In this episode we’ll discuss the bookSugar Baby Hypnosis by George Hutton. It takes a look into some mental hypnosis and mind control techniques. We’ll analyze one of the most interesting and mysterious organs: the brain!
We’ll also take a look at the role business and economics play in modern day relationships. Whether you are single and trying to find creative ways to influence people to do your bidding or you are in a relationship and can’t seem to get your guy to listen and do the things you want, you won’t want to miss this insightful episode!
Using the art and science of language to get what you want
Dr. Milton Erickson’s subconscious mind model
Economics, trade, and cost in relationships
Desires of men and women differ
Using the law of scarcity and fear of abandonment to hook your target
Get anybody to do anything with Carnegie’s Golden Rule
Business minded decisions in relationships
How the human brain works in piecing memories together
Embedded commands and right handed gestures
If you enjoy the episode and want to read the book for yourself, you can get a free copy from the ebook library on my website. Sign up as a subscriber (free membership tier)
Whether you’re sugar dating or vanilla dating, manipulation tactics are often used by both parties. This week’s episode takes a look into some of the most common manipulation tactics men use in the dating game.From personal experiences, accounts of other women, and even the men themselves I’ve compiled a list of the top male manipulation tactics. See if you can spot any of these tactics that may have been used on you in the past or that you’ve seen happen:
Texting endlessly with no real plans to meet
Asking for pics
Trying to get you to pick something cheap on the menu
Buying nice things to throw it in your face during an argument
Lovebombing
Lowering your expectations
“Leaving” without any real intention to leave
Backhanded compliments
P.S. I’ve just launched a few Self Development Courses (1 free course for Insiders and 7-day free trial for Subscribers before I make it available to the public for purchase!). If interested register on my website hereorshoot me an email and you will receive info about the course description, layout, and registration:
Balancing many different aspects of life can get overwhelming, especially when you factor in sugar dating. In this episode we’ll put together a list that can make it easier to balance and enjoy every aspect of your life.
Sugaring, classes, work, and just life in general can get exhausting. Mental health is critical for manifesting and creating a life you love living. Join me while we go through some self care and wellness strategies:
Affirmations
Mindfulness activities
How to create and incorporate a self-care routine
Pro tip: subscribe to luxury magazines for more visual vibe enhancement. My favorites are Veranada, House Beautiful, AD (Architectural Digest), and Elle Decor
This mindful episode dives deep into the reasons behind some of the actions we take. We discuss doing what it takes to get above average results that can ensure the best possible life outcomes (sugaring and running up a bag included). You will have a mindset shift in consciousness after really absorbing the info in this episode. What’s inside:
Entropy and what it means for our lives
You are not like everyone else
Running on autopilot: why we do it, how often we do it, how we can stop
3 main ways to be free from compulsive/obsessive thinking, mind wandering, and daydreaming
2 real life examples of putting these methods into practice
The list of 6 mindful habits to adopt
How self-awareness affects the people around you
Pushing through to the next stage
I’m just 2 weeks and 4 exams away from finishing my summer coursework and being that much closer to getting my medical degree!
Everything is working out and it feels amazing. I promise I’m not just saying it, I’m living it. I took a break from camming for a while to focus on classes, podcasting and other aspects of the business. I decided to put my premium back up and I thought I’d have to start fresh with new clientele but that wasn’t the case! They’re all still there and even have some new subs ready to give me their paycheck which I will be using every drop towards my move later this summer. Everything I give my attention to blossoms. Affirm it.
Med school has been trying to end your girl’s life. I’ve been so busy with so much on my plate but I HAD to record an episode this week. I’ve been really missing all the Tumblr fun and this lifestyle. I’ll also be trying to catch up on the asks this week.
This week’s episode focuses on wealth creation:
Different methods and testimonials to help you take charge of your finances and life goals
Balancing many different aspects of life can get overwhelming, especially when you factor in sugar dating. In this episode we’ll put together a list that can make it easier to balance and enjoy every aspect of your life.
Top Luxury Inspiring Accounts You Need On Your Feed!
On this episode of The Top List, we’re going to go through my list of top 10 Luxury Inspiring Accounts to Follow for the level up journey. This week we have supporting visuals, so be sure to check out the video that accompanies today’s episode.
So what happens when you’re getting a steady allowance and you want to take your sugar money to try and advance yourself in life? Society hates SWers and women who use their body, looks, personality to make money so be prepared for that. I’m in the process of trying to purchase property and have hit some roadblocks with my lender.
Finding out that my whore moneyisn’t good enough to get me approved for a mortgage Now I have to push back my timeline for buying a home while I “make legit money” is probably one of the most frustrating things to happen to me lately. I’m just fortunate enough to have parents that support me and will help legitimize my money. Do y’all want me to document this homebuying process? I feel like this may be a common problem SBs and other SWers may face when trying to get loans, mortgages, etc.
The allowance and/or camming money can be saved and used for down payments but you’ll still need a “legit” job with a steady paycheck coming in every month to get a bank approval. After talking with my lender, I learned that even having a steady income from camming isn’t good enough to get a mortgage approval unless you’ve been doing it for a year and even still it’s considered freelance money so lenders are less likely to feel comfortable approving you for a loan So my suggestion is have a “normal” job in addition to SW money always.
If it’s hourly you’ll need to have the job for 1 year.
If it’s salaried then at least 6 months.
I used to have a legit job with a boss I hated but when covid hit I took the opportunity to leave and channel my inner whore to make money at my leisure which was so great and easy for me to balance school with.
It’s so frustrating that in 2021 women can’t do what the fuck they want or have to explain why they’re doing what they want with their own life and body. The upside to all this is that I’ll have a lot more money saved for a bigger down payment and better mortgage loan rates when it comes time to fill the application. Trying to stay the course and keep positive while the Universe works her magick in my life.
Cooking and baking are such great ways to increase your vibe and get creative! Test your baking skills with this relavitely easy and fun dessert recipe. Perfect for kitchen witches, project bakers, or anyone who loves watching cooking videos.
The pleasant smell activates the olfactory sense and sends neural signals to fire in your brain.
Using your hands keeps the motor system sharp and working.
Creating something yourself increases your energy and elevates your vibe, helping you to have a more positive outlook.
Cooking is another great way to get yourself out of a funk or low vibrating mood. Even just watching cooking videos can begin to stimulate visual creativity centers in your brain and elevate your mood.
How to make Baked Buttermilk Donuts ft voiceovers from Brown Sugar Doc, The Podcast - episode Energy Alignment with Goals
This episode features Koko, a former SB current hypergamous dater, businesswoman, property owner, leveled up boss bitch. She’s joining us this week to talk about the best cities to freestyle and meet wealthy men. We’ll be recounting some experiences as well as a bonus Q&A.
I put together a guided meditation for this bonus episode, as requested. Guided meditations are a great way to keep up with our wellness goals. Healthy mind = success at securing more bags. Look within to reap the benefits of what’s around you
We’ll also talk about common feelings that can manifest due to the highs/lows of life and how to adjust to them.
Sugaring, classes, work, and just life in general can get exhausting. Mental health is critical for manifesting and creating a life you love living. Join me while we go through some self care and wellness strategies:
Affirmations
Mindfulness activities
How to create and incorporate a self-care routine
Pro tip: subscribe to luxury magazines for more visual vibe enhancement. My favorites are Veranada, House Beautiful, AD (Architectural Digest), and Elle Decor
⚠ Trigger warning: This episode covers topics about domestic violence and my personal experience with abuse. You don’t want to miss this seasons finale. Talking about traumas is difficult but necessary in the healing process. Hopefully my personal experiences will help someone who may be going through something similar.
I found out my ex listens to my podcast so it made recording this episode very difficult and I had been putting it off for so long..
End of the Year Reflection/Saying Goodbye To Sugar Dating
I meant to post this before the year ended but dating in med school has been incredibly demanding! I had a fling with a millie (one day I will meet my billie). I actually had to retake my block 2 exam because I was so wrapped up in the money I’ll record a podcast episode about it soon but for now here’s my reflection on last year and what I’m looking forward to in the future!
When I started this blog I was a newbie in the bowl. Had no idea what sugaring really took. Didn’t even realize the difficulties I would face as a brown sugar baby. Thought it would be so easy… I’m so grateful for all the experiences good and bad because they are part of my story. This year I really wanted to take my experiences to the next level. I was able to purchase an investment property with my sugar sis, start med school, elevate my business, had a wonderful sugar daddy, start healing from past traumas & forgive myselffor staying in an abusive relationships for so long (still very much a work in progress). I love counting my blessings because it reminds me of how far I’ve come and excites me about what has yet to come.
I love sharing my experiences and connecting with so many people who enjoy the same lifestyle and mental frequency. That being said, I’m saying goodbye to sugaring. I feel I’m at a point in my life where I am ready for the next chapter. Sugaring has been so helpful in getting me where I need to be but it’s time to transition. I talk about hypergamy often, and it just seems like a more appropriate setting for me now. My experiences in the sugar bowl have really taught me a lot about men and the dynamics between men + women.
I have a few upcoming trips planned where I will have the opportunity to be around affluent people with millions/billions of dollars. I’ll still continue to document my journey because I’m sure it’ll be a wild ride. If you’re interested in hearing more about my decision and the reasons behind it, check put my podcast! The season finale episode is up now.
Unfortunately I have to change the set up of my episodes. The sugar/hypergamy related episodes will be available on my public platform until the start of season 2, and then I will be moving them to a private podcast space. It will still be on Brown Sugar Doc, The Podcast but limited access. This decision was made after a few classmates bombarded me at a party about a sugar date I went on. It was very bizarre but a necessary lesson learned. So to protect my sanity I’ll be continuing to document all things hypergamy related on my private podcast. I’ll still post on my regular pod but for the hypergamy listeners, I’ll continue the journey exclusively for us.
I love everyone who has joined me at any point on this journey. More to come!
This week we’re discussing labels. How the concept of identity goes hand in hand with creating your own reality. Does identity influence the way that we view and experience the world? Plus, a wellness check in and update about hypergamous dating while in medical school. If you tune in, let me know what you think!
You don’t want to miss this week’s episode about mindful communication strategies! We’ll also dive deeper and discuss topics of professionalism, how the term is changing, and where sex work falls in this change. Be open minded and see if any of your held perceptions are challenged.
Impacts when we don’t communicate mindfully
Professionalisms evolution over time
OnlyFans and sex work censorship
New era dating and terms
Reflection questions
It’s great to be posting again! My inbox is flooded with asks that I can’t wait to answer. Still getting settled into the new city but things are going great. Med school is busy af but finally finding a bit of a balance. Thinking of camming again until I build a solid roster here. Probably do an episode in the near future about it
In this episode we’ll discuss the bookSugar Baby Hypnosis by George Hutton. It takes a look into some mental hypnosis and mind control techniques. We’ll analyze one of the most interesting and mysterious organs: the brain!
We’ll also take a look at the role business and economics play in modern day relationships. Whether you are single and trying to find creative ways to influence people to do your bidding or you are in a relationship and can’t seem to get your guy to listen and do the things you want, you won’t want to miss this insightful episode!
Using the art and science of language to get what you want
Dr. Milton Erickson’s subconscious mind model
Economics, trade, and cost in relationships
Desires of men and women differ
Using the law of scarcity and fear of abandonment to hook your target
Get anybody to do anything with Carnegie’s Golden Rule
Business minded decisions in relationships
How the human brain works in piecing memories together
Embedded commands and right handed gestures
If you enjoy the episode and want to read the book for yourself, you can get a free copy from the ebook library on my website. Sign up as a subscriber (free membership tier)
Whether you’re sugar dating or vanilla dating, manipulation tactics are often used by both parties. This week’s episode takes a look into some of the most common manipulation tactics men use in the dating game.From personal experiences, accounts of other women, and even the men themselves I’ve compiled a list of the top male manipulation tactics. See if you can spot any of these tactics that may have been used on you in the past or that you’ve seen happen:
Texting endlessly with no real plans to meet
Asking for pics
Trying to get you to pick something cheap on the menu
Buying nice things to throw it in your face during an argument
Lovebombing
Lowering your expectations
“Leaving” without any real intention to leave
Backhanded compliments
P.S. I’ve just launched a few Self Development Courses (1 free course for Insiders and 7-day free trial for Subscribers before I make it available to the public for purchase!). If interested register on my website hereorshoot me an email and you will receive info about the course description, layout, and registration:
Thanks for sticking out with me this past month even though I have been completely MIA. A lot of things have happened and still happening. I have been pretty busy planning my long vacation by the end of the year till early next year, I am back in Uni as well, still doing a full-time at work as well, still have an ongoing relationship with my SD and we are doing well had a bit of a hiccup but we got through it.
Anyway so here’s a rundown of what’s happened during the past months I haven’t updated you all. It was late May, we were having dinner having normal chat then he mentioned some major changes that may happen soon that may affect us. Apparently, he has to move to a different state temporarily to be more hands-on with one of his ventures and asked me if I would like to move in with him. I said no, I mean I can’t just turn my life around for someone. Then we decided it’s best to just probably end our arrangement once he decided when to move which he said would probably be by end of June. That night was actually a bit heavy on the both of us.
A week after our talk, I have decided to reactivate my online accounts again since we will be ending our arrangement anyway. I reckon I should put myself out there again since I am not yet ready to fully stop sugaring. Two days after reactivating my account we were scheduled to see each other, then he mentioned that one of his friends who still on one of the sites I’m on saw my profile and told him. When he told me about this I just said to him that I need to start looking for a new arrangement since ours will be ending anyway. Then he opened up to me saying that it was hard for him to see me be with someone else and that he had developed strong feelings towards me. I was actually unable to respond to him after he said all those things, my only response was a quick kiss and a smile.
I have had a few scheduled dates since I re-activated my accounts and had received gifts and cash for dates. I never told my SD about my other ventures but I find it hard to get a proper connection with the men I’ve met.
So it was mid-June when he told me that he wanted to re-negotiate our arrangement so I don’t have to go back in the bowl. Here’s what he said he would like to happen. After every month he will be away for three weeks but our exclusive arrangement and my allowance will remain the same and that he will pay for my masters till I finish. Added to that arrangement he requested that during his time away he wanted us to be in touch every day.
July is going to be over soon and we are still ok, I can pretty much say it’s working out really great for us. But only time can tell, all I know now is that I am just excited for my holiday.
