#drowning

4.11.16

dear whomever reads this,

wow, youve made it this far. honestly, you should be proud of yourself. youve pulled through the tough, and miserable times and youre still here. honestly, that is pure strength and i admire you for that. so, sit back and treat yourself to an award. because youre still breathing and your beautiful heart is still beating. thats something to celebrate.

youve made it this far, please dont give up now.

much love. x

sincerely, a friend.

3.17.16

dear whomever reads this,

does anyone else realize how messed up our generation is? like, okay, that sounds a bit overly clichè and overly used; but nonetheless it is true. there are young girls/boys, STARVING theirselves to feel beautiful or worthy. they feel as though they have to be a certain weight to be accepted. and thats just sad honestly. my favorite quote is, ‘we blame society but we are society’, because its true. we have the ability to accept or ridicule eachother and if that is not power then im not sure what is.

put it in perspective. lets say, you have a son, refusing to eat his favorite dinner and desert because he needs to ‘loose weight’. because, kids at his school put in his mind that he isnt lovely since he doesnt sport a six pack like them, or because his body type is different from theirs.

let me just ask, would you want to see your child starving theirself because they arent what society say they should be?

i wouldnt.

i understand that eating disorders are beyond serious, and arent easy to recover from. and i am not judging anyone whom has an eating disorder, or mental illness; im a judge free zone. what i am trying to say is that, seeing on social media, these people encouraging or promoting these things that shouldnt be tooken lightly is just heart breaking. i guess im a bit too self ritcheous, or whatever, but i feel as though we all should be there for eachother, not encourage one another into an illness that could very much kill you.

much love. x

i apologize for the lengthy caption, and for ranting. if i dont make sense, im sorry. i just felt as though it needed to be said. i did not in anyway mean to offend anyone. i love you guys.

sincerely, a friend.

2.13.16
dear whomever reads this,

apologies for the lack of replies ive been giving out, stressful things are going on and honestly im not in a good place right now. i hope everyone can understand.

much much love, stay strong angel, i promise youll make it through. xx

sincerely, a friend.

Dear whomever reads this,

Love is supposed to be gentle. Never easy, but never degrading. You’re supposed to uplift your partner in ways that others failed to. You’re never supposed to be the one tearing your partner down. You’re never supposed to lay a harmful hand on your partner. Nor are you supposed to manipulate them. Love is pure. Love isn’t having a claim on someone or owning them. It’s sacrifice. Commitment. Patience. Give and take. It is supposed to be equal. Anything less, you are simply not made for each other.
Never stay in a relationship because you feel you won’t find someone to want you, there are over 7 billion people in the world. I promise you will be wanted the way you deserve within time.

Sincerely, a friend. x

Sorry for the disappearing act I pulled. It’s been a while. I love you guys, thank you for the kind messages. But I am back. x

3.8.17

dear whomever reads this,

you are so much more than your looks.
your looks shouldn’t be dependent on your worth, and they’re not.
sincerely, a friend.

dear everyone who reads this,

YOU ARE IMPORTANT. i cannot stress this enough! someone somewhere will most definitely miss you if you were to disappear one day. YOU MATTER. ignore anyone who says differently, because they’re just living a sad sad life.

so,

if you’re looking for a sign not to give up, this is your sign. i love you & you’ll never be alone. message me please. stay safe and think this through.

much love.
sincerely, a friend. x

12.29.16

Dear whomever reads this,

Sometimes you can’t always be there for everyone. Sometimes you need to be there for yourself before you can help anyone else, and that’s more than okay.

Sincerely, a friend.

12.25.16

dear whomever reads this,

merry christmas.

Please be careful and drive with care. Someone cares about you okay. Perhaps this holiday isn’t as happy to you as it is to someone else, but you matter and it will be okay. I promise.

Much love,

Sincerely, a friend.

12.18.16

Dear whomever reads this,

reminder—

It’s okay to be happy. Its okay to be sad. Its okay to be selfish when needed. Its okay to fail. Its okay to cry. Its okay to be angry. And its most definitely okay to be human.

What isn’t okay is giving up.

You’re not a quitter and you’ve made it this far. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and try again.

Sincerely, a friend.

9.5.16

dear whomever reads this,

**important!!**

okay guys, lets do something a bit different.

i want you guys to comment under this post, and rant. just rant. get EVERYTHING, off of your chest. this is a judgement free zone, this is a SAFE haven for you.

so feel free to talk about anything and everything please. i feel i don’t interact with you enough and that changes now.

and if you see a comment and one of our friends are struggling, maybe you can give them advice or just give them a friend to talk to. because here on this acc, we are all friends; we are family. so sh and rant away loves.

much love xx

(p.s. this idea only works if you participate )

sincerely, a friend.

can you feel my heart?

that sinking feeling