sometimes you just have to change who you spend your time with. if your friends make you feel invisible and forgotten about then they aren’t good friends. even if you’ve known them for a long time, you aren’t obligated to know them forever. do what’s right for you and surround yourself with the people who make you feel good and happy, who respect you and your interests and don’t mock or judge you. let yourself be loved.

just a quick reminder that you are not your parents. their opinions, their actions, their beliefs are not inherently yours and you can choose to have different opinions. please don’t think that just because your parents are one way you have to be the same, you can choose to grow and learn and be more open.

it’s ok to say no if you aren’t in a good headspace to help out a friend. it’s ok to say no if you don’t feel like doing what you’ve planned anymore because you need time to yourself. it’s ok to say no if you’re uncomfortable and unsure. it’s ok to say no if you just don’t want to. it doesn’t make you a bad person for putting yourself first.

it’s ok if you didn’t get through everything you planned to do today, you made it through the day and that’s the most important thing. there is always another day ahead of you where you can try again, just take it one day at a time and you will be alright.

try not to compare yourself to people the same age as you who are successful in terms of fame and wealth, because that doesn’t mean you aren’t successful. you’re studying, working. you’re gaining knowledge and experience and, most important of all, you’re getting through each day even though it can be hard, and that’s successful too.

wholeheartedsuggestions:

never too late to be a brand new you, to start over, to rewrite your story, to dream new dreams

wholeheartedsuggestions:

when you feel emptiest, remember to eat something and drink some water. remember to breath and to un-tense your shoulders.

Letting go requires a lot of strength, you are so brave.

Open your eyes and see that you deserve the world.

Life is made of ups and downs, and so is healing. It is not a linear process, so don’t get discouraged.

you were meant to see this post. this post showed up on your screen for a reason. you are loved. whatever issue you may be going through right now, whether it be school or family or love, it will pass. it will pass, and you will be okay in the end. you will survive this.

your body is a temple. and it is yours to decorate.

In case no one has told you:

• you are amazing

• you are loved

• you are cared about

• you are strong

• I’m so proud of you!!

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