If you simply cannot understand why someone is grieving so much for so long, then consider yourself fortunate enough that you do not understand.

And what shall we do, we who did not die? What shall we do now? How shall we grieve, and cry out loud, and face down despair?

June Jordan

bad days can come so fast

Notes on asteroids in the natal chart

To start off, astrology can be speculative - even if you have any of these placements, especially the ones in the 2nd part, it is not always likely that these things can happen to you.

• Athene (881) in the 5th House or conjunct Mars can show someone who practices martial arts.
• Tantalus (2102) conjunct Venus, Mars or in the 5th or 7th House can show attraction to people who are unavailable, people who are hard to get.
• Cupido(763) in the 5th or 7th House can show someone that falls in love very fast, someone who is very romantic and likely very lucky or fulfilled in their love life. However it can also show selfish behavior, inability to consider the partner’s feelings.
• Erato(62) in the 3rd House or conjunct Venus, Mercury or Moon can show a talent for romantic writing and poetry, song lyrics.
• Angel(11911) in the 9th or 12th House can show great enlightenment, someone very connected to their higher self, their guardian angel, it is also connected to divine guidance and higher protection.
• Telephus(5264)/Sybil(4679) conjunct MoonorTelephus/Sybil in the 12th House can show extremely strong intuition. Telephus or Sybil in the 3rd House or conjunct Mercury,Uranus might show propehtic power, clairvoyance.
• Child (4580) conjunct Ascendant can show someone who is very youthful whether it’s by appearance or behaviour. Sun conjunct Child - youthful spirit, Mercury conjunct Child - child-like curiosity.
• Child in the 4th House might show a Peter Pan syndrome, refusal to grow up and let go out their childhood.
• Lust(4386) in the 1st House can make someone very desirable, very sexually attractive, but it can also show that their attractionn to others can be primal or superficial.
• Aeschylus(2876) in the 8th can show death with unusual circumstances, death that is surrounded by mystery, people who have gone missing.

TW for the next part:

• Persephone(399) in the 6th House can show food complex, eating disorders; body image issues can be seen w/ Persephone in the 1st House or conjunct the Ascendant.
• Persephone conjunct Moon or Venus can show attachment to loved ones, separation anxiety.
• Persephone conjunct or square Moon can show a complex relationship with the mother, while Persephone conjunct or square Sun can show a complex relationship with the father. Parental trauma, etc. Persephone in 4th can show general trauma connected to family. Perspehone in 5th or 8th House can show trauma connected to sex.
• Grieve(4451) in the 4th House can show loss of parent, loss of family member. Grieve in 3rd can show loss of sibling or relative. Grieve in the 5th House can show loss of children and in the 7th House it can show loss of partner. Grieve conjunct Moon can show loss of mother/maternal figure, Grieve conjunct the Sun can show loss of father of paternal figure.
• Ophelia(171) in the 8th House can show death by drowning.

Note: You can find these asteroids on astro.com in the extended chart selection - Additional objects and Asteroid name/number list. I have included the numbers above.