Hey, y’all. Friendly reminder that I’m HSV-2 positive and we need to change the language surrounding STI’s from “clean” and “dirty” to something less stigmatizing. You aren’t “clean” if you don’t have an STI, you just don’t have any STIs. You aren’t “dirty” if you do, you just have a diagnosis. Erase the stigma so we can have OPEN, HONEST, SAFE, ENCOURAGING conversations about STIs. #IAmNotMySTI
Flash sale for the Black Poly Pride: Inaugural Weekend pool party in celebration of Juneteenth! Get your tickets while you can!!!! I can’t wait to make a SPLASH with all of you!!!!!
I don’t even OFFER triad advice because the whole thing makes my ass itch and I’m IN a triad but I’m getting so sick of the foolishness I see, I’m feeling benevolent enough today to drop a jewel on y’all. Must be these morning meditation sessions I’ve been getting in, lately.
Anyhoo, the reason why triads are so hard is because they are FOUR relationships in one and they EACH have to be cultivated and maintained to keep the triad healthy. There’s the relationship between A + B, B + C, A + C, and then A + B + C. They ALL have to be nurtured. So yes, ladies (or men on non-binary person), your husband (or wife, or partner) needs to have individual time with whatever lady (or man on non-binary person) you’re pursuing. If they can only relate to you as a couple, the individual relationships will not flourish and more than likely, your triad will soon be defunct.
[ID: A traditional drawing, lined in black felt tip pen and colored with colored pencils. It shows a daisy, each petal showing the colors of a different pride flag; clockwise, the flags are: Agender, Polygender, Lesbian, Aromantic, Pansexual, Polyamorous, Intersex, Demisexual, Achillean, Trans, Genderfluid, Aroace, Gay/MLM, Omnisexual, Asexual, Genderqueer, Queer Chevron, Sapphic, Demiromantic, Diamoric, Bisexual, Nonbinary, Pomosexual, Polysexual. The middle of the flower shows the Progress Pride Flag, and around the flower are the words “We’re at our best when we stand together”. ‘Together’ is written in all caps and underlined.]
I noticed that Discord only has two pride emojis (gay and trans) so I let members of my server request for flags that they wanted made!
Rather than just putting random images of flags as the emojis, I tried to make them look as close as possible to the actual discord ones (rounded edges and relatively the same size)
These are transparent pngs if anyone wants to download them for their own server! I hope you enjoy them ^^
