cause intense feelings altogether. With Lilith in Cancer there is a possibility the individual has experiences some traumatic events in their childhood or within their family/loved ones circle. Obviously, repressing emotions in that way does not work for the long haul, so in some cases with Lilith in Cancer emotions can burst up unexpectedly or sideways. Because of this they might even be prone to be sad, depressed or simply develop escapist tendencies. In regard to all of these issues, these individuals are prone to become needy and/or clingy partners, friends, parents.  Sexually, it is also hard for them, because they yearn for that deep connection with their partner but most of the time they are unable to attain that connection due to their unresolved issues, so they become disconnected from sex. Acknowledging, letting go of this control, releasing all of this baggage and repression is so freeing and liberating and the way to go for these individuals, the healthy way of course which is most likely through a creative channel, or just a channel which produces productivity and fruitful results. They really just want to feel connected and present, feel everything without fear and shame. Dealing with the past and facing it, addressing it can also help these individuals, because they might also have a tendency to cling to it.

Lilith in Leo

For these individuals wanting to be wanted, adored can indicate feelings of shame for the very same thing. That shame causes repression and causes them to, sometimes, go to many lengths for approval and recognition. There are two cases that go both ways on the spectrum, either these individuals will be attracted to people of power/status or will try to gain power and status. Lilith in Leo should be careful and be very aware of the thin line between their ego and their drive, because they are also very determined and that can manifest in bad ways if ego is involved. They can either lack self-esteem or be total narcissists. Healing and focusing on doing their thing, attracting adoration and feeling worthy will come naturally, because the people will admire them, look up to them and love them, and that will all result from them just being themselves authentically and going after what they want after being liberated and letting the natural flow of energy get at it.

Lilith in Virgo

Issues with perfectionism are main issues. These individuals deeply feel that they are filled with flaws and only give light to those flaws which results in them feeling shameful and restrict themselves in some way. They will try to attain perfectionism or never try anything because of how ashamed they are of their flaws. Because of it they sometimes feel so anxious and quit projects/on people/tasks half-way, they feel unprepared, they feel very low, that voice is constantly repeating ‘you are not ready’, ‘you are not good enough’ etc. Sexually they will either be obsessed with being perfect at it, focus on pleasing their partner fully and exclude themselves, or they are very stoic, cold and repressed when it comes to sex. In order to heal they need to have a greater understanding of how the Universe works, some deep soul-searching, realizing that perfection is impossible and even if possible then what? If you are perfect then there will be no room for improvement, growth and etc. Perfection is only an ending of everything. But it is impossible. They should focus on working on themselves tremendously, working on bettering, growing and improving themselves. Acceptance.

Lilith in Libra

Blockages in relationships arise as well as many issues surrounding relationships. This placement is a harder one to heal. Learning how to stand on firm ground, cherish your independence even in a bond/partnership/union. It is important to break away from toxic people and toxic relationships, either heal those toxic relationships, repair them, understand where you are feeling guilty, why you are feeling that way, look within. Explore yourself, where does the shame lie, you want to please everyone else but yourself, sacrifice yourself by putting everything on the line. Constant guilt that you are not doing enough for others, that you should do more. No. Do that for yourself, instead. Put yourself first, go inward, listen to your own voice, if necessary isolate yourself for a bit. When you charge yourself then you will be able to help others, only those worth it.

Lilith in Scorpio

Magnetizing, intense, smoldering, obviously it is a Scorpio placement. Lilith in Scorpio tend to be very self-destructive even if Lilith feels a bit comfortable here. It is very easily for these individuals to fall into rabbit holes, because they only want to go to the deepest of corners of whatever it is (whatever it their cup of tea), but sometimes going that deep can mean drowning, forgetting that you actually are a great swimmer and letting the waves of the depth drown you. Negative thoughts, fears are piling up and it is hard to exit that escapist route. As a fixed sign, this placement can hold a grudge and might be even a bit vengeful. But caring for themselves, breaking these patterns of repetition, breaking these patterns which cause them to escape which is unlike them will bring them steps closer to healing. They have the tendency to get over-attached among being self-destruct, which can destroy them if they do not work on releasing themselves from attachments.  Learning how to be okay with how life goes, with the journeys life has prepared for them, just to back off, get their claws off of everything and relax and sometimes even just observe. Trust the process. Trust the Universe.

Lilith in Sagittarius

These individuals are very restless and want to just break free from any chains they feel are upon them, they just want to burst out any barrier out of any bubble, and sometimes that can stir up problems in work/job/relationships/friendships etc. They just have this burning up need for independence and experiencing the world at its fullest and on their skin completely, without anyone preaching it to them. They are also very experimental, sexually as well. They will want to be with partners who are open to new things and are liberal. They are the ones who can do sex without a strong connection to the person, they know how to have fun. Lilith in Sagittarius need to learn that they can still be independent and nurture their independence while being committed to a relationship. They must not forget to take care of themselves individually, outside of a relationship. Because if they do not, the fear of being tied down, being denied freedom will always ring in the back of their mind. It’s kind of a false fear causing you to rebel or do reckless things that are not fruitful in the long run and might even make you cringe, you need to gain emotional stability without fearing it or being ashamed.

Lilith in Capricorn

These individuals have a fear of failure a constant self-put pressure or a pressure caused by societal norms, by looking at what others which are their age do and what they don’t do. They fear not catching up or not climbing any ladder at all. They can become slaves to their tasks/duties.  Even though they do not react well to failure they are very strong and can quickly get back on their feet again. Sexually they might be very dominant and want to be in control (mommy/daddy vibes lol) or will be very detached/cold. They might carry that feeling of duty, a responsibility to please their partner fully and create such a fulfilling and unforgettable sexual experience for their partner and it can become a constant burden. Healing can happen by these individuals actually taking responsibility toward themselves, taking care of themselves first and then paying attention to others.

Lilith in Aquarius

With Lilith in Aquarius it is totally visible that they stand out in some or another, they are unique and it might have been quite an alienating experience growing up or still. They feel ashamed for how different they are and how they cannot fit it or be accepted or be understood. It can be quite a lonely experience but also frustrating, and that is because these individuals want to be a part of a group, they want to belong, they want to be accepted, they want to be powerful with their gang and change the world. Growing up or just through life they might knock on the wrong doors couple of times. They can achieve healing when they start accepting themselves and their unique nature. Once they do that I really believe they will attract like-minded individuals who are also different and possibly are misfits of society. In that way they can be different together. All they need to do is accept their own differences without conforming. But I believe, because Lilith is about restrictions and repression, fear and shame, at one point in their life or another they might have tried to conform and make themselves like everyone else just to belong. But no, liberate yourselves by accepting yourselves, it is the most empowering you can do.

Lilith in Pisces

They are unsure, they doubt, they fear, they look at many alternatives finding the good things in every which makes it hard to be decisive, so they just turn it off and escape. They definitely have escapism tendencies. Sometimes in order to cope with trauma or uncomfortable experiences they just pretend those did not happen or do not exist by turning it off, but that is anything but good. Because that trauma keeps piling up without them addressing it or even being aware of it, which can cause the trauma to be let out in every field of their life. They must not allow it to come to that degree. Break the cycle, learn, grow, accept. I know it is easier said than done, especially with this placement which is prone to sadness/depression/anxiety. It is also important to learn moderation, therapy is also good if necessary. They also need to learn to love themselves and their life no matter how shitty it can get, heck it gets shitty for all of us. Gathering the courage and strength to face it head-on instead of retreating to a fantasy can be liberating and elevating for these individuals.

Masterpost: Love Asteroids

Here are some of the more popular (and less popular) asteroids connected to love, romance, romantic feelings, sex, attraction, etc. The numbers listed next to them are their numbers on astro.com. Some of them are included in my Synastry Readings and Love/Partnership Readings. Enjoy!

Juno (3)

It represents long-term relationships and marriage. The kind of person you want to marry. It shows what you need to have in the relationship in order to commit. It can show legal ties, contracts that bond you together. The relationship with the Juno person in synastry may protect you in some way. Transits may show the timing of marriage (Transit Juno in 5th – commitment in a relationship, Transit Juno in 7/10th may represent marriage). Good sexual connection that lasts. Juno is also willing to make compromise and forgive betrayals. It can show problems with jealousy, especially in square aspects.

Ceres (1)

In general, Ceres is connected to pregnancy and the mother-child relationship. In a romantic relationship, it represents how you fulfill your partner’s needs, how you provide them with nourishment, nurture, how you care for them. It can feel very loving and caring, but at times it may repress the romance and feel overbearing, codependent, overprotective. It is also associated with jealousy and the sense of possession over the other person.

Eros (433)

What turns you on, your sexual drive, how you show your passion and desire for something. How your sexuality or sexual relationship with someone transforms you. Merging together with someone, turning into one - combined with Psyche in synastry it represents yin/yan. In the chart, it can represent your desirability. It can also show sexual objectification. Also connected with creativity, inspiration, creative passions.

Amor (1221)

Soulmate. Ideal love, compassion, nonsexual love. Otherwordly love. The type of love you give to someone without expecting anything in return. Selfless love, can sometimes be sacrificial. There might be deep-rooted attachment. In the natal chart, it can also represent how you deal with rejection.

Psyche (16)

How you can learn to love yourself with the help of another, the path you take that leads you to appreciate your beauty and your love for yourself or another, love that may not feel easy. Romantic obstacles, betrayals, jealousy. Rising like a phoenix after romantic hardships.

Anteros (1943)

Your response to your lover’s longing. Reciprocated love, how you give back love or how others give it to you. Romantic revenge.

Innanen (3497)

Fertility, sexuality and the positive expression of it. It can show a strong-mind, someone who knows what they want and expect.

Lilith (1181)

Can show any form of repression in ourselves, including sexual or the place in our chart where we have the most power. Boldly expresseed sexuality or fear of expressing sexuality. The wild person inside all of us. It can represent misogyny in men (in many cases, if aspected to Juno - the Madonna-Whore complex). It represents the type of women both men and women may fear. It can show power struggles in relationships, need for control over the other person while maintaining our own independence. It can represent the dark sexuality, attraction to the things we aren’t supposed to have, secret relationships/forbidden affairs.

Vesta (4)

On one side and depending on how it’s aspected, Vesta can represent fear of intimacy, chastity, celibacy, alienation or avoidance of relationships and focus on self. Fear of commitment. On the other side, it can show devotion to a partner or a relationship, making them a priority of one’s life, sacrificing personal wishes for the other person. A true giver. It can also represent practitioners of tantric sex and sexuality as a form of connection to something greater, ritualistic sex.

Bella (695)

Represents physical beauty, superficial attraction, what we find beautiful in others and what others find beautiful in us - aesthetically, it isn’t always an indicator of a romantic attraction.

Aphrodite (1388)

Beauty (not necessarily physical), magnetism, Venusian in nature. Feminine beauty. Romantic impulsivity. Ability to make others do things for us, drawing people in, having that sweetness of character that is likeable.

Sappho (80)

Sexual attraction that can be deeply emotional and inspiring. Can represent desire for same-sex partnership, particularly for women. Close-bonded relationships between women. What you bring into these relationships. It is also connected to arts, artistic inspiration, poetry. Negatively, it can show inability to form close relationships, create boundaries or separate romance from friendship.

Bride (19029) and Groom (5129)

In synastry, the link between the two can be a sign of marriage or a long-term relationship. In the natal chart, these two can represent the masculine and feminine traits of a long-term partner/spouse.

Hera (103)

The meaning of Hera in astrology in similar to that of Juno. It represents the spouse, marriage, but compared to Juno, Hera can be more reactive, more jealous, especially in times of crisis within the relationship. Can represent beauty of a goddess.

Bacchus (2063)

Polygamy, group sex/orgies, sexual overindulgence, free love, excess.

Tantalus (2102)

The forbidden fruit in our life, the temptation. What we want, but we can’t have, is out of our reach, etc. Wanting something so much, but it just feels unattainable.

Adonis (2101)

Strong masculine charisma snd beauty. “Alpha” males (lol). For people attracted to men, it can represent the type of man/male energy you are attracted to, the physical or personality characteristics of your ideal man. For men, it can be the type of man you aspire to be.

Lust (4386)

Sexual appetite, desire, how you express your desire, the people you are attracted to on a primal/physical level. Enthusiam for a person or a relationship.

Casanova (7328)

The way you conquer romantically, how you seduce. It can be egotistical, amoral. Similarly to Cupido, it can also show seducation without further intention. Focus on physical pleasure but lack of emotional depth. Love and sex as something that satisfy the pride, rather than the heart.

Cupido (763)

Cupido is the asteroid that draws you in to the other person, it represents instant attraction, one that might be highly sexual and one that can be quite vain. It can show enjoying the idea of someone, what they represent on surface or physical level. So infatuation. It also shows how you may initiate love. Blind love, childish love, showing someone love or interest without further intention.

Valentine (447)

True love, romantic love. It may represent sacrifices you make for love, love without conditions. Love that makes you offer to take a bullet for someone.

I will add more or make a second post if I think of anything else :)

If you want to find out more about your romantic life or relationship, I do synastry chart and composite chart readings, as well as a Love/Partnership reading which is a personal romantic horoscope. If interested, message me here or by email ([email protected]).

The Serpent, 1880, Max Klinger

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