i hope all lesbians with complex identities are having a good day today! youre not any less of a lesbian and certainly not a bad person because your identity is outside of the norm. youre wonderfully unique and deserving of love!
there’s no one right way to be a lesbian. you can be nonbinary and a lesbian. you can be multisexual and a lesbian. you can be ace or aro and a lesbian. you can be all three at once. you can be a male lesbian. you don’t even have to be a woman. if you feel that the lesbian label is what best describes you, then you go for it. we couldn’t be happier to have you.
shout out to lesbians who are men in some way! demiboy lesbians, masculenby lesbians, genderfluid lesbians, bigender lesbians, nonbinary men lesbians, agender man lesbians, transmasc lesbians, trans men lesbians, lesbians who are on the edge between or are both butch and trans men, lesboys, lesbians who are also gay men, and any other variety of lesbians who fall under this!
your complex gender and orientation identity is something to be celebrated, and youre a shining example of what being queer is all about- proudly being uniquely yourself and breaking out of the bounds of societal norms! were queer and were not here to be easily digestable to others or water ourselves down, were here to unabashedly be ourselves and make others get used to it, were not going anywhere!
•They could identify as a cis man, but view their sexuality as lesbian due to being intersex.
•They could be multigender and identify as both a cis man and another identity that’s more commonly associated with lesbianism.
•They could have a complicated relationship to their gender due to being disabled or a POC.
•They could be in a system that has some alters that are cis men and some alters that are lesbians.
→ A cisgender man attracted exclusively to men isn’t necessary gay he can be a lesbian if he experiece lesbian attraction,, no matter if this attraction is only directed to men and still consider himself 100% cis man.
Lesbian attraction:it’s when you experiece a romantic/sexual attraction to someone that is lesbian. You feel ‘lesbianity’. Lesbian attraction works like a gender, but not regarding to gender identity but regarding to sexual/romantic attraction.
my take on homoflexible lesbian and lesboy flags for tf2 anon! the left flags are based on this homoflexible flag, the right ones are based on this homoflexible flag, and the rest of the colors are from the lesbianandlesboyflags.
flag id: the top left flag has 4 stripes. in order, they are orange, light purple, dark red-pink, and very dark pink-purple. the top right flag has 3 vertical stripes on each side of the flag and 7 horizontal stripes in the center, with the third and fifth being larger than the rest and the fourth being larger than those. the vertical stripes on the left side are dark red-pink, red-pink, and white; the vertical stripes on the right side are white, orange, and red-orange; and the horizontal stripes are black, grey, white, black, white, grey, and black.
the bottom left flag has 4 stripes. in order, they are light orange, light purple, dark blue, and dark purple-pink. the bottom right flag has 3 vertical stripes on each side of the flag and 7 horizontal stripes in the center, with the third and fifth being larger than the rest and the fourth being larger than those. the vertical stripes on the left side are pink-red, light orange, and white; the vertical stripes on the right are white, soft indigo, and dark blue; and the horizontal stripes are black, grey, white, black, white, grey, and black. end id.
I made some combo flags b/c I’m in a mood and felt like pissing some people off actually. Anyways here’s a flag for Lesboys with NPD and a flag for Lesboys with ASPD.
[Image ID: A flag with nine equally-sized horizontal stripes. From top to bottom, the colors are deep blue, purple, pink, orange, white, light lime green, green, blue, and deep grey. End ID.]
a gender related to bunnies and lesboys, bunny lesboys!
[Image ID: A flag with nine equally-sized horizontal stripes. From top to bottom, the colors are medium brown, orange, golden, off-white, medium brown, off-white, orange, pink, and deep indigo. End ID.]
lotus lesbian or just “all loving” lesbian is for lesbian who can love anyone no matter what gender one is, this isnt saying one is inherently a mspec-lesbian eventho their attraction could be classified as one. this can be also used when one is lesbian n also experiences multi-attraction but cannot get themself be connected to mspec terms to be added next to their lesbian identity or one just personally definds their lesbianism including other form of attraction than just “queer attraction at women etc”. even lesbians who r so called “gender blind” n dont mind dating ppl eventho others gender experience might not perfectly fit into ones “queer attraction at women” due to gender blindess while forming emotional feelings
all loving lesbian doesnt have to include every gender but has a big spectrum of genders outside of “classic” view/experience on lesbianism. label is also open for ppl who do identify with mspec labels, this isnt exclusive just to lesbians who are open to dating multiple genders but don’t identify with mspec terms
![A rectangular page with two images. At the very top are the words "We took different roads...", beneath which are a cluster of pride pins bearing different pride flags. Left to right, top to bottom, those flags are: butch, polyamorous, futch, asexual, trans, sapphic, genderfluid, aromantic, transmasc, nonbinary, transfemme, bi lesbian (new), bi lesbian (original), femme, intersex, achillean. Next is an image of a group of 5 non-white people of varying body types and skin tones who each wear some of the pins from the above cluster on their jackets (their detailed descriptions are given in the next paragraph). Behind the group is the orange-white-pink lesbian flag. Beneath them, at the bottom of the screen are the words "...but found the same home". [end of general description] [clothing description of each person]: From left to right, top to bottom: Person 1 presents wearing a crimson red, sporty-looking jacket. They have light beige skin, bright brown eyes, and short, straight brown hair parted at the middle with reddish dyed bangs hanging to each side. They are waving and wearing the butch, trans, and transfemme pins. Person 2 has smoky grey brown hair that is long at the front as a pair of braids by their ears, but is shaved into an undercut around the rest of their head. Their bangs are wavy, and parts of their hair is dyed a teal green. They have a medium copper like tone with bright orange-brown eyes, are holding up a peace hand gesture, and wearing a salmon crop jacket on which is pinned the genderfluid, achillean, sapphic, and bi lesbian (new design) pins. Person 3 has a rounded chin and fatter neck, and sports facial hair under their nose and jaw. They have a deeply tanned complexion, dark brown eyes, and short choppy blue hair that hangs off to one side and is shaved on the other. Their jacket is orange and wears the intersex, trans, and transmasc pins. Person 4 has voluminous, wavy curly auburn hair and aurburn eyes with a medium beige complexion, darker facial freckles, and square glasses. They have a light peach blazer jacket with the futch, nonbinary, and aromantic pins. Person 5 has a deep brown complexion, medium bown eyes and long hair that has been styled into locks where each lock has been dyed varying saturations of lavender so that some are more slate toned while others are more purple. They wear a soft pink hoodie jacket with the ace, femme, polyam, and original bi lesbian flag pins.](https://64.media.tumblr.com/e9f4cc2487570096516da348b6a964cc/0d1a4db2aacb9fd6-2c/s640x960/a8afdb4bad0a49991399e5a54d4ccfa6d84baa53.png)
