When the INFJ finally comes to the realization that they must move on, this looks nothing like the previously emotional state they were probably in. Once the INFJ has made the decision to shut someone out, they are very level-headed and rational. This may be frightening to people who are so used to seeing the warm and gentle INFJ. They often appear very collected and even cold when they are set on slamming the door on someone. They know what they have to do, and this often takes removing all emotions from their actions. They have to shut off from this person, almost as if they are dead to them. The INFJ considers the loss of a relationship much like a death, and they have already spent time mourning this loss. At this point they are simply removing the finale memories of the lost relationship. This is no longer the mourning period, the INFJ has completely come to terms with what has happened. If the INFJ is still emotional or upset, then there is hope to resolve the relationship. Once the Door Slam has happened there is no going back. The INFJ has made the decision to move on and to them it is already done.

Source:

https://personalitygrowth.com/the-hard-truth-about-the-infj-door-slam/

INFJ: *watching some drama for fight in social media*

INFJ: Geez… I hate that… Why can’t she shut up?

ENTP: Yea. Same. Making me really uncomfrotable.

INFJ: You? Uncomfrotable? That goes together?

ENTP: Mainly because I just want to tear her fucking face off. But I can’t.

INFJ: Oh… Make sense… Please don’t though, dear.

“- Why you?

- (…) I’m the best.

- Modest of you.

- I am the best. Modesty has nothing to say about it.”

Paul Hoffman, The Left Hand of God

INFJ: It’s not your fault, you don’t deserve to feel this way

INFP: You’ve got so much potential, just keep your head up! 

ENFP: Everything’s going to be alright man! 

ENFJ: What’s wrong? Tell me everything. I’m here for you. 

INTJ: Are those… Tears? Jesus Christ 

INTP: Okay… Okay… How can we fix this?

ENTP: Come on, there’s got to be something that’ll cheer you up 

ENTJ: You don’t have to be sad, we’ll get ice cream or something. 

ISFP: Don’t worry about it, don’t worry about anything

ESFP: I heard there’s a really good karaoke bar in town…

ISTP: What happened this time?

ESTP: Alright… So you’re sad, why is that?

ISTJ: What the fuck are feelings 

ESTJ: What the fucking shit fuck are feelings and why do you feel them?

ISFJ: I’m really sorry, is there anything I can do to make it better? 

ESFJ: I’m here to help you feel better. Let’s get started. 

Austin is ambitious, fun, caring and extroverted. Austin loves to live his life to the fullest and wants to make the most of his career.

At his bets, Austin becomes more grounded and focused in his relationship with Ally. Austin also starts to take things more seriously.

At his worst, Austin can be impulsive and do things without thinking, as we see when he performs when he isn’t meant to which causes more issues for him.

Austin seems to be driven by fun and what feels good. I think Austin thinks that being a popstar will be fun. He also likes being a popstar because he likes making people feel good and he can do that through his music. His performances are also always very extravagant and energetic because he wants people to feel like he does. 

Austin doesn’t seem to take life super seriously and he is very laid back a lot of the time. This is one of the reasons he complements Ally so well, as she is often very highly-strung. Austin often takes things as they come and doesn’t plan for the future, which can be characteristic of 7s. 

Austin shows his wing 6 as he is more people-oriented and personable than a 7w8. 

Tri-type:7w6 - 3w2 - 9w1

Some quotes to describe Austin’s motivations

“I am the electric avenger!”

“I’m surprised you know who he is. I thought you only listened to dorky books on tape.”

I hope it’s a musical. I’ve always wanted to be in a beach musical.”

“Hasta la vista, Crabby.”

“Book club, Calligraphy Camp - now you’re just making stuff up.”

Ally is neurotic, shy, helpful and caring. Ally is very talented but struggled with her stage fright.

At her best, Ally becomes more confident in herself and her abilities. Ally is able to start performing with the help of Austin.

At her worst, Ally can overreact to situations and catastrophize situations. Ally can also act without thinking sometimes.

Ally seems to be afraid of a lot, which is common for 6s. Her biggest fear is performing on stage because she is afraid of embarrassing herself in front of everyone. As the series progresses, she is able to overcome this fear with the help of her friends and becomes more confident in herself and her abilities.

Ally is often the serious one in the group and tries to keep Austin and the others grounded. However, she can become swept up in their antics, leading to more issues for the group. For the most part, Ally is very responsible and future-focused. She knows what she wants and is constantly working towards that.

Ally shows her wing 7 as she is more overtly nervous and expressive than a 6w5.

Tri-type:6w7 - 1w2 - 4w3

Some quotes to describe Ally’s motivations

“You really won all those people over. They came for the kangaroo, but they stayed for the ‘Moon’”

“No, I was going to say we shouldn’t rush our revenge. I want to get this guy. We need to be ruthless. Plan every detail. Make no mistakes. I don’t want to go back to jail!”

“I also have a going away present for you. Actually, it’s a going away/birthday/groundhog day present.”

“That’s my song! How could he just steal my song like that? He messed with the wrong girl!”

Bertram is jolly, gentle and meddlesome. He has an innate need to help people and to be of service towards making their life better.

At his best, Bertie in a kind soul who wants to love, nurture and help others. He is altruistic as a vet and treats all the patients, owners and his staff with lots of respect and kindness.

At his worst, Bertie takes his compulsive need to ‘help’ and starts euthanising people who seem as in need of his help. He genuinely can’t see the problem with what he has been doing as he has deluded himself into believing that his actions will spare these people any more pain and it is bringing them a peaceful and positive end to their pain.

Bertie comes across as a real family man who loves the simple life with his wife and daughter. He seems to dote on Dee and treats her really well, supporting her in all of her choices. He is also very supportive of Alma and is very loyal to her, even going as far as helping her kill Carlo as he thinks it will help both her and Rita. He tries to win back Alma’s trust and feels very alienated from her when she finds out the truth as he feels like she is pushing him away for his choices.

Bertie is very personable and is seen as an upstanding citizen. He has a stellar reputation as a kind veterinarian and many of the characters comment on how they love visiting his practice due to his disposition and attitude. Bertie chose a job where he could help animals and also provide care to their owners and this is verify indicative of his personality and his desire to be needed.

Bertie has a wing 1 as he is more rigid and stuck in his beliefs than a wing 3 might be.

Tri-type: 2w1 - 6w5 - 9w1

Some quotes to describe Bertie’s motivations:

“Alma, you lied to me. You don’t care about our marriage at all!”

“You know, it’s funny. We take such good care of our pets. When a dog or cat is ready to die, we help them. I’m very much of the opinion that we should show a human being the same kindness. The disease you have is awful. The end will come surely, cruelly. You have no family, no one to take care of you. I couldn’t just stand idly by and do nothing. You are an exceptional woman. You need to know that your life had meaning. You brought joy. You were loved, and you will be remembered.”

“She deserved a beautiful death, and I made sure she got one.”

“They’re mementos. Things that belonged to friends, patients, people I’ve met.”

Bertram:“Can’t we talk about this? I’m not going to hurt you.”

Alma: “I’m not afraid you’ll hurt me. I’m afraid you’ll help me!”

Lydia is intelligent, loyal, competitive and caring. While she initially presents the façade of being a ditzy popular girl there is a lot more to Lydia than meets the eye.

At her best, Lydia is able to be her authentic self and does not feel the need to pretend to be dumb. She is loyal to her friends to a fault and does everything she can to help them.

At her worst, Lydia can come across as vain and a bit shallow. For example, at the beginning of the series, Lydia seemed very concerned with being popular and took very little notice of those outside of her social circle. 

Lydia is a highly talented and intelligent person (I mean she is practically a genius). She enjoys learning and consistently pushes herself to expand her knowledge. Lydia is naturally gifted in academics and has high goals for her future academic career, even once proclaiming that she would win a Field’s Medal. Despite, having a stellar academic performance and GPA at school, Lydia still keeps pushing and tries to get extra credit when possible.

Lydia is concerned with status and achievements. We see this in how she only becomes interested in Scott after he becomes a star lacrosse player. I also believe that her relationship with Jackson was founded on the fact that he is the most popular boy at the school. Lydia is also always trying to throw the best parties and make a name for herself at Beacon Hills High School. 

Lydia grows a lot throughout the series. At the beginning I feel she was a bit manipulative towards the people in her friend group in the name of achieving her own goals. For instance, she advises Allison to break up with Scott but then immediately makes a move on him herself. Similarly, Lydia also had a tendency to be more deceitful. For example, she presented an image of being a ditzy and superficial girl. While Stiles was able to see through this, most of her other peers did not really know much about Lydia’s true personality and capabilities. 

3s often present an image to the outer world that they think people will like better, which I think is what Lydia was doing. However, as the series progresses she becomes a lot more caring and selfless. She is more secure and confident that people will like her for who she is. Lydia no longer feels the need to hide her true self from the world for acceptance.

Lydia shows her wing 4 (wing 2?) as she is more 

Tri-Type: 3w4 - 5w6 - 1w2

Some quotes to describe Lydia’s traits and motivations:

“I will not fall prey to society’s desire to turn girls into emotionally insecure neurotics who pull up their dresses at the first flattering remark.”

“Jackson is gonna perform tomorrow, but he’s not gonna be at his peak and I prefer my boyfriend at peak performance.”

“That’s not it. It’s just…someone tried to strangle me, and I survived. I don’t need to hide that.”

“Nobody likes a loser”

“Never frown, because some one could be falling in love with your smile.”

astrologieez:

Reblog this with your sun/moon/rising signs and your personality type. Tryna see something.

Pisces sun, Sagittarius moon, Cancer rising.

INFP-T

Based on what I see so far, personality type has zero correlation with what signs you fall under. Therefore if someone tries to use their sign as an excuse for being mean to someone or for doing something reckless, that means they’re not cool and they need help. Life influences behavior, not just your sign. This has been a PSA to stop looking for excuses to be shitty! ☺️

Reblog this with your sun/moon/rising signs and your personality type. Tryna see something.

Pisces sun, Sagittarius moon, Cancer rising.

INFP-T

katsuki-creativewriting:

leviaddict:

illyria-12:

attackonfics:

mysteriousmagicx:

xsugarysweetsx:

toutorii:

vermillionflames:

excitedlysuffering:

beefcakekabutoonlaptop:

cucktobirama:

fpwritings:

your-local-bnha-writer:

pudding-head-kenma:

kukusbabe:

interstellix:

pikachulein:

marriael:

middle-of-a-wonshua-sandwich:

seokminseok:

xiuminscheeks:

yixing-zhang:

sefuns:

ateliersaab:

pastel-kpop:

deakyswhitequeen:

Find your match: tag game

Hi lovesies, I kinda had an idea, after taking this test I found on @matstegen blog, about Creative Types.

So, I found out that, out of the eight possible creative personalities, I’m a thinker (the description totally suits me, btw lol). And I thought “How cool would it be if among my lovely mutuals I could find the other seven personalities that match and complete mine?”

So here I am, starting this ‘tag game’…

Rules:

1. Take the test
2. Reblog this post with what type you got
3. Tag 7 mutuals to do the same!

Let’s find our matches people!

I’m tagging: @sweetgcreature@its-a-metephor-brian@bohemiandelilah@gottabecool-relax@instantezra@radio-ha-ha@littledarlingwellaway cause they are my squad, but if you want to try and do this, you’re more than welcome!

Xx

PS: my matches would be AdventurerandVisionary

I’m a Dreamer :3 

Tagging:@baekberrie@guitaristbfjae@baek-byunies@monschelon@hardforexo@jongin-be-my-jagi @heartcravings

They say that I’m an Artist.

Tag:@byunphilia@nctream@lacetulle@vitruvians@dayafterdae@sefuns@smoakedits

matches: the Producer

I’m a Visionary and my match is The Thinker

tagging:@kaibility@byunvoyage@bloomingyouths @exo-stentialism@chengf@chanshine@yixing-zhang@baekhyunie-l 

i’m a dreamer and my match is the innovator

tagging:@xiuminscheeks@kyungsooskhakipants@babyouare@pikayeollie@amaxing-daes@seokminseok

I’m a dreamer and my match is innovator ♡

tagging@thedeviousdo@seokminseok@heartcravings@tattooyeol@xiupastry@paranormalkaitivity@briepark

@yixing-zhang+@xiuminscheeks i’m an adventurer and my match is an artist!✨

tagging: @s-lay-ing@cheolsbae@iknowsongbutidontknowsongname@kwibu @dkymm 

I’m a dreamer ♡

@strawberry-artini@sleepyljihoon@thisisgospelofthehorizon@thatcocobean@marriael@baekwell–tart@wwounu

I am a dreamer and my match is the innovator :)

@luvhannie@peachy-bangchan@pikachulein

I already knew I was the Dreamer before I even took this test, but yeah, my “suspicions” got reaffirmed and here I am, in need of an innovator it seems :’)

tagging@marculees@ultkyu@sunnycatuwu@ohmyimagines@interstellix@keiguriki@boxer-skz

hello hello your innovator is apparently right here lmao :’) as for my match, it’s the maker

nothing you have to do but i’ll be tagging @littlefallenrebel@soulkhunscompass @walkingonwave @kukusbabe@joey-yellow-county@0325-4419@hanniejji:’>

am visionary in need of my thinker kuroo JGAHAGAHH okay i’ll leave now 

(this was interesting tysm for tagging me vivi bby)

@astereim@pudding-head-kenma@ranpoopoo@azrimmaxwell

i wanna see which one of u is meant to be my soulmate  JHHAJ

I’m a thinker! My ideal collaborator  is the adventurer, this was fun! tsu baby i’m what you’re looking for but you’re… not what i’m looking for? tea IOJASMKGJIASOGKLSAMJGIAS

tagging:@shinsuque;@your-local-bnha-writer;@sugawalmartwobble;@starrylune

thanks for tagging !! this was sm fun

I’m the Dreamer ~

woW

tagging : @bokunowriteracademia@starrylune@sweetlysugawara@seiiblue@fpwritings

thanks for the tag bb!!

I’m also the Dreamer. not surprised at all.

tagging:@watermelonsugawara,@cucktobirama,@elysianseraph,@kimimarowo!!

im the innovator bby

@beefcakekabutoonlaptop@sadwentz​@hoe-imaginess@softieitachi@youtubequeens

I’m a visionary in need of a thinker

@gothshisui@madarasuggestions@excitedlysuffering

I’m a dreamer in need of an innovator✨

@weaponmistress@kunoichihatake@softieitachi@shinobicas@cucktobirama

i didn’t get tagged but i wanna share

i’m a dreamer, my ideal collab would be with an innovator.

@toutorii@toponemuffin anyone else who wants to do it lol

Thanks Becca for the tag!

Im a dreamer, and my ideal collab would be with an innovator.

I tag: @xsugarysweetsx@eme-eleff@sushiadasushi and whoever else wants to do it

This was fun! I am a THINKER& collaborate best with THE ADVENTURER

Thank you @toutorii

Here’s the link

I tag

@mysteriousmagicx@thesilencebeforeastorm@thestral-balerion@energetic-tangerine

this was cool! i got the Dreamer  and my ideal collaborator is an innovator (pretty much nailed it) thanks for teh tag @xsugarysweetsx

i tag: @attackonfics@super-peace-fangirl@ackerfiction@aj-writes-here and anyone else who wants to do it!

I’m also the Dreamer, best with an Innovator. How cute was this!!

I tag @teenytinymei^_^

I am a Thinker, best with an Adventurer.

@levi-ackerman-rp@chrysanthedadteadrink@leviaddict

I am the Artist, and my Ideal Collaborator is the Producer.

I don’t know people that didn’t do this test so feel free to do it!

I got the artist, my ideal collaborator is the producer.

I’ll tag…

@sketchybri517

@isthsnametakenyet

@babydabi

@badboysdoitbetter

anyone else can take it too!

I got the visionary, and my ideal collaborator is the thinker (the profile for this was scarily accurate and also really motivating woah).

Thank you for the tag @katsuki-creativewriting - this was so interesting and so much fun!

Tagging:@piiess@emmastudies@estudiear@etudaire@gemsttudiess@cinnamonelizastudies@vanandlife@adelinestudiess@coffeeandpies @winniestudyblr (as well as any anyone else who sees this and wants to do it!)

karissa-studies:

Honest Opinion of INTJ

- Secretly as nerdy as INTP, maybe even more so

- Usually extremely left brained but have surprising creativity

- Will take crap from nobody and will hunt your lies down

- Visual learner, loves organized information like spreadsheets

- Actually a softie on the inside

- Prone to overthinking but more decisive than others, just wants to make sure they make a good decision

- Has a variety of interests cuz they can’t decide but usually a few things they like the most

- Actually cries a lot

- Slightly cooler version of ISTJ

- Explosive yet cold when angry

- Often musically talented and has good music taste

honeysucklememoriess:

in love with an intj

“A romance with an INTJ feels like having your most loyal supporter by your side. They sincerely want their loved ones to succeed, and will push you past your limits. your feelings will be dissected and put into logital terms, since INTJs often think their feelings through. Being in love with an INTJ feels like having a companion who understands you, but will constantly leave you baffled. Their loyalty means that they will stand by you, but will often push you outside of your safe little comfort zone. Expect growth, and constant hunger ofr knowledge when you are with an INTJ.”